Why won't you date outside of your race?

[Pulseofsulfur]

Is it because of your parents or prefrence?

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If you do date outside your race, do only date outside your race because you don't like people in your own race or just prefer different races?

[Sarahr123]

Because I am personally more attracted to my race and get along with them better. I am an Indian. As some will be aware, Indians have many ethhnicities and I am a Bengali. I personally prefer Punjabis, Bengalis, Marwadis and some Madrasis like Tulus, Tamil, Kannada people etc. I was raised in the UK but I am EXTREMELY Indian at heart. I may look, act and dress differently most of the time but in essence I am as Indian as it gets. I am very proud of my Bengali culture and I love to wear saris, I love durga puja, I love roshgulla and sondesh. Perhaps that’s why I love certain South Indians because we have similar clothing and cuisine such as our love for seafood. I love Bengali fish curries like doi mach and muri ghonto as much as I love Mangalorean fish curries. We love our silk saris. I love watching Hindi, Bengali and Marathi language daily soap/TV serials etc. I am also immensely attracted to tall dark handsome men like Sushant Singh Rajput, Sanjay Dutt, Arjun Ramp etc. Nobody can beat them. I had a crush on Shah Rukh Khan since I was four years old. I have never had a crush on White men, Black men or any other type of Asian like Mongolians/south east Asians etc. My attraction is mainly South and Central Asian. That means Indians, Afghans, Persians. Most Indians are a mixture of Persian/Western Asia/European and sometimes some people have some African.

[Danish87]

See here also Gujarati is not mentioned.
Whether is jethalal, or bjp or gag 😜😂

[Sarahr123]

@Danish87 Gujaratis are lovely too, I love Kran Patel!

[Danish87]

@Sarahr123 it was just a Joke that running now a day

[yofuknutz]

Do U like kerela?

[PuffGirl]

Has anyone categorically said to you they will not date a certain race?

Speaking for myself, I usually find men of my own race the most attractive, but I've never ruled out races either. It's all about the individual, not a group of people.

It's not racist to have a preference for your own race. You can't help what you're attracted to and I know plenty of people who have preferences outside their race. There's a different between 'I wouldn't date that race because I don't like them' opposed to 'I tend to be more attracted to white men'.

[Pulseofsulfur]

I find it acceptable because of preference than a race issue

[Louistruman19]

It is racist to have a preference for your own race. That is the litteral definition of racism.

[Bhandj]

@Louistruman19 lol nice try... you just don't like to date girls from your own race, since they will call you out in heartbeat for the BS you would like to pull... It's a "my race" thing... You unsensitive person you!

[Louistruman19]

@Bhandj what exactly is your argument?

[oldasIfeel22]

Personally I don’t care. I’m white. But I have dated Latino, white, Asian, Native American and black. There were some cultural differences and challenges at time. But if I find them attractive enough and they have a decent personality we can work past that.

It’s not racist if you choose not to date a certain race because you don’t find their physical features attractive. It is racist if you have prejudices about how they behave (especially if you didn’t take the time to get to know the individual).

From my observations this is a bigger deal to women than it is to men.

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

I do date outside my race. My parents tried to brainwash my into believing that we shouldn't date outside our race. But, I am half white and half Asian. Makes my dad a hypocrite after marrying my stepmom. What they really meant is I shouldn't date black women.

I like women of all colors. I could give a damn about skin color. I love diversity.

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

Good for you.

[OlderAndWiser]

I have dated Hispanic, Asian, and native American women.

[iboobs]

It’s because I’m only attracted to members of my own race. There are some subconscious reasons behind it that I don’t feel on the top of my head but I strongly believe they play in the background of my mind. You should always remember that a normal member of any species wouldn’t want to copulate with something that will downgrade their genetic fitness. I only date to marry and I’m not going to ignore my instincts just to make a point.

1. The kids would be less privileged than me. 2. I didn’t want a kid that looks nothing like me and then complains about it. 3. I didn’t want a kid who is confused about their identity. 4. I wouldn’t be able to identify with my partner’s experience and be able to understand it sometimes 5. I could unintentionally offend my partner without realizing it or I couldn’t feel comfortable just talking about anything with them 6. I don’t want to be associated with libtards 7. I don’t want to receive attention or hatred for dating outside my race. 8. I don’t have the ghetto personality that can handle and combat the hatred. Nor would I want to be associated with any of those ghetto girls who date men that look completely different from them.

[Friendlybro79]

@iboobs "You should always remember that a normal member of any species wouldn’t want to copulate with something that will downgrade their genetic fitness. I only date to marry and I’m not going to ignore my instincts just to make a point."
Your instincts in this example are conscious decisions. You know who you are. Just own it.

[JDavid25]

I understand your preference but these reasons are kinda racist.. LOL.. Of course the kid will look like you.. It's your child.. 😂.. I always rolled my eyes at that stupid argument.. And less privilege? What does that even mean? And if you don't teach your child that their "race" defines them they won't suffer from an "identity crisis".. You use all the "Leftist" talking points and then say you don't wannabe associated with them.

[rebelsunshine]

Kudos for your honesty.

[natured]

Actually I did, and it's the best decision I have ever made, not everyone agreed with it, because not only is he a different race but also a different religion. But honestly, we get along pretty well despite our differences. But it's our differences that made our relationship actually flourish and interesting.
We literally never get bored. OBV we have our ups and downs but who doesn't? I think dating something out of your own culture should be considered normal, at the end of the day LOVE IS LOVE

[wegotproblems]

I have almost exclusively dated outside of my race besides one person, but here’s what I think the issue is:




Racism.


I think race mixing is a good thing because it helps teach tolerance as well as bring us closer to a world where we accept each other.


We will all be the same color millions of years down the line anyways, avoiding mixing races is pretty stupid.

[wegotproblems]

Adding onto this from question update: I’ve dated mostly outside of my race though I believe I have a very slight preference towards other races it’s not much. I’ve dated almost entirely based on who I fall for rather then pursing physical appearance. Not something that particularly matters to me.

[FunkyMonkee]

I already have. I nearly married an Indian girl and had kids with her. I, eventually, caught her cheating on me! Oh, well!! HER loss!!
Back in my teens, I was still going by what my prejudiced parents felt and would NEVER date a black girl. In a minor way, I still feel that way but, I've long since seen quite a few I wouldn't mind being with!! I actually had a thing for one who was one of my fans!! I KNOW we hugged but I'm not sure if we actually kissed.
A few years ago, I was playfully acting like I was in love with another black girl I used to work with. She knew I was just playing but would let me hug her and sometimes even give her a kiss on the cheek. She had a boyfriend so, I wasn't about to take it any farther than that.
Otherwise, I fell in love with a Bulgarian girl but we never got past talking online, sadly. She WASN'T a scammer, it was legit!

[FunkyMonkee]

It had nothing to do with preference. She was there, we ended up liking each other and fell in love! Had she been white, black, yellow, red, green, orange with purple polka dots, or fluorescent paisley I would've still fallen in love with her.

[LonewolfMeme]

I wouldn’t say I wouldn’t date someone the same race as me because I didn’t like them but because every African American male I’ve come across are rude to me or have something going on with them that makes me dislike them. Like I can admit if I find an attractive black male but most times it just doesn’t click.

[yofuknutz]

If they weren't so loud and drama oriented they will have a better shot

[LonewolfMeme]

That too it’s just unappealing to me

[yofuknutz]

That's bad enough I have my own drama and that's a given but then you get some loudmouth ghetto blaster and forgot about it you might as well call it quits

[PeacefulRainDrop]

I already have.. dated Natives, German, African, and Korean didn't work and thats okay... Right now dating British... I am part Scottish, Irish and Ukrainian.. so even tho were both white our ancestors were on two different sides of history.. love comes in all shapes and sizes

[AnggieGirl]

Dating is fine but not reproduce.
Sometimes dating your own race has ups and downs. One up is there’s lots of communication between the two of you that never has to be said or put mind to, it’s simply mutually understood. Everyone should be polite and kind to others preferences because we are all allowed to love who we love ❤️

[sd1223]

I personally will date whatever race, I don’t really have a preference. One of my crushes was white, and I dated a Hispanic or I guess Afro-Latino guy for the first time. He was half Dominican and half Salvadorian. My parents married within their own race. I know my dad dated all kinds of different girls. For me it’s preference, I don’t discriminate, if I find you attractive and interesting and we vibe pretty well then I’m down.

[MCheetah]

This doesn't apply to me. I don't care about race. It's an arbitrary and stupid trait. I do however care about personality and looks. I'd date any race of woman who was right for me, but most women won't be compatible with me, nor will like me. I suspect average black women are the least compatible with me.

[TsundereMatrix]

I noticed I’m mostly attracted to redheads which are usually Caucasian. I don’t know why I’m attracted to them. I just am. But also my parents like to make racist jokes and if I bring a partner of another race home, I don’t want my parents to make them uncomfortable with those jokes.

[ChrisMaster69]

A persons, race, ethnicity, sexuality should not come in to it.

it’s the person you are dating.

yes I’ve dated various ethnicities in the past, but it’s been the fact it’s a pretty girl at the bar, out shopping etc that has interested me, not that she is of Indian descent, or Kenyan etc etc.

my preference is for Red heads, which considering I live in an area where Blonde is very much the common colour, makes it more of a unique sort of thing.

[TwistedTube]

I'll date outside my race. No not only. I just don't consider race to be an important part of the "equation" if I find someone attractive, and I consider their personalities to be great then that's halfway enough for me. Next come our believes and wants for the future, but what race they are will probably never be part of the reason for dating someone.

[imGirliNterrupTEd]

My Boyfriend is not my own kind. He is Actually Russian and very different from any othera I have dated. I think its true what they say about “Culture” and “Cultural Differences”

[kevyhanma]

Well I’m a guy so I take what I can get I’m not gonna tell a girl who wants to fuck no your Korean i only fuck black girls... that’s just not realistic

I’m pretty sure most guys feel the same I mean look at my great x4 grandpa he was super racist and still cheated on his wife with his slave my great x4 grandmother

pussy is pussy😂😂

[UnicornU]

I’ve dated black and Asian before and I don’t have any problem with any race or country 🏳️‍🌈❤️

[Yuuibtony]

U single? I looking for a girlfriend

[yofuknutz]

She's all set there hot rod

[UK-NaturistGuy]

Personally I would not generally consider seeking a romantic relationship with someone from another racial group due to seeing the amount of prejudice they face especially mixed-race children. Having said that if I met the right person and the feelings we had for each other were strong enough I would not reject it purely based on those reasons.

[Oceation]

I'm open to dating someone of any race, as long as I find them personally attractive and I like their personality then it's not an issue for me.

[Gwenhwyfar]

I date people of any race (including elves) if I find them attractive

[Andres77]

I'm under a permanent polymorph spell to hide my ears because of all the racists where I live. Pointy ears are to easy to spot.

[Xoirwinkan]

What a Celt.

[jerdanro]

Would you consider a half-orc?

[Andres77]

@jerdanro I had this discussion a while back. If I'd fuck a Klingon then yes, I'd be open to half-orcs too. But you know how it is.
How is fucking a half-orc like riding on a moped?

[jerdanro]

Lol. That joke is as old as I am, but go ahead... 😂

[Andres77]

@jerdanro they're both fun to ride, you just don't want your buddies to see you doing it.

[jerdanro]

@Andres77. Well said!

[Gwenhwyfar]

@jerdanro 😂😂😂

[jerdanro]

@gwenhwyfar. I promise not to mess on the carpet.

[Gwenhwyfar]

@jerdanro a half-orc barbarian could have a very handsome face. And defo a nice bod.

[jerdanro]

Hmm... Well, I don't have the bod, but I'm a bit of a barbarian. Lol.

[magiusX26]

fave elf subrace?

[Andres77]

@magiusX26 vanyar...

[Gwenhwyfar]

@magiusX26 drow or hulderfolk

[magiusX26]

i vote drow as well. next fave is rockseer

[little_rose]

As someone who's pretty sure she's mixed race, I don't think I'm in a good place to say that I wouldn't date outside my race lol

In fact, I have dated outside my nationality before haha. Love does not care about ethnicity. I'm sure I will keep dating guys from other countries with other 'métissage' in the future.