Girls, if you friend zone a guy is it possible for him to get out?

[Anonymous]

Yes it is

No it’s not

[Azura_88]

No and never because I don't friendzone them right away, I take my time to analyze them and then take a final decision. I am intentional with whatever I do. I'm not wishy washy kinda girl or even the slut who loves to lead on guys just to get constant supply of attention by switching their places time to time.

[Asker]

What if you start off just as friends with someone.

[Azura_88]

Then it's just neutral and he's not yet "zoned" permanently. After some time I'll decide whether to take things to next level or let it be.

[Asker]

But what if he never asks? Does that mean you make that decision with every guy you ask even if you start as friends and he never asks you out?

[Azura_88]

If he never asks me out then he's not that interested.

[Asker]

What if he asks after a year?

[Azura_88]

Then I'll consider if we both are compatible. Then I'll say yes.

[silvermoon84]

No. I don’t put guys in the friend zone right away. However, if I don’t see it going anywhere I tell him. If he’s open to staying friends, awesome! As long as he knows that’s all we’re going to be. If he can’t handle being friends with me, I don’t take it personally. I just let them go

[midnightmoon05]

Up to you if you want to get out. Ask yourself, why stay?
there are other girls who will want to be your girlfriend when you leave. By staying to be a girls “friend” you will not be respected by her and her friends and future boyfriend who is NOT YOU.
yiu will never see the beauty of a woman who is available to you. Walk away, she did not put a rope on you.

[Anonymous]

Obviously I can’t speak for every girl but for me, there’s basically no escaping the friend zone lol because you’re there for a reason. Honestly it bums me out when guys do that because it’s hard to find male friends who don’t have ulterior motives. They’ll say they want my friendship but are really plotting behind the scenes to try and change our status, when that isn’t what I want at all. Then I feel like I can’t be friends with them anymore because I know they want more.

[Asker]

Sorry but men can’t be friends with women they’re attracted to. It’s impossible.

[Opinion Owner]

I understand that, but where the issue arises is when you act under the guise of friendship when that isn’t what you truly want. It’s deceptive and just messed up in general.

[Asker]

But that can be because men don’t always like you enough to ask you out at first. They just want to get to know you first and then they become more attracted to you over time.

[Opinion Owner]

But see, that’s completely different. If you go into a friendship with a girl with intentions to be friends but then develop a crush, then that’s not too big of a deal. But if your intentions from the start are to try and date her, but you lie and pretend to only want friendship as sort of a “way in”, then that’s where the situation is messed up.

[Asker]

But when a guy asks a female friend out it’s almost guaranteed to be a rejection.

[Asker]

Normally worded as “you’re a great guy and I enjoy your company but I just want to be friends”

[Opinion Owner]

So once you’re rejected, you figure that lying and telling her you want to be friends will let her see how great you are and make her change her mind? That’s manipulative and dishonest! I don't know if that’s what you’re doing to someone or thinking of doing, but I’d say don’t do it. That will backfire dude

[Azura_88]

Perfectly said "they're in a friendzone FOR A REASON!!". Men should understand and respect our wishes as well. If they're always thinking to break it then it's selfish and controlling.

[Opinion Owner]

@azura_88 yes! You get it lol

[Asker]

How? If a man develops feelings for a female friend, that’s not his fault.

[Asker]

So would you prefer a man saying they don’t want to be friends anymore if they develop feelings after a long friendship?

[Opinion Owner]

I already answered this, but to repeat, I said the situation is different if you went into things just as friends but then developed feelings. But if you go into it with feelings, then lie, saying you want friendship but you don’t, then that’s an issue. Hell, at all is messed up because you are trying to manipulate the situation.

[Ms_Vanderquack]

We don’t friend zone guys, y'all do that shit to yourselves. If you want to “get out” that is completely on you.

[Asker]

How do we get out?

[Ms_Vanderquack]

By walking away.

[Siren777]

Yes, but it depends if that female is willing and open to it. Maybe she changed her mind and realized what she has in front of her.

[Asker]

Which almost never happens

[Tavena02]

I friend zoned a guy simply bc he was the right person at the wrong time. When the time is right he can always step out of it. And he knows it too

[Anonymous]

Feminist are the reason of this , I hate feminist thinking the world revolves around them.

[RachelWhite]

It is possible to get off the list but from what I hear it is very hard.

[Aimée__LJ]

Guys friend zone themselves

[Asker]

In what way?

[Aimée__LJ]

By becoming friends with girls and waiting for their shit without ever initiating anything for months. Then when they do we feel shit because it feels like the only reason they were "friends" with us was to sleep with us.

[Asker]

So then you lose interest in him even if you did like him at first? What if he didn’t like you at first that way but then developed feelings for you as he got to know you?

[Aimée__LJ]

That's fine but if they get rejected and then disappear it feels like the only reason they were your friend was because they wanted to be with you. It sucks finding out they weren't actually your friend.

[Blackcupcake]

It is possible but the possibility ain’t that high