Is my boyfriend cheating on me or am I just overthinking?

[Anonymous]

I’m young in a quite serious relationship and we love eachother very much but shit has happened. At the beginning of our relationship, I got an Instagram dm from a. Random girl wondering if I’m dating the guy iam (let’s call him josh). She was saying she’s joshs ex and that they still call every night and sleep on the phone and he knows she is very much still in love with her etc. i confronted him about it and he blocked her well at least I thought. I was being clingy for a while but I noticed everytime I’m clingy a guy doesn’t want it so I stopped being clingy and now all of a sudden he’s texting me at 3am telling me he loves me? That’s guilt. Anyways so I went through his phone yesterday and found out he’s texting her again and I really can’t do it anymore. How do I break up with him

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

You just tell him you and him don't seem to be on the same page as relationships go.. That it's not working for you and you feel it's time to end the relationship..

[jahaims]

He is for sure cheating. Have self respect and remove your emotions from the situation and look at it for what it is. It isn't worth staying with him just because you want to. What you want from him isn't going to happen. So when you picture yourself staying with him stay honest with yourself and realize what you want and imagine in the future with him isn't what is going to happen in reality.

[boggboss]

By just telling him he broke your trust and u no longer trust him so u must end it

[Luckycharms12]

Can't trust him