Why does every guy I meet in my life ghost me? I have always been single. Is something wrong with me? Guys always seemed interested at first why?

[laurlaur101]

So what’s going on? I feel so ugly I know there’s better looking women out there they rather go for but I don't know I just can’t shake this feeling I always feel like maybe I don’t belong to be in this life because I just feel like outcast nobody likes me at all nobody wants to date me I’m going to be alone forever I don’t want to be alone either something is definitely going wrong somewhere I don't know what it is

[ɹǝʇʇɐɥpɐW]

Well, think it through. What's the common factor? Do you stick to a "type"? Like, are all of the guys kind of similar? Have you tried venturing outside of what you usually look for?

Is there anything leading up to the ghosting that you think might be similar between them? Did they ghost after a date? After sex? After meeting your friends? After learning something specific about you?

Try to think of anything that they or their situations have in common and that might help narrow it down.

I don't know you, so maybe there's no issue with you at all. Maybe it's just a string of bad luck. If that's you in your pfp, I can't imagine it's actually an issue with looks. Whatever the case, I hope you find your answer and things go better for you.

[laurlaur101]

I give everyone a chance I meet people talk with a lot to see how they are it’s like their true colors comes out early which is kinda good to weed them out but at the same time it’s almost like I keep meeting different people but the outcome is the same which is confusing and frustrating I don't know what’s going wrong I don't know what they would have learned unless people fed them bullshit about me then they believe it I don't know who knows but why believe what people say because people are jelaous and can make things up. I want to find out the answer but I don't know what it is

[MisterWack]

Maybe they message multiple girls at once and whoever seems more in their line of dating they just go with.

Ghosting is inevitable since nothing can stay forever and if they aren’t interested after awhile they really don’t need to tell you their reasoning or “its done” since they are focused on their priorities just as you are focused on yours though meeting it through different means/ends.

I wish you luck and believe there is a man out there for you, keep looking. You’ll find him. I didn’t think I’d find my dream girl then she came so same will come to you.

”Good things come to those that wait”.

[laurlaur101]

Who knows and I get it people have the right to explore whoever is the better match they should go for I get it 100% and if this continues to happen maybe there isn’t a man out there for me that I truly like sure I can settle for someone I don’t because there’s always the types I don’t like but I want to be happy not half ass forcing it either

[MisterWack]

@laurlaur101 Nah nah nah cut it out with the “ if this continues to happen maybe there isn’t a man out there for me” and negativity. I was that way and it gets you nowhere. Put yourself out there, if dating apps don’t work then try a different approach in the real world or something. Don’t give up, you will meet the right guy for you, just have to believe in it & hold on tight! I have faith in you, believe. It will happen. I was that way and I found my SO so there is 100% hope for you.

[laurlaur101]

I don’t want to think that way but it just seems like it might not if it hasn’t happened the problem is people around me have someone or at least did have someone I never really had anyone

[MisterWack]

@laurlaur101 Well, you are younger than me and not by a lot honestly… You have a whole life time to find that special someone and it doesn’t matter how many people around you are single or dating or if you dated prior just go with the flow. You’ll be an awesome addition to any guy’s life. Trust me, it will happen.

[Berethor]

Well you don't seems like a Christmas cake, have you tried to message guys from GAG?

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Christmas%20Cake

[ProbablyClueless]

Maybe your personality changes up when you meet guys you like.

I've had a lot of women do that, where they become totally different people as soon the relationship becomes something more.

[laurlaur101]

I see what you’re saying but I don’t think I change but what do you mean change?

[ProbablyClueless]

I mean a total change. I've seen and heard of many women transform from their normal, cool, calm, collected selves, and they transform into pushy, needy, controlling, aggressive people once sex and emotions get involved.

[DannyUk2017]

Relax! Is just Not Your Time yet... Time it will come... Don't rush! Don't rush in to something/someone that you might not be able to come out from. Patience is a Virtue...😉🤫

[noohair]

You are not the first person to feel this way. I thought I was from another planet because I did not fit in. I don't define myself by who I am with. I am a whole person by myself. Do you have grey eyes?

[laurlaur101]

I’ve always felt this way so maybe I won’t get anyone if it hasn’t happened I’m getting disgusted because I met new people and talked multiple people in my life but nothing ever goes anywhere guys do not like me I don't know if it’s a belief I have but to me it seems like proof none like me so what am I going to do I can’t be alone for life that’s boring

[strateguy632]

Because they feel you are too needy so blocked you.

[laurlaur101]

How would I be needy? I don’t really do anything to prove that tho

[jjj101010]

Hey, hope u r doing ok, of course u belong in this life, I have had spells where I was single for ages but things will turn round. Happy to chat if u want advice or to hear from someone else who has been there so u know u r not alone

[laurlaur101]

Not really doing ok because I just feel left out overlooked no one seems to want me I don’t over do it but I’m still open to opportunities and trying to talk to people maybe luck isn’t in my favor with that I don't know why

[eagle1951]

i'm guessing it's the way you come off to men ,

[laurlaur101]

Ok explain?

[boggboss]

Where are u meeting these guys

[laurlaur101]

I met some in person which is the way I want to meet more and then guys hit me up on Snapchat but I don’t really like that app I feel like their bad news

[Anonymous]

Clearly you're meeting all the wrong guys.

[laurlaur101]

Most likely but they come after me first

[Opinion Owner]

And you choose them. Every woman that chases after me does the same thing. The only difference between you and I is I know enough now to NOT choose them. Learn from your past or be doomed to repeat it. You're not a victim.