Why do guys have to always ask girls out on dates?

[Anonymous]

it makes me tired, every 1 out of 5 girls says yes to a date. it makes me tired getting rejected

[OlderAndWiser]

Learn to be more selective in who you ask. Try to determine what the common factors are among the girls who say no, so that you learn which girls to avoid. And try to determine the common factors among the girls who say yes, so you can focus on the girls who are the more promising prospects.

[CallmeTheKnight]

How about you do it this way?
You approach women with the intention of getting to know them, give or take it can be a few days or so then you shoot your shot and get her number. After that you ask her on a date by that point, you know where her interest are and what she’s like.
Also, how about you consider inviting them to the things you like instead of what’s encouraged. Like if you like cooking, Invite her to a cooking class with you. Or anything recreational basically. You’ll stand out from the guys who always invite her to dinner and movies.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Because some of us are stuck in this way. I remember I read on here that if a woman does the approaching, then guys might not like it. But on another thing, I saw that men are relieved when the woman comes and asks them. So, I don't know. Most times I don't approach guys because I'm just enjoying a day out. Plus, most people see me as a much younger age so I wouldn't get approached by anybody anyway.

[ChiTown33]

"Men don't like it when women approach them". This is a lie women repeat but is not true because she wants an EXCUSE to not approach men. GUYS could just as easily say the same thing but then women would just call them afraid. It's socially acceptable for women to be afraid, not men. But let's call it what it is. It's got NOTHING to do with fear in either case. It's because people take rejection personal. And most women know they don't have to approach men. Social convention still dictates that's a man's job. Equality hasn't fully spread there yet.

[etsylo]

it might be because in society, it's always been the guy asking the girl out. nowadays, anyone can do it.

either they're shy, traditional, or just don't want you.
i asked out my boyfriend years ago and we've been together since.

[Anonymous]

The way I see it asking women out is not the problem. Morrell guys would ask women out if more women would prove themselves WORTHY of being asked out. The problem is it's a prevailing g attitude among women today that men take no risk and that couldn't be more wrong. Couple that with the fact that many women today are predators in disguise. And some are so brazen they don't even try to hide it. These women prey upon a man's natural inclinations. If a guy chooses the wrong woman she can tear his life apart and then just move on to her next victim.

This is why dating is fundamentally broken in today's society.

[andreasderjuengere]

For ''safe'' results: Try to order one online, and with delivery service included :D

What you call a ''rejection'' is rather a not returned interest.

You may also want to re-consider your procedures:

find out first if you like each other, and there will be plenty of time for ''dating'' thereafter.

[hardboiledink]

Dude 1 outta 5 is AMAZING! Some guys hardly get ANY girls in like 100 or more tries because they have a lot to work on themselves to attract a girl. So have some gratitude and also read some psychology books on communication so you get better with people in general instead of getting frustated with your great position in dating

[NathanDavis]

not in my experience...

but... you say it is one out of every five...

unless you want to go out with many women, that one is all you need... lol

[MikeTheBartender]

Hot guys get rejected by ugly women all the time, don't take it personal you are not right for them. The men I know who meet the most women get rejected by the most women

[MzAsh]

If you don’t want to then don’t. Wait for a strong independent woman to sweep you off your feet.

[Miristheiss]

Because girls won't do it and they don't have to do it because men always approach them.

[JacobJordan]

You don't have to ask them out. Some girls ask guys out

[BourbonAndBacon]

I'd rather be 20% and be the one picking than waiting for something to happen

[Anonymous]

They don't have to... they choose to. Chase purpose, not females...

[Starrrboy]

Actually not all guys have to work for it lol..

[zagor]

So ask 5 girls and stick with the one who says yes.

[Anonymous]

I never ask girls for dates...
Hook-up n ons... dating is outdated

[Anonymous]

I don't, I have more important things to waste my time on.

[boggboss]

Because society has always been male lead

[exitseven]

1 out if 5 is actually a good batting average.

[SotiCoto]

Cultural baggage.

[OddBeMe]

Customs. Mostly enforced by men. So stop bitching.