But he's very tall and muscular and I'm only 5'1 and very skinny, so it doesn't look weird or wrong. Like, anyone can hardly tell there's 5 years of age difference but once I tell them they make a disappointing face, specially my friends.
What do you guys think? Is it really that weird?
And I repeat it again, I'm really skinny and short. I look way younger than I am.
I am 23 years old, would it be weird for me to date 19 year old guy?
Your body has nothing to do with it. You should date people based on maturity, personality, sensibilities, and where you are at in your lives. Develop other things in yourself, don't focus on your body. If you prioritize your body, so will they. And then you'll find how easily replaceable you are.
Like most things, it all depends on what u want out of it. Lemme explain. Or... try to, anyhow.
Im betting your friends are giving you the stink eye over this cat because he can't go to the bar with you guys. Or maybe they have another person in mind for you.
If it was either of those, id be blown away. Folks in their early 20s aren't known for their stellar intentions.
You are 23. I hope that the idea of settling down isn't on your mind. Go have fun. If u like this dude, and he treats you right, knock yourself out.
When/If the day comes for u to pick a long term mate, try to stick with this simple equation. Would you have, at least, known of this person in high school? Like, as a maximum age difference... plus or minus 3 years. For example, lets say you are 32. He should be no older than 35, and no younger than 29.
But for now... go have fun. Be careful. Trust your insticts.
Unless one of you are 8, your age shouldn't matter. You both are old enough ans capable of making your own choices and liking whoever you like, if you like one another then that's just how it is.
You shouldn't have to rely or make your choices based on what others think. Some people will always think whatever you are doing is weird but why listen to them? Your age shouldn't be a factor in your guy's relationship so don't let it be, enjoy yourselves.
5 years difference? You’re 23 and he’s 19... anyway, why put emphasis on the things that really have little significance for compatibility? You’re height & weight vs his is a non-factor. For one, at 19, most males have reached their maximum height. The next question I have is how does the making of ANY type of face by your friends have an influence on a relationship that none of them are involved with? None of them spend even a fraction of the time with him as you do, so how could they possibly have developed any kind of informed opinion? No one else knows him in the way that you do. If the relationship lasts, will it matter at all to you when you’re 33 and he’s 29?
According to looks, there may not be any difference. But the difference is because of age. Let me explain...
A 19 year old is most probably in the first year of his university life while you being 23 most probably is in final year. Like any 19 year old, he may be excited to get into a relationship, so the chances are more for him to use you.
19 year olds are naive when compared to 23 year olds (I say this because my sis is 18 and I'm 22)
19 is the last year of teenage. They're not emotionally or mentally mature yet, although they're physically mature.
You're 23 so you should be with someone who is in his 20s, he will understand you better than a 19 year-old. (Trust me, I'm now dating someone who is 22, the same age as me, and sometimes I do feel that he's a bit immature (emotionally), I love him very much tho, but boys mature later than girls)
I don't think that's weird. I'm 29 though and wouldn't hesitate to date someone 5 years older than me (especially if they had a body like that, he's a lucky boy). It definitely does have more stigma attached to it if you're a younger couple and if the girl is older, but what if on the off chance he's the guy you spend the rest of your life with and you stopped it before it started because of what your friends think. Plus, I bet his friends find out about his gorgeous older girlfriend and think he's the man.
no. you both are similar in age and should have enough in common. The problem is when two people are too far apart in age, it would be unlikely they would have anything in common.
For me at age 25, dating a 19 yr old would be kinda like dating a kid who doesn't know anything and it will require me to teach them very basic things such as how the world works. I would be spending more time teaching than dating. Don't even mention the differences in maturity.
This will work. If I'm with a woman who's older than me, but looks young then it wouldn't matter to me as long as the age gap is way too high. 5 years probably isn't that high, but nothing so much that we're no more on the same page is what I mean. If it doesn't work, it's because of either of you, or both of you and not the ages. If you both think y'all go well with eachother, there's no problems. Go ahead.
Not at all, just don't act like his mother or boss him around because if you do that, he is going to recoil and turn away from you because your age difference will play a part in what you said at that point.
While age does being wisdom physically speaking I for one have been the same guy since 19 and I'm 23 now. The challenge you'll face is mentality since you are at a slightly later stage in life but still if you bond it will work.
I am currently seeing if not exactly dating a girl who turns 26 this year making her about 3 years older than me and anyone who sees us together could swear I'm older these things are not general rules as long he's of legal age he's fair game
Ok just don’t think about what people wld actually say about the relationship you two have, like u want him n he wants u its tht simple that u two are meant to be for the moment now n beyond, like so what if he is 19 n you’re older , things works then it works just dont let anyone tell you any different just enjoy what you’re doing ok
It the MENTAL 'age difference' that will define how the relationship goes... if its a 'fling' use protection and f#ck each other's brains out! REAL conversation comes usually after you BOTH do. Its said: "The FIRST is to quench the 'thirst'... appetites sated, NOW meaningful conversation is possible.
I don't care if you were fat and 6'6 tall. You can date him. There is nothing wrong with dating a 18 year old when you're in you were just 18 not that long ago. I know he is 19. People need to STOP with this acting like 5 years is a lot. I see old couple 10 years apart!!!
Nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 turning 20 and have been in a sexual relationship with a woman who was 24. Not illegal and you're technically two adults who are sexually and mentally attracted to each other. Just have fun, who knows he may be mature or he may not be mature. It's your choice to decide if you want anything serious with him after making that decision. Best of luck
Would be unusual. Don't tell anyone his age. It's none of their business anyway. See how it works out for you two. He might be unusual guy in the maturity department.
Ask yourself why do you want to date him? And that is what you go with. Your not much in years older, but smarts wise (Well) you think more, the very fact of this question Says lots. Can you see him thinking of doing this? I was his age, and I didn’t for sure!
Girls generally mature faster than guys and therefore prefer a guy who is older and more mature than the guys of their own age. This all has to do with biology. Not odd at all.
This girl can date this 19 year old and depending on the guy, she would probably notice a difference in maturity and mindset compared to a guy in his mid twenties.
I honestly don't think it's weird... You like who you like no matter the age difference. Although, if you were talking about someone underage, then I'd be a little disappointed... But, 19 is a great age for someone to make their own choices and live life with someone they love. Nothing wrong with dating a 19 year old.
If others want to look down on you and your choices. Let them. They don't control you or your love life.
I saw a reality show, of online couples, meeting in person. One of the guys had 54 years, while his partner, 19. Now, that's weird.
I am a horny bastard, but even I have my limits. 18+, as long as I am not old enough to be her dad.
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4 years is nothing and the "disappointing faces" won't likely be because of appearance, it's his age specifically probably. Not the 4 yr difference, but that he's 19 as in general, not many guys that age are looking for anything serious. So when you tell people, they probably are thinking "oh this won't last", but only they could say. Try asking one of them sometime why the disappointing face? lol
I don't know why you had to post almost nude pics are you lonely lol. You could post selfie, but posting underwear is a bit um I don't know how to call it. Lol as you like.
Not really, you can’t think about what other people think, only what you think, if you feel uncomfortable at the thought of that that yes that might be a problem, but your both if legal age so, and you don’t have to tell people that, as long as your happy it’s no one else’s buisness.
I didn't give you the kind attention you were looking for. That's what separates me from the actual simps. Stick to you wishful thinking, little snowflake. It's obvious you're whoring here for attention
Gotta love how you left all the simps with the nice compliments and came straight to me with your replies. Thanks for validating my words about your insecurity, little snowflake 😂😂
