Why is it hard to date someone from a different nationality?

[ZTBaker325]

I am a white guy who prefers to date black women. I have noticed that it is hard to get into those type of relationships. Would you date someone with different skin colors?

The only way I know.

Definitely not.

I am open to any.

[MTC29]

I enjoy dating black women, but the county I lived in a SoCal had few blacks, so I would drive into LA County. This made things more difficult, though by no means impossible.

For those young men toying with the idea of dating outside their race, not every black woman wants to date a white guy, so be prepared for rejection out of hand. Also keep in mind that if she is willing to date you she's probably dated other white guys. That means that your being white or black won't make any difference to her.

[ZTBaker325]

I have dated a few black women before. It is just super hard to find one again after not dating for a couple of years.

[NathanDavis]

Not sure why you say nationality and then skin colors, but... I've been with people from four different nationalities, and it wasn't a problem. It does help to be bilingual.

[ZTBaker325]

By nationality I do mean race. It is just a nicer word for it.

[NathanDavis]

It is not... lol.

[ZTBaker325]

Tell that to all the women who have gotten mad at me for asking what race they are mixed with. When I ask with nationality none have been mad and answered the question.

[NathanDavis]

Let's test that out... I am Mexican-American, which would you say is the color of my skin, hair, eyes, etcétera.

[Luna_zal]

Maybe because they are not that confident to step out of thier comfort zones. Dating girls/guys from different nationalities can also be tough because you don't get to meet the other person that often. To meet, you have to travel some distance which is for some people is hard. So they don't end well in my opinion.

[doopayo]

If you just like black women than they shouldn’t be that hard to find. Maybe your area just isn’t that diverse

[ZTBaker325]

I live in the bay area of California. I am pretty sure that it is very diverse here.

[doopayo]

I’m not from California but I’ve been their a couple of times, maybe it’s because they don’t think you’re into them so see you as just a friend and not a relationship material. Because my aunt and uncle are different race/ethnicities and live down their so It’s possible. Just need to find the right people at the right time

[ZTBaker325]

I mainly go for the online dating. Which I put in my profile that I prefer dating black women. Although, they just ignore the profiles.

[doopayo]

Maybe try not putting that since a lot of racial fetishizers do that and that might be scaring them off.

[Drumlin2001]

That's not a different nationality is it? That's a different race.
I'm seeing someone of a different nationality, I'm from UK, she is from South America, it's been pretty easy TBH. There are some cultural differences but you compromise

[Anonymous]

You mean Black women like from the Caribbean and Africa? Because there are PLENTY of black girls in the US, so I don't see why that would be a problem

[Phoenix98]

I can't relate I've never had an issue with it.

[Iron_Man]

I like white and Latina women

[NoManTwo]

Are you asking about ethnicity or race?

[Anonymous]

I’ve done it, it’s not that hard