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Do You Think It's Okay To Be Hooking Up With Someone While Looking To Date Others? (Page 2)
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No, I´m a rather conservative guy concerning sex. I can only have sex with a woman I already have a bond with. Sex is nothing I can have with strangers.
People have so demoralized dating and sex. And then people ask why I don't date.
There's why...
Yeah, i wanna have 10 friends with benefits at the same time right before finding my soulmate.
Don't ground me🥺 im just tryin to get ya to yell at me😂
Yell at you, that'll get you a whooping
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You know me better than thatš
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Man if you were for real I beat the brakes and the digested Mc Donald's out of your ass. Fuk is wRONG wit U? How's that baby will that work for you I'm not Your Average White Guy there's good white guy and bad white guy that have left the building for the day, me I'm a different kind of white guy. Lol š
This question is so open-ended and furtherā¦ your description then actually shows it be nothing more than an attempt to validate how you feel about it. For instance, if what you mean as hooking up with someoneā¦ is in fact just saying fucking them only once and then forgetting themā¦ just say it plainly.
Just because I tended to fuck the girl on my first date, does not mean that was my intention to go on a date with her. It just happensā¦ Iāve only known one girl who actually asked me to stop, and I didā¦ and Iām still married to her.
No apparently you misunderstood the question or didn't read the whole question. This was about people that keep a friends with benefits while they actively dating other people and usually don't tell the people they dating they still actively in a sex relationship with someone. You want to date a woman who has a friends with benefits while you guys are going out on dates? And her not tell you about it?
Honestly, If we are not in a committed relationship, have an understanding with each other to just be with each other, or talking about wanting to go in that direction. I may prefer she wasn't doing that... yet at that point I don't have the right to expect her to just be with me. So, unless we both decide to just be with each other... We are just dating and what she does in her life is none of my concern to, at that point get upset for over it. Once we decide to commit to each other... then and only then can we both expect each other to be both faithful and loyal to each other.
lol I feel like I just said the same thing like a numerous different ways. Again, No I would not like her having a friend with benefits after we began to have a serious sexual relationship with each other. I am very upfront about the fact that if she ever is with anyone other than me... I will never have anything to do with her again and I would expect her to do the same.
What's the point of looking for a romantic relationship when you're already having sex with someone else? It just shows that the person is not willing to commit to someone.
Exactly!!!
No, I mean if you're looking for an open relationship where you've made it clear to any potential dates, then maybe, but otherwise, I think it'd be disrespectful.
I agreešÆI would never do that any more than I would do an open relationship. But just read the replies and how many think it's okay. It's quite disturbing
Same here. I wouldn't trust a person who has a friends with benefits. Sex is more important to me than that. And I take great offence to infidelity, which a person like that is almost certain to do when the relationship hits a rough patch.
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This one of my deal breaker if a person give up with sex on first date to see a immature or lead them to come player and will cheat around. . They also chance of getting STD and not taking that Risk and will always rejected guys that think with their dicks.
You are replacable as simple as men are replacable too.
I don't understand what you mean. What are w talking about being replaceable and guys that only want sex with. These guys shouldn't be in my way of getting a decont Guys
Yawn.
I still don't understanding are you one that hate womendo you.
why would i hate them...
You are really boring. yikes
Why being boring. It I play video and also I don't see of point of having sex unless if you want to tons of STD.
@alpha4u thatās a you problem.
@Paolaa988 Im not the one who is bitchin...
I donāt āhook-upā never have, canāt imagine a scenario where I ever would.
That's a good thingšš
Different strokes for different folks. I for one am in your boat. I am not interested in forming love triangles, squares, rectangles, pentagons, hexagons etc.
I am either single or in a committed relationship.
Right! It's not just the casual sex or friends with benefits, it's that people dishonest with it, aren't upfront with all parties involved. I see people saying there's nothing wrong with it, but if it ain't wrong, why do they gotta lie or hide itš¤
Yup I agree. My statement alone wasn't about the point you made... but your point is also a thought I share.
Dishonesty of goals for the relationship is what an unhealthy relationship/encounter is, and not the nature of it.
I am not sure if you would agree... and this is an abstract argument from my perspective (guy's perspective: some women misrepresent themselves when it comes to marriage. They will hide events from the past they consider 'bad' or 'slutty'. Sometimes even a regular relationship. I always felt the dishonesty was immature. You cannot mislead a partner into what kind of a person you are for your own convenience. If it is act the guy is judging them on, then he is not the right guy for them... they have different world views. If the act is actually shameful, why do it?
I don't think so. Dating is one thing but hooking up is quite another
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@Brainsbeforebeauty. I completely agree. How can you commit to get to know someone when you are fucking other people? Absurd.
We totally agree on this one
Makes having children more challenging who's my daddy who is my mommy
No, If I'm dating a woman I don't want to be hooking up with other women for sex
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If you are looking to date a specific person then all other activity should cease in my opinion.
Right! But I'd go even further than that... If I was having a friends with benefits with you and I met someone at the store and we exchanged numbers and want to see if there's a connection, imma tell you the benefits have to end because I wouldn't be talking to one guy trying to get to know him and having sex with another. That wouldn't feel right to me
I totally understand what you are saying. You can fully get to know someone while having sex with another person. It's not fair to the person you may want to get to know.
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I have no issue with it if we're not in a relationship. What if you go out on a date and then you find out you two aren't compatible?
Or let's put it this way. How long is the right amount of time between having sex with someone else and dating? A day? A month?
So you think it's okay to be telling one person you like them and want to go out with them, then have sex with your friends with benefits up until you go out on the date? And then as you talking to that female, trying to get her to go on a date, are you telling them that you hooking up with someone until you know there's a connection?
I'm always upfront about my situation. Giving up regular great sex for someone that I may never see again doesn't seem like a smart risk.
I certainly understand it if they aren't okay with it and depending on chemistry we could figure out something that works for everyone or we just go our separate ways.
If it's a friend with benefits why not just put the benefits part on hold, till you know if you want to date the other person or not?
That's generally what I do. I am very good at knowing whether or not I'd get along with someone after a first date so it's less of a hold. That being said until we're official or make it known that we want to be exclusive during the dating part, I'm all for either of us messing around (of course... then she'll have to get tested).
I don't see anything wrong with either choice as long as everyone is aware.
No. But I do think it's okay to masturbate if you're single.
Well duh yeah who said it wasn't?
No, because to me that would be like sending mixed messages.
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Fuck hookup culture and casual sex. It's fucking disgusting.
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Nope, main reason is, because I fall in love easily
Listen as long as a motherfuker chips in for the rent they can stay
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No. I wouldn't want to be with a woman who was also having sex with someone else. She has to want to be with me and me only.