I m confused about my feelings am I cheating on my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I m in relationship with a guy nd i love him but there is this another guy whom i m attracted nd i do have feelings for him. What should i do?

[SueShe]

You have to chose either the one or the other because it would not be fair to the one you currently love to just cheat on him.

That would make you a bad person and get a reputation that you don't want to have.

I don't think that you really love the guy you are in a relationship with. It is more infatuation because if you really loved him, the outsider would never be an issue and you would not even notice him.

It is your choice but be fair and honest and inform the one or the other about what your intentions are. You don't really have any other options here.

[Anonymous]

Figure out which one you like more and be honest with yourself (ie, don't think about hurting anyone, just think about what YOU want). My guess here is that even though you say you "love" your boyfriend, something is missing there or this other guy wouldn't even be on your radar. I'm not judging you or saying you're a "bad" person or anything like that, but just maybe your boyfriend isn't the guy for you? Maybe this other guy is more for you? Think about it and what you want, and get to know both and figure out which guy is right for you. At the same time though, don't "string" your boyfriend along for too long. Maybe you need some time single and to date and to figure out exactly what you want?

[Hawner]

As long as you don't sleep with the other guy, you are not cheating so, in that regard, don't worry.
Now, having doubts and feeling attracted to other people is normal. what you do about it is the key part. If you don't love your current boyfriend, talk to him, break up the relationship, and pursue something with the other guy you are interested in; if you do love your boyfriend, you have to ask yourself if you love him more or less than the other guy, and if it is worth staying or leaving.
The important part is sorting the situation out and, above all, talking to your boyfriend.

[Dman1974]

You have to search your true feelings for both guys. What you dont want is to jump to the other guy and then realise that it is your boyfriend that you really love. But then you don't want to be stuck in a relationship that is going nowhere

[AmeerX]

It is not cheating unless you are sexually involved. You are not sleeping with that other guy are you?

[Sam_The_Savage]

It's not crime to have multiple boyfriend.