I really messed up? :(?

[badblondie]

I am an idiot. I was staying at this hotel with a
few girl friends over the weekend. We all got
very drunk and I got into a fight with the girl
who got the room and she kicked me out. I
called this guy I like crying asking him to pick
me up because I didn't have my car. Him and
his friend drove 45 minutes to get me. I barely
know either of them, the guy I like is very quiet
and has not really shown much interest in
actually liking me when I see him. I drank more
in the car and the guy drove us to his house.
He left, went to bed and had his friend drive me home. This was the first time I met his friend. Well then all of a sudden me and his friend hooked up. I was wicked drunk and regretted it immediately. Now his friend acts obsessed with me and won't leave me alone. He claims he won't tell his friend but he's been getting mad at me for not reciprocating liking him back. I feel like he will tell the guy I like
eventually I'm not sure. But now the guy I like
has actually been showing interest in me and
texting me all the time finally. I don't know
what to do it was a huge mistake I barely remember the whole incident. Should I tell the
guy I like myself and have him hear it from me
first apologize and explain? I think in the
moment I really wanted it to be him (the guy I
like) but I was very drunk and also haven't had
sex in a year and this guy would not stop
talking about how he wanted to so it was the
perfect combination for a disaster. I really want
to fix this but I feel like the guy I like will never
talk to me again or give me a chance if I tell
him.

[coldmarch]

This is messed up from start to finish, first of all you got in such an argument you were kicked out (wow), giving the fault to alcohol (who you willingly drank, you weren't forced to I guess), then after seeing this consequence of being kicked out you decided to drink more (?) and then getting into a triangle because hooking up with the guy who you -knew- being friend of your crush! This attitude will absolutely put you in continuous troubles if you continue like this, acting like if there are no consequences to your actions (and consequences come always, regardless if you ignore them or not).
I say this because now that you're in a delicate situation I expect (given your attitude) you could potentially do some bigger mess in your next steps, and get ultimately rejected by anyone of these characters in the story.
In the current situation you have this new guy who is obsessed with you and can potentially trapping you by threatening to tell the truth to your crush, preventing you from getting closer to him (as he would be jealous). And, your crush, might break up with both of you because betrayed from his friend, "because of you", and so potentially quitting with you too.
In this exact situation I would probably tell the truth to both, because I couldn't afford adding layers of "secrets" and things to not tell etc. Mind that things -will- spill out, always, sooner or later. If they spill as much bigger than the current state, well...
So what you could do is to face conflicts and tell the new guy it was a mistake because you were drunk and didn't have sex in a year, but that you didn't really "want", and that he is not "my type" at all. To the guy you like, telling him what happened, without mentioning that it was him insisting because this could make things worse between them. You have to care about not making them get too much one against the other, because in these situations, where you get into a couple of longer term friends, the "intruder one" (you) is usually rejected by both parts, if something happens between them.
Unfortunately there is no 100% working method in this situation, and any move you could do (any, even keeping the secret), will necessarily include conflicts or drama or some stuff (unless you completely leave the situation and stop contacts with both). So you have to play it very consciously and to prepare for arguments (with the new guy or with both - I would say with the new guy it's quite granted in any case).

[Anonymous]

Here's what you do. Stop drinking and smoking. You will stop starting fights and having sex or getting raped by random guys you just met.

"I can drink I'm an adult" okay enjoy.

[badblondie]

You’re right

[Opinion Owner]

Yes it's doing you any favor but making wake up in the streets or in a guys bed. And your friends were asshole. You see what kind of people drink? Ones that just dump you out like nothing?

Start going to book club find new thing that are healthy. You need a therapist maybe because I don't know if you have trauma from the guy you slept with and are scared.

[Opinion Owner]

And I am not shaming you. You have shitty friends that don't care about you because most people that drink and smoke are miserable pieces of shit and they want you to be like them. They kicked you out a young girl who can get raped, hurt or killed by random men outside the hotel. You're a smart girl 23 years do something for yourself and cut them out your life. You don't need sack full of shit best friends. I understand you think they care but they don't.