+1 yWell, I only care about my standards, not society's standards, and although there is some overlap, they are not always congruent. So essentially, yes I would date/marry a girl who I thought was attractive, regardless of whether society also thought she was attractive. However, I wouldn't date/marry a girl I didn't think was attractive.
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+1 yThe beauty standard I am attracted to is the woman who I find beautiful in my eyes. Society has fuck all to do with my choice in what is beauty standards.
If by society's standards we mean fake tits, fake tans, fake nails, fake lashes, lip/but injections and looking like plastic barbies, then society is what is fucked up in terms of beauty standards.20 Reply
+1 yYes definitely most the guys I've crushed on are not what society would say is traditionally attractive. I like men who have something different about them and stand out amongst the crowd of average looking people. I love a guy with a big nose especially.
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I mean sure but it depends I guess? Beauty standards now are very wishywashy, it changes from big breasts big bums big hips to skinny to body positivity
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u +1 yI did. We were married for 17 years. It ended, but not because of her lack of beauty.
10 Reply 2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Who's standards, she fits into my standards just fine look deep into her eyes see the beauty within there's a very beautiful carrying person on the inside that has a beautiful heart that's what her eyes tell me the outside is just bonus I was hoping this question had a picture on this page to so now I'm going to go back and I'm going to look even deeper she's very beautiful
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+1 yOf course, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what one finds beautiful is entirely subjective. Also nobody's perfect so fuck it find someone who makes you happy because when we're all 90 years old ain't nobody looking like a Victoria's secret model
10 Reply447 opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes of course. They are still people with feelings who need to be loved. To me, there is no such thing as society’s beauty standards, as everyone is beautiful in their own way. I don't care if you are not model material, Ii don't care if you are average or have sometging on your face like freckles, pimples, scars, acne etc.
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+1 ySociety has never determined my attraction and never will. I remember when I was in 6th grade how pop culture was making a big deal out of certain actresses etc. Those at my school would walk around in t shirts with pictures of those actresses on them. It was ridiculous.
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+1 yI'd have to be able to get a date in the first place but as someone who is so far out of society's beauty standards I can honestly say that in my experience most of the answers here should be a no as most of you truly would not go any lower than a 4/10. Be honest.
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+1 ySociety can fuck itself in the rear with a rusty spike, if you ask my humble opinion. If the dude is of YOUR taste, go for it.
30 Reply 2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. i wouldn't want to marry anyone but i would and have dated many women that dont fit into societal norms and they actually tend to be more interesting as people
10 Reply3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. I could probably over look something like this if she looked like that.
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i will say she look soooo cooool like a super sexy vilian for a movie :)
1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Since my standards are completely different from society (mostly) than yes. Scars are beautiful by the way, so girl in the picture is as well.
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+1 yYes as societies beauty standards are fucked up.
I set my own levels20 Reply- 643 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yThat wouldn't even be on my list of criteria. If she has one interesting physical trait that would be all I would need to be attracted to her. But frankly the most beautiful trait a woman can have in my opinion is if she likes me.
00 Reply Ofc, If I truly love them it shouldn't matter, plus beauty is subjective :)
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+1 ySociety doesn't have beauty standards, individuals have beauty standards, and they vary from person to person.
10 Reply 449 opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes, the beauty is secondary to a good character and good personality.
10 ReplyYes, of course. There is absolutely no way we would have almost 8 billion people on this planet if men cared about societal beauty standards.
10 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Erm... you're marrying the person, not a bloody society.
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+1 yIt depends on the circumstances. If she is naturally ugly, then no. If she had an accident that was out of her control, I could look past the disfigurement and marry her.
10 Reply 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Why not?
Society's "beauty standards" is just and aggregate of what most people find attractive, it has zero to do with what I find attractive.10 ReplyOf course!! As long as you have a good personality, I’d date you!
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+1 yYes. It turns out I find a LOT of things most guys don’t like as hot. Hard to explain. Like teeth crooked in a certain way.
10 ReplyThat girl in the pic is gorgeous. It dont matter if she's got weird stuff on her face. Beauty is hard to stain I guess lol.
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. What kind of standard and how is she failing at it? If its something she can't control then I won't factor it in.
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+1 yIs society marrying them?
I really don't think I'd care as long as I found them attractive.10 Reply Yes! If they are kind, loving, respectful of others feelings, loyal and faithful.
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+1 yi don't care for "societies" beauty standards. i have my own. though obviously they do overlap with some that are prevalent in society. doesn't mean they aren't my own.
00 Reply 3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yeah. If I find them attractive, then that’s what I go with.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yDepends on standard.
I would not mind that birth marc on face like on pic.
I even like freckles...10 Reply- 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yAbsofuckinglutely & beautiful she is on her own way.
00 Reply 6K opinions shared on Dating topic. All that matters is if I find her attractive, it doesn't matter whether society finds her attractive.
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+1 yIts not about beauty its about love not every guy is same if a guy loves you truly he just want you and your loyalty not your beauty
10 Reply16.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yeah, there are more important criteria from my point of view
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+1 yShe just has to be beautiful to me. So yes, but I would like to date her first. You're going all the way to marriage.
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+1 yAs long as I find them attractive, I dont care.
Of course... I'm pretty picky about my women which is an issue.00 Reply - 948 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yMe not marrying has nothing to do with beauty standards... it has everything to do with my sanity.
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+1 yYes. I don't much like girls who are so skinny. I like some meat on the bones, some curves and handholds (not to mean chubby). Also, natural beauty is great, no need for tons of makeup.
00 Reply if I think she is beautiful.. that's all I need
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yYes. Men generally don't give a crap about what "society" thinks in this regard.
10 ReplyI don't even know what societies beauty standards are.
00 Reply8.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes, I do not care about what society thinks is okay.
00 ReplyYea I would. My beauty standards. Actually most of my standards tend not to align with society’s😂. So yea I for sure would.
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+1 yyeah i would. also i would give her extra cuddles to make her feel good
10 ReplyYep... I will like to marry an acid affected women if I like her.
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+1 ywhy would i let society pick my S. O. society does not know what i like, or who i can get along with
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+1 yI typically don't find whatever fits into societys beauty standards attractive
10 Reply the more she doesn't fit into society standards, the better!
00 ReplySince I, am never getting married again. No!! Lol. Would I, date them, move in with them, and plan to live them forever? Hell yeah!!!
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yIf they fit into my beauty standards, sure. But I admit there's quite a lot of overlap.
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+1 yYes I would just because she doesn't fit society beauty standards don't mean she doesn't fit mine
10 Reply Yeah but societies standards are such a huge spectrum anyway.
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+1 yYou would have to be more specific but sure, to a degree.
10 ReplyThat woman, whoever she is is very beautiful, everyone has flaws, nobody is perfect.
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+1 yAs long as I am attracted to her... sure.
10 Reply 889 opinions shared on Dating topic. Yeah I don't care what others think
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yAs long as I was attracted to her, that is all that matters
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+1 yYes. Most definitely.
10 Reply2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. As long as she fits mine
10 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. I find personality the #1 beauty requirement
10 Replyyes... but I don't date..
00 ReplyAs long as we love each other , who cares?
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