Would you date and marry and settle someone who is a 5 or 6 or below on a beauty scale but has a good personality, if so why or why not?

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I won't be with a woman who is a devil no matter how gorgeous she is nor would I settle with a woman who isn't at least an 8 on the beauty scale with a big butt and breasts and is latina origin and has a cool personality. My standards are firm.

nella965 · Accepted Answer

I don't really know what you mean by posting all those pics. But none of them are genuinely pretty. Just women trying really hard to look like sluts.

But for me, I would not date someone below a 5 out of 10. Because I just know the relationship wont' last long term. I would end up looking at more attractive people and probably cheat. Some people are ok with dating unattractive folks. I have a couple of guy friends who have dated some unattractive girls. It really depends on the person. Some people don't care about physical appearance at all. I definitely can't marry someone who I feel uncomfortable looking at. I will make an exception though. If a guy has the perfect type of personality I want, I will date him even if he's short or not the most eye catching. He can't be ugly though.

Attraction has more to do with looks. It also has to do with personality. If you value looks over personality, you are not someone worthy of marrying or dating. Because one day, looks will disappear and all you're left with will be the person you married. If you can't be happy loving someone for who they are, you are NOT fit for marriage.

Saville_Row · Accepted Answer

Come on. We can't all have a 0.7 waist to hip ratio, even if we are latinas.

Regarding the face, none of those girls are really special. They have heavy makeup and fake eyelashes, so maybe in that point you would not have any problem.

As of myself, I would date and marry a 5 or 6. Because they could be that number for someone else, but for me they could be a 10. Have you seen interracial couples? People who are not really the ideal in their countries and then, they are for someone from another place.

Exterminatore · Accepted Answer

5 or 6 below it’s too much. I won’t go any less that a 6. So that would take it to 1 or 0 from my lower limits. They would look like the elephant man at that level. To me a 6 is a girl with assets other than beauty - like personality. I have no issue compromising on the looks for other things like personality but I just can’t go that far down the scale.

KrakenAttackin · Accepted Answer

Yes. Really attractive women are almost always suffering from major personality defects. I have dated really hot women and was stupid enough to marry one (and divorce her).

Good personality and quality person are so much more important than her being "hot".

mrfoox · Answer

I don't really believe in a beauty scale. If I like my partners personality, I will think they're beautiful even with their imperfections. So I got no 'look' standards I keep myself by when dating and especially not when looking for long term. I have features I find more attractive than others, but my partner don't have to be meeting all my preferences. I want someone who works well with me and who loves me

SpacedCharr · Answer

Looks are easy to change. Personalities can go a whole lifetime without change or improvement.

AwesomeCookie · Answer

Yes I would. Our personalities meshing is so much more important because we're both going to age anyhow!

SueShe · Answer

Could you give me a link to an official government site where this beauty scale is found?

The internet is unable to give me that scale despite searching for it. A six on a scale from one to six (like the one applicable in many European countries), would be a person of an exceptional beauty except that this scale is, just like your opinion, totally biased and subjective.

Therefore, yes, of course, I would get together with a person that has a perfect one on the scale. The looks are unimportant. The inner beauty is what counts.

Rica_ChicaUSA · Answer

I'M WITH YOU. I am the same way: I won't lower my standards. That would be a disgrace to myself.

Wow, somebody else on here actually holds to their standards regardless of what everyone else thinks. I salute you for that. That's a rarity.

Anonymous · Answer

You kind of remind me of my younger brother, he’s into Hispanic girls. Nothing is wrong having a type you like or having standards. But what if who your person is doesn’t fit what you thought you wanted? 🤔 I just feel like when people are so specific in the type of person they want especially physically you’re axing out a lot of good potential mates.

Rei13 · Answer

If I am being honest I only date people that have a good personality and are attractive appearance-wise (to me). So at least a 7 preferably. Personality can certainly compensate for looks but if the person isn’t attractive then I can’t see myself staying interested in that manner outside of friendship. My current partner is a 10 to me, but could easily be a 4/5 to other people

Justin_Forthekill · Answer

The whole beauty scale thing is a load of crap. Beauty is subjective, and most of what people call 'beauty' is really just 'sexy', big tits and a tight dress does NOT a good partner make. The only thing that matters is personal attraction. I've had girlfriends who were a 'plain jane' look, I've had girlfriends who looked like models, and the only thing I truly wanted from any of them was warmth and comfort, intimacy. That's something any human being can provide.

jman2020 · Answer

I've just tried to clear this up. But, it will never happen lol. Yes, attraction plays a small part in relationships, but the biggest part is personality. You could be the hottest person in the world and have a poor personality that would give the appearance to make you the ugliest person in the world. A great personality is great, but looks to go with it is just a bonus.

barrelobagel · Answer

I think I tend to consider people who put obvious effort into their appearance a bit more. This is mainly due to the belief that if they won't maintain their own health and dignity they won't maintain our relationship. I don't really care all too much about the physical aspects they truly can't help and may never we'll find small flaws endearing over time if we hit it off.

thegirlfromthething · Answer

5 or 6, yes, but nothing lower than that. He has to be at least average looking. Out of curiosity, do you consider yourself an 8 or higher? Because your looks impact your chances with women that attractive.

Hazelstar · Answer

Looks don't really matter. If you get dumped by an attractive dude you feel insecure and if you get dumped by an ugly dude your ego is bruised. I would say go with the whome you can have good time with and safe and secure. I have been with both of them.

JetJas · Answer

You can’t stay with someone who’s a total dickhead just because they look good. Personality makes a huuge difference on your level of attractiveness in my opinion

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah. Physical attractiveness is fine to look at, but at the end of the day I want loyalty, love, honesty and dependability. Looks take a back seat to that.

pleasestopthis · Answer

Yes a 5 or 6 is not that bad at all. If he has a good personality and the qualities I'm looking for in a guy then it's totally worth it. Eventually when I am able to see those important qualities the guy becomes more attractive in my eyes.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not reproducing any more so looks don't matter. Well they were never a thing to me.

Anonymous · Answer

They have to be a 10 in my eyes, how they rate for others is irrelevant.

kimmieomally · Answer

I think looks are over rated for me I look for someone I can get along with and can make me laugh and have a good time with.

HedwigInABox · Answer

I mean most of us are a 5 or 6. That's why we call it average. Cause the average Person looks Like that.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I don't understand how people rate others. How to know if someone is an 8 or 8.5, for instance?
Also beauty is subjective as there are some guys I find very attractive that others call average or ugly and vice-versa 🤷🏻‍♀️

slatyb · Answer

I certainly would. Intelligent, happy, intellectually compatible are about enough. Of course I have deal-breakers: obesity and smoking are two.

Massageman · Answer

If you love someone, you love them for MORE than who they look. That's not to say that the pix you chose weren't very nice-looking! They ARE very good-lookers.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Scaling people has been retarded since at least the 90's. Your 5 might be someone else's 8. Also did you need to post 7 pics to a question? I mean they're all hot, but chill bro! To answer, no I would never marry.

archiz · Answer

I am not that picky on looks, more on personality and brains.

Anonymous · Answer

So, you want an 8 with big butt and boobs and you're a 4 at your best day? Lmao

arabgoddess · Answer

I'm not so much into looks.. Personality and soul connection is what I look for

Drumlin2001 · Answer

6 is above average.  Yes. Personality is more important. Beauty is subjective, different yolks for different folks.

glutendan · Answer

Ya, but an 8 for you is not an 8 for me. I don't like big butts/boobs. Mostly I just care that she's skinny and has a somewhat oval face. Other than that it's all about her personality.

Avicenna · Answer

Yeah, I would. Personality is way more important to me than looks

Sweetnessxoxo · Answer

Hell yes i like average guys they are the number one guys i would date

jss123 · Answer

I honestly don't worry about looks. How I get treated is a much more meaningful. Remember in 30 years time looks have completely faded and you're left with her personality.

brkninpcs70 · Answer

It doesn't matter what they look like.. it's all about character, if you date and marry someone that lets opportunity control thier loyalty, you won't be married long!

Ripper_E · Answer

My standards aren't so shallow. I look at her. If shed attractive, she's attractive. That's it.

JimboGB · Answer

Of course, a genuine connection has more value than the superficial. Having said that, I am very demanding.

DWornock · Answer

Unless, they have adequate looks, I will not even consider them. Only after they pass my minimum looks test is personality a consideration.

Anonymous · Answer

It reminds me that I dated someone in 2017 even though I wasn't really strongly attracted to her, I felt i just took what I can get,. Did it for the reference experience and to break the single streak.

AynonOMouse · Answer

A 6 + in looks, and an 8 + in personality would be good. Those are the minimums for me.

poneglyphs · Answer

Sure why not if i like them does it really matter then?

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, I would. A 5 or 6 with a great personality and a great attitude is a 10 in my book. Beauty won’t last forever, but personality will.

Trooper205 · Answer

Certainly! A good heart GREATLY outweighs good looks!

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Beauty isn't every thing I take an average girl with a really cool personality

Anonymous · Answer

It is natural in both men and women that at a specific age they need a partner. With this relationship, they learn the most helpful rules of life after their breakup.

Lotusinwater · Answer

I’m not physically attractive so I’ll be lucky if I could get anyone 😂

Jjpayne · Answer

I'd settle for a good personaility

JustJen · Answer

Just imagine when those boobs start to sag.

AngelLily · Answer

I would because personality matters more too me.

abbie_wright · Answer

I'll never understand people

TonyTheGuid0 · Answer

I like your taste indeed 😋. I love me some J Lo

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Depends on how they are if nice or mean

Clayaya · Answer

I’d date a 6 if we vibe well & they’re ambitious

Iamagoodguy · Answer

I wouldn't marry so no but would date them

Anonymous · Answer

5 or 6, but the personality has to be good.

dennisklompstra · Answer

I would becouse beauty fades with time

pigoat · Answer

Nope

SamirahD22 · Answer

Yes..

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