Girls, how long does it usually take you to fall in love?

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FlutteringFeelings · Accepted Answer

It depends. It’s a tough one for me because I never met a guy that had the ability to make me develop feelings for him. I’ve met guys throughout the years who I “liked” and vice versa but it never went to the next level of me falling in love. I can’t put a time stamp on love because I have no idea what it feels like to genuinely fall in love.

I’d say 5-6 months to a 1 year. I have to be myself with this person and know who they are besides the character their presenting to me on a first date. What does his fart smell like? Does he burp too much? Does he know my favorite meal at chick-Fil-a? What will it be like once we finally go on your couples trip? Does he snore?

What’s his family like? How does he react under pressure or when he’s mad? If life happens and I experience a lot with the guy in the course of 6 months then eventually I’ll fall in love. I know for sure that falling in love doesn’t happen over night. I might find myself catching feelings or liking this person but to be in love will take more than just the physical.

catrchy · Accepted Answer

For me... I can't LOVE someone that easily. For me friendship is something very important and delicate, a relationship is something even more important for me. I don't talk about kissing or haveing sex, you can kiss and have sex with anyone in our times, I am talking about leting someone hold your hand, talking for hours about shit you did and you want to do, just being there for each other!

That is why, even if I get in a relationship I won't tell that person that I love her, unless I would really feel, like really feel and fall in love with her. I think falling in love happens after getting together and dating, the things before that are attraction.
I don't know, maybe love means something different to me.

emilym12345 · Answer

I’ve had love at first sight and then it gradually spring on me. Maybe call love at first sight “infatuation”.

The guy I liked at first sight. He has a girl friend at the time though.. but some how I knew that THEY would get married. He cheated on me with her just once and told me it was over between them, when it wasn’t I was 19 and so swept off my feet. The feeling didn’t last and I saw what a mean person (he also had a drug problem) and how horrible he was for lying to me and his girl. It was infatuation not true love.

Kas19 · Answer

Falling in love is gradual. It shouldn't be rushed. But feelings, such as love seem to get more intense as time passes. Too many people think that just because they're happy around someone they're attracted to indicates they're in love, when that's not the case.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn’t know that because I don’t know what it feels like to feel in love, because I’ve never really been in love. I really liked guys before but it was more of an infatuation than love. Due to my difficult past and traumas it’s very hard for me to be vulnerable and trust somebody within a decent amount of time. I think that it would take me at least six months, it all depends on how understanding and patient this person would be with me.

Twilight_Angel · Answer

Like someone else said, it's something you can't put a time frame on although I did vote 1-2 months cause I do fall in love pretty quickly once I like someone 🙊🙊🙈

IamStardust · Answer

Real love, it takes at least 6 months. Infatuation is within a few days.

stardust2021 · Answer

It took a date with my ex-husband.  It took 6 months with my current relationship.

Alpha09 · Answer

I gotta know and spend time with them for at least a year or so before I even consider that.

Anonymous · Answer

Love is out of my control. You love with your heart not your head so there is no time frame honestly.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on the guy really I’ve only loved one guy truly and he meant to the world to me just after 6 months of dating.

ffddhugvfd · Answer

For me falling in love always comes easy I'd literally fall in love within a week

Bellatris · Answer

Less than 5 seconds! :)

KatherineJ · Answer

I knew for sure at the 6 month mark.

karaspara · Answer

I fall in love quite quickly to be honest

yourbabygirl921 · Answer

Mine takes days 😐

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t fall in love

Anonymous · Answer

Lol 5 minutes

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