Can a guy force a girl to be friendzoned?

[Anonymous]

He sexually flirted for weeks w me and then said he has feelings for someone else and he's dealing w a lot rn so not fair to me and to be just friends huh?

But then i said no will be too painful to be ur friend and he keeps trying to be my friend? What why does he want to be my friend?

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1 y

I legit told him i can't. Is he trying to hold on to me as a side hoe

[Anonymous]

No, but he can ask nicely. Ask him why he wants to be your friend, but make sure he knows its never gonna happen.

[Asker]

He said because im a caring genuine person and we can support each other etc. but then i later ask him so did you never have feelings for me and he says uh what? And didn't know it was like that for me. And then blocks me lol. But now he unblocked me lol and we are talking normally. Does the silence mean no?

[Opinion Owner]

You need to find out.

[Asker]

lol but we are talking normally on snapchat lol not even messaging. oh and he deleted and readded me on there 4 times lol

[Asker]

* not even messaging on texts

[Opinion Owner]

Dude sounds squirrely.

[Asker]

yeah I'm conf