Why must guys always lower themselves to ask women out? What do we get out of it?

[Anonymous]

[The_Maphio]

Why do you think there are always less couples, less marriages and less kids?
It's not worth it any longer. Women are not how they used to be. It's just overall a transaction that ends up in a loss. I've been lucky enough to find myself one at the beginning of the new century, when the older types were still a thing. These new generations? Waste of space.

[Avicenna]

How about actually getting her to go out with you instead of some other guy?

[Asker]

If she'd rather go out with some other guy who am I to tell her any different.

[Avicenna]

She will if he approaches her and you don't

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Lower yourselves? You do realize you don't have to get on to one knee until the proposal right?



O-OH wrong kinda lower. Not sure how it is considered lowering yourself, but if it is that much work and nobody is approaching you then it best to give up hope now.

[Asker]

Well if it wasn't lowering yourself women would do it more often. You guys consider it a desperate act.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Women should do it more often, absolutely. I dont think anyone considers it desperate though

[Asker]

You need to listen to more of your fellow women on here. I've already heard it once just tonight.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I mean, maybe some do then. Iunno, I know I dont. Now when they can't take a hint and keep pressing the issue, that's where it comes off desperate to me.

[kyleelyn199723]

If you don’t think you are benefitting why even bother? You benefit of possibly meeting someone that you get to marry and have children with.

[adventurous-1]

I don't see it as lowering myself. If I want to meet someone then it's up to me to make the moves and gain her attention, Separate me from the crowd. And women today do approach men they find interesting. Its not a one way street anymore.

[KatherineJ]

Don’t ask any women out, and see what you get out of that.

[Asker]

The same

[slatyb]

“Lower yourself?” I never felt that way. I enjoy a woman’s company, that’s what I get out of it.

[BakedBeanieBabie]

Uh... most people who ask someone out... get to go on a date with the person?

If you don't want to mate don't, no one's gonna cry.

[Anonymous]

No one is forcing or paying you men for it
Don't do it if you don't wanna

[TheEbonyEnchantress]

Period! Dot! End of story!

[God_of_Thunder]

So don't.

Nobody's forcing you.

[Asker]

And nobody is asking you to post unless you have something constructive to say.

[God_of_Thunder]

You mean people who agree with you.

If you don't want to "lower yourself," then don't do it. I'm not sure what you're looking for, if not for people to agree with you, and I'm not going to do that.

You don't want to "lower yourself," and I told you that you don't have to. I offered you a possible solution to your problem. Seems pretty constructive to me.

[Asker]

I'm not lol. It was a pretty stressful forward question. Most got it. I'm sorry you didn't.

[Asker]

Straight forward not stressful. Lol

[moviedude714]

I never liked this tradition either

[SpaceGalaxy]

Pussy, Ass, Blow Jobs, ...

[NathanDavis]

sounds like you didn't get any

[JamesRandiDebates]

Hopefully we get some pussy.

[jahaims]

A date. How is it lowering yourself

[Asker]

You're giving her the opportunity to pass judgement on you. The truth is the guy is taking just as much of a chance with her. She might be the biggest mistake he's ever made and doesn't even know it yet.

[TheEbonyEnchantress]

It could only be considered as lowering yourself if you asked her out multiple times and she said she's not interested. Then she might only say yes to a date just to get it over with

[Asker]

@TheEbonyEnchantress never happened. I don't give second chances