You may not be do anything wrong at all, I could sit here and give you example after example of why guys do this or that but in the end we would waste 2 hours and it still wouldn't make you feel any better. The simple truth of the matter is you may never know the full truth of the situation unless you ask and they actually answer as to why they did what they did.
"empath, affectionate, loyal, kind, caring, and loving and adventurous"
I am all these things and more and I have been on the end of ghosting more than once. What you need to do is step back, take a breath, clear your head, and keep trying. Feeling this rotten will only hurt you in the long run. You will find that person one day but sometimes it just takes time. It all starts with self worth and gets better from there.
Are your standards too high? Are you only looking at 10/10 and expecting them to do all the work and walk up to you and sweep you off your feet cause 'vagina'?
Women ask this question all the time on here and 95% of the time, it boils down to "her standards are too high," which she'll then give some bullsh*t excuse for, like "I know what I deserve" or "I'm allowed to want [some synonym of perfect] men."
However, maybe you're the 5% of women who are actually as "affectionate, loyal, kind, caring, and loving" as they say they are and aren't entitled, thinking only perfect men should make eye contact with them.
I'm sorry that's happening to you, guys can be wicked, evil, nasty and horrible people, but not all so please just try to sit down and pray and ask God for someone special to come into your life, remember this, you are beautiful. And you want most of all for your baby or babies to have their father with you so try and do a lot of soul searching and praying will help you.
You sound like you have awesome features, but sometimes there are some women same with men too that move into things way too fast and don't realize that a relationship/love is a process and isn't usually rushed. I'd say just be patient and keep talking to more guys that you think are cute, and eventually the right one will ask you out. Hope this helps good luck!
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aww im sorry, i keep reading that you like younger guys more than older, a lot of them tend to still be immature and only want sex only. not to discourage you from your preference or anything, but finding a good mature guy that wants commitment at your age may prove to be a bit daunting a task.
so if you want to still stick with your preference i say try to get better at examining red flags, if a guy mentions sex too early you may want to rethink it. there are load of guides for how to determine what signs to look for when a guy is only after sex or not.
How are you expressing your interest to men in conversations and on dates? A lot of men won't take the chance of being forward with a woman until she gives STRONG "I want you" signals. I've met women like you before, and there is frequently a certain aloofness that they give off. Being aloof scares men off; we don't want to take the risk of misreading a woman's signals.
Blessings in disguise.
Don't be in a rush to fall in love with a turd. Don't just settle because that's all that is available.
Be patient.
You think this is taking too long?
Wait until you're stuck in a relationship with a jackass. Every day will seem like forever.
There are about 7.5 billion people on this planet
And there's at least one person in this 7.5 billion who understands you
You only have to find him once
So just focus and think about what your ideal man is then write his property down and when your dating guys look which one is more like what you have in idea
Also Search for them in places you expect them to be for example you can't find a Athlete in a Office environment, not that it's impossible it's just rare
It's not easy, for any of us. Be patient though. Especially with becoming a mom etc. And don't tell guys this too early lol. Most guys your age aren't looking for that yet. It'll come. For now, focus on other things, school, career. You can get all that set up so you're "ready" to be a mom and have a family.
Maybe they just want to use you. Also you like guys younger than you. Be more unavailable, play hard to get. Tease them and then let them know there is a distance. They should not take you for granted, they should make an effort for winning your attention
Because you want younger guys and younger guys (most of them, at least) aren’t ready for all the wonderful things you have to offer.
I’m sorry girl. It’s the truth.
There really isn't an answer to that because every guy is different, you aren't doing anything wrong aside from possibly not being seen by enough guys to find the right one.
You can't really come off too strong tbh, any guy who does want your type and wants kids is going to be ok with you being adamant about your interest in him.
Your generation is flakey and ghosts on a whim. The vast majority your age lack basic communication skills. I hope you can find an outlier. You deserve it.
How are you being rejected when girls normally don't approach guys or be the one to talk to guys first?
Not sure, hon.
Can you give us more details? Like, maybe a few examples of situations you've experienced?
Because many guys nowadays just want one night stands and not commit, women/girls have changed their ways and adopted the same concept. That's why cheating is on the rise between both sexes, no one seems satisfied. People lack morals and ethics in society today. People today think its perfectly okay to act like animals of just eating and fucking. To people who think this way whether you are a girl or guy reading this, those people should go live in the jungle who behave like untamed animals.
You will meet lots of guys that are interested in. Try to do a lot things where you meet a lot of different guys.
Many different reasons are possible - are you meeting them online?
Probably the guys you're picking, your taste in men is leading you to this outcome and some bad luck overall.
Self praise means nothing I'll have to contact your exes to know your true personality hypothetically speaking.
I don't know. You to be a good person. I'm happy to be friends if you like.
You have great features. You will find the right person one day.
You might be going a little fast for some guys just take it slow
Maybe you come across as too flirtatious or desperate
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