Is this really the era of hookup culture and real relationships are doomed? (Page 2)
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Well, I’m getting married hopefully next year, so I’ll be 22. I defied this problem.
I try to surround myself around people who value real relationships. I don’t go to the bars or clubbing.
Woww congratulations!! 😍
@sarahemilyyy Thanks
Let me tell you something number one would you walk around with a bag of Gold without an armed escort no you will walk around like your Iraq or something treat your marriage the exact same way be pre-emptive with other people Protect America is like as a bag of gold act like you're walking around with an M16 I'm not kidding I wish I were you'll see what I'm talking about coming down the road
@yofuknutz Can you explain?
You know what you realize how many people are looking at your marriage and looking at your man like he's a piece of filet mignon steak
@yofuknutz Uhh, why? That's weird.
Yeah, it's the age of the fasf food, i mean fast fuck, service.
Just talk to guys normally and don't go looking for dates in clubs or bars. You will do fine.
But where is normally?
Bouldering gyms, motorcycle trials, slackline, camping clubs, hobby clubs or other types of social circles where people who share an interest come to chill/practice their skills.
Is this all true? Sorry to disappoint but he is totally right.
Its 1/10 you may find someone looking for something real and meaningful rest it wham bam thank you mam!!
Its become easily available so no one wants to work for it or try to have something which is more real.
Well women these days only want 6'2"+ chads so yes. Chads will be chads and only offer Carrines (6/10 and under) hookups offering relationships to Stacys (7.5/10 and above) with a great personality when they are ready.
Lol so true
its only an era of hookup culture if you are vulnerable to that. only date men who want marriage. no dating apps, be clear that you want kids. ask direct relationship questions on the FIRST date like "how many kids do you want" and "where do you see us in 5 years"
The more things change the more they stay the same.
There's hookup culture, and then there are people actually wanting to find a mate and start a family. It's totally up to YOU.
I think that’s a bit dramatic 😂 don’t get me wrong dating Sucks orangutan bootyhole but real relationships aren’t doomed or dead people are just too lazy to put in the effort it takes to have a real relationship everyone wants the prize but don’t wanna race everybody just playing games no one is serious about it
Good lord I hope not. I can only do hook ups with the same person few times before I start to catch feelings
SAME
Yes, the west is in decline and there is no going back. Relationships, romantic love, etc. is all a thing of the past. Time to accept that as fact and start holding accountable those responsible, they need to be made to answer for this shit show.
I've felt like this for a long time, which is why I've stayed single for 17 years now. People today will either hook up or get intoa relationship, but there's hardly any commitment. When the excitement fades away and things get a bit "boring" then people just move onto someone or something else. And usually it's the women who get bored and move on the quickest.
That was the 60’s and 70’s hippy era...
Today’s kids are really fucked up!
I pitty this world ! Parents nowadays have raised self serving, selfish, non respectful, entitled trash! They follow without question. They’re zombies. Awful little creatures that aren’t like able and I wonder what’s going to happen when they’re thrown into the real world...
Hook up culture isn't especially prevalent. People are just really scared of getting hurt, so they don't do much hooking up. Relationships are definitely on the rocks though.
You know that I am old-fashioned and I have a hard time with dating apps because I am used to courting my dates in person. The old-fashioned way.🌹
YES. ITS FAST FOOD RELATIONSHIPS.
Do not prostitute thy daughter, to cause her to be a whore; lest the land fall to whoredom, and the land become full of wickedness.
PROVERBS
Yes, it is true. It's complete madness out there.
But if good people like you stay out of the game, it will never get any better.
I hear what you're saying I'm with you theoretically anyway but the reality is like the side of the truck spray painting the Vermin have inherited the Earth in the movie The Road Warrior there is a point of that the only way not to lose is not to play very fucking sad indeed
@yofuknutz. Well I didn't mean to play THEIR game. You have to play by your own rules and be smart about it.
Whatever the ERA maybe but one doesn't have to go by that. People should do what they actually believe in, they should have their own morals, values and follow them.
Yes and no. For some it is. For some it isn't. You can know by the first message if they are putting in any effort.
I don't know. Every time I suggest a hookup they don't want to. Maybe you have to do it in person.
I did online dating for like 5 years thinking I was going on dates and only maybe got 2 or 3 on a second date out of like 100 girls. It wasn't until the last three girls I took out and listening to my best friend who's told me all along that I'm supposed to fuck these girls. Never got to try it cause covid hit and it's hard to get a date now. I still think it's the same.
It’s been harder to date because of covid? People are still hooking up where I’m at
This is online dating I'm talking about. It wasn't until about a month ago that people. got back on the dating sites.
hookup culture existed before. it was just not public like it is today.
Yes but there are great people out there. You need to choose wisely. Sometimes being with someone who has mutual feelings and want the same out of life will make it easier.