Do you think that it's alright to mess up in dating while you're still new at it especially if you're an adult?

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I'm a late bloomer and I will definitely make mistakes and don't really know what I'm doing at all. I got take it day by day but I know I will make mistakes and that gets me kinda nervous 😓😓

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Pasiton5 | 93 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Listen nobody makes mistake how else you gonna learn you know, now it depends on the size of the mistake and what kind of mistake you make that's what matters so make sure you learn from it you know don't do it again or you know you control it but it's quite okay to make a mistake your first time out second time out third time out you make a mistake don't go on any more dates again till you can control yourself ok

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RobT312 | 100 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Everyone makes mistakes all the time no matter what your age is. Just do your best and go with it and have fun. I still mess up

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poneglyphs

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Thanks, I just feel lost cuz I never dated and don't really know what I want? 😕😕

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poneglyphs

Thanks, I just feel lost cuz I never dated and don't really know what I want? 😕😕

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RealMarek | 235 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Nobody is perfect, but what makes you think you will mess up in a bad way? Are you liable to cheat? Have addiction issues? Pressure a woman for sex? Be mean? You don’t seem the type to do those things.

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poneglyphs

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Maybe to clingy, ask for lots of sex, I might feel insecure in a relationship, and she might think that I'm not a fully adult yet because I lack certain things.
RealMarek

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If you get far enough that you have a girlfriend, then the woman probably thinks you’re adult enough to be with, so that’s not a problem unless you’re not picking up skills and working toward being able to support yourself. If you’re on a path and a woman appreciates that, then good. As for sex, just talk about it up front once you become intimate. Ask her how much sex is reasonable and express what your needs are. I bet you would work out something that is mutually agreeable. If not, that’s a big incompatibility. The most difficult of the things you list is the feeling of insecurity. The best way to combat that is to do things that give you confidence and to avoid women who are manipulative or tend to drag you down.
RealMarek

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Above all just be yourself and stay genuine, and I think you’ll be fine.

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poneglyphs

Maybe to clingy, ask for lots of sex, I might feel insecure in a relationship, and she might think that I'm not a fully adult yet because I lack certain things.

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RealMarek

If you get far enough that you have a girlfriend, then the woman probably thinks you’re adult enough to be with, so that’s not a problem unless you’re not picking up skills and working toward being able to support yourself. If you’re on a path and a woman appreciates that, then good. As for sex, just talk about it up front once you become intimate. Ask her how much sex is reasonable and express what your needs are. I bet you would work out something that is mutually agreeable. If not, that’s a big incompatibility. The most difficult of the things you list is the feeling of insecurity. The best way to combat that is to do things that give you confidence and to avoid women who are manipulative or tend to drag you down.

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RealMarek

Above all just be yourself and stay genuine, and I think you’ll be fine.

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NathanDavis | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

that depends on what you mean by mistakes...

there's "oops, sorry... mistakes"

and there's "going to jail, mistakes"

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poneglyphs

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Well, more opps sorry mistakes I doubt I would make any life threatening mistakes
NathanDavis

13 d
then that is fine... mistakes can happen all the time, experienced or not... you should not worry about that too much
poneglyphs

13 d
Alright just feel like I'm going to be a bad boyfriend or someone who needs help. 😟😟

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poneglyphs

Well, more opps sorry mistakes I doubt I would make any life threatening mistakes

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NathanDavis

then that is fine... mistakes can happen all the time, experienced or not... you should not worry about that too much

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poneglyphs

Alright just feel like I'm going to be a bad boyfriend or someone who needs help. 😟😟

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awkward_author | 267 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

Making mistakes is part of the learning process, so it’s fine as long as you’re not intentionally hurting anyone.

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poneglyphs

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Okay

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poneglyphs

Okay

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Avicenna | 10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Of course- you need to learn what you want in dating, what works for you, and more about women. You're going to be outside your comfort zone, so mistakes will be made. And even experienced guys can make mistakes outside of our comfort zone.

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Answer 15

Tomtom9494

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Late bloomer is just a term used for men who lack what it takes to draw the interest of women therefore we remain undeveloped compared to those that are our same age

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poneglyphs

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Uhh so am I undeveloped?

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Tomtom9494

12 d
Yes. As I am too

@poneglyphs
Tomtom9494

12 d
Also your cat is identical to my brothers lol
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poneglyphs

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So, what can we do to be "develop"

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Tomtom9494

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I don’t care for dating or sex so it’s up to you. Try socializing more and engaging with women. Treat them as friends first then dating comes naturally.
poneglyphs

12 d
Oh, okay and lol they are cute cats 😍😍😍
Tomtom9494

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They are haha my bros a huge gamer so his kitty is all fat cause she just eats and sleeps while he games all day

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poneglyphs

Uhh so am I undeveloped?

@tomtom9494

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Tomtom9494

Yes. As I am too

@poneglyphs

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Tomtom9494

Also your cat is identical to my brothers lol

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poneglyphs

So, what can we do to be "develop"

@tomtom9494

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Tomtom9494

I don’t care for dating or sex so it’s up to you. Try socializing more and engaging with women. Treat them as friends first then dating comes naturally.

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poneglyphs

Oh, okay and lol they are cute cats 😍😍😍

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Tomtom9494

They are haha my bros a huge gamer so his kitty is all fat cause she just eats and sleeps while he games all day

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exitseven | 2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Everybody messes up. You make a mistake, you fix it. If it cannot be fixed you move on. Sitting on the sidelines is not an option.

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Caunsos | 306 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

Fail faster because the sooner you fail the sooner you can do things better.

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Yuuibtony | 114 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

No, u going through the age that u going have a midlife crisis

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poneglyphs

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Lol, alright

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poneglyphs

Lol, alright

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DaveToo | 339 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Believe it or not, once you meet the right person, it will all fall into place.

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boobliker | 273 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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mistakes and messing-up is part of life it's how we find things out, say sorry and move on and up!!!

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Gwenhwyfar | 2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Yes!

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poneglyphs

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Okay, I will mess up but you'll be here if I need advice
Gwenhwyfar

12 d
Yes 😊
poneglyphs

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🥰🥰🥰

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poneglyphs

Okay, I will mess up but you'll be here if I need advice

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Gwenhwyfar

Yes 😊

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poneglyphs

🥰🥰🥰

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Anonymous

I would think so

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