that being said, do you think that hookup culture or the culture non-relationship sexual arrangements is diminishing the future prospects for women for having a relationship?
Because what I have seen is most of the teen and young adults who sleep around because they can without thinking of the future and how this isn't good for them end up with either self esteem issues where they end up in bad relationships again and again which takes a toll on their mental and emotional health since they don't seem to find the right partner.
Once past the ages of 24-25 these women start to yearn for a fulfilling relationship with a loving partner who respects them and showers them with love with a possibility of being married down the line, but the non-douche, non-assholic guys who look for relationship usually stay away from those ladies who have a past of sleeping around and promiscuity because that shows a tendency of inability to hold serious relaationships which might lead to the guys ending hurt or being cheated on in the end.
And to be honest, if I were a guy, I'd have the same outlook.
I was one of those women in my late teens, but someone woke me up and made me realize the situation and changed since then.
But I hate it when I see women breaking down emotionally for not being able to find the right guys after years and years of sleeping around, hookups, friends with benefits.
- Yes, it is ruining relationships for womenVote A
- No, it isn'tVote B
- I have a different opinion (state below)Vote C
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think so. A lot of women in these times are not angels, and are secretly having casual sex with lots of guys while they lie about it or pretend to be relationship-oriented. I've known many such women, and I'm sure other men know them as well.16THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
It's ruining it for me. I am not a woman who sleeps around out of relationships. And the expectation of guys on online dating or in general is blowjob at least on second date. I don't blame men. There are those women that caused them to lose faith and turned them into fuckboys probably. But I noticed people lost the ability to be loyal, faithful, respectful, and they have no ability to try to connect and love someone deeply beyond the bodily functions, and looks.16THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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