I feel like I really messed this up?

[Anonymous]

She sent me a text late last night that I didn't see until this morning. She asked me if I was awake.

I responded "I am now how are you?" and she responded "I'm OK and you?". We did one more back and through text and that's it.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Maybe she is just busy now just like you were when she texted you. Give it time and try her again in the evening.

[kmg9150]

What exactly do you think you messed up?

[Asker]

She obviously wanted to see me... but was disappointed this morning...

[kmg9150]

Well not necessarily, awake could mean just a chat. Best advice I can give is don’t let a relationship or in hopes for one to consume your life and overtake that which keeps you unique. You shouldn’t need to feel like you always have to be available anytime someone seeks your attention. It’s not healthy on a personal well being or that of any type of relationship you engage in. It unrealistic and the ingredients of a toxic relationship. I’m not saying that’s what’s she expecting, I’m saying you shouldn’t ever feel that way ever. To often people lose who they are an get consumed with the person they a dating. You each need to maintain many parts how you life was prior to while incorporating the person in at an appropriate speed. I do know how old you are nor the subject of the what your expecting to will happening. Just don’t devote your attention to one person in chance they might seek for it at any moment, no one should expect that of you either. Life goes on and there’s plenty of opportunity out there!