What is the real reason you've never dated outside of your race if you're single?

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Quigly · Accepted Answer

Interracial dating is based on the idea that the only differences between races is the pigment of the skin. Medical statistics prove this is a complete lie. Different races have a completely different health profile. We are not the same regardless of what lies the media wants us to believe.

An interracial child is impossible to find a medical donor for in a medical emergency. They have to match tissue. Interracial children suffer from identity issues their entire lives.

Dating outside your race is just a selfish act that serves no other purpose.

Cultural differences are also a huge social divide.

Flatmanlewis · Accepted Answer

Since my late 20’s I only ever dated outside my race. The last white woman I went out with was when I was about 27. After that I dated only outside my race, mostly Hispanic (I love me some Latinas!) but also some others. Also, I think “race” is kind of over-simplified since I dated a woman who was Italian and another from France but was so culturally different than me that any implication that “white” was even close to the same as me merely based on skin color was just laughable.

menina · Accepted Answer

I've never dated. I'm black and I'm mostly attracted to white men. Unfortunately I live in a country where interracial dating is uncommon. Of course I would date black men but that never happened either.

People usually date within their race, so it's not different for white men. I know that dating a white men would be challenging and most white men find black women unattractive.

So, those are my reasons.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I’m Asian and have only dated other Asians. I’ve never been approached by non-Asians, I got complimented here and there but none have ever actually asked me out on a date so I figured that other races don’t really find me that attractive.

JTinSC1981 · Answer

I'm white and have never dated outside my race but the only reason is because I don't really know how to approach girls of different races. I am HIGHLY attracted to most black girls and would love to date one but I don't really know how to get it started. If any black girls (or other girls) have any tips, I'd love to hear them.

Darkchild25 · Answer

None of the options fit me so I'll comment.

I've done both. After multiple bad experiences with women of my own colour... I'm more attracted to other ethnicities. I still love black women I've a mom and sisters. My daughter isblack but I'm yet to find one I've fully matched with. Not to say she's not out there but I've given up looking for a specific black woman.

Actually not looking to date for a while anyway.

Yannae · Answer

None of these options apply to me. The real reason is that I have seen beautiful women in all the countries I have been to. That's all the reason I need. You have different cultures, true, but there are individuals who think just like me regardless of where they're from who also look physically attractive. The world is too populated for this not to be possible.

Theodoricus · Answer

How funny your understanding of race! Only one race in the world and its the human race. Your understanding of race aside, I've met so many ladies during the last 15 years. Unfortunately they were all my wrong choices. And I don't worry for that and focus on my career.

Jay0102 · Answer

I dont think about it because the is only one race here and its the human race. People shouldn't be putting so much energy into thinking and judging someone based on what there skin looks like. If we all just accepted people for being the same and humans the world would be a lot better place

paledreams · Answer

👀🤍 Never really thought it, plus my username, plus only caucasian women whiter than me (and I'm fairly white) - prefer to eyeball the snot out of me and usually petite short 20s white women, stare up my nostrils lol aka eyes 👀 👀😋

yourturkishgf · Answer

I live in Turkey and here we have all skin tones so my boyfriend and I look like we are of different races. He is blond, pale I'm brunette and brown skinned. And even though we are both Turkish we still have a lot of issues so I can totally imagine why someone wouldn't wanna date outside their race. The skin color topic is soooo sensitive, you have no idea

Serkee · Answer

I wouldn't be against dating outside of my race, but most women I've been attracted to were white. Everyone who's been attracted to me (as far as I know) has been white too.

Princesspd · Answer

I have dated and slept with other races, but I married my own race so that there won’t be any language barrier and cultural complication with my parents.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I lived out in the boondocks, so there weren't any women of different races to even ask out, much less date. Now my wife prefers that I don't date anyone no matter what race they are.

FreyaRed · Answer

I'm not attracted to other races and I'm attractive enough to find top dating material in ethnics similar to mine.

Anonymous · Answer

For me it’s that I never really date WITHIN my race. Im biracial and live in Utah. I’ve only dated white guys. Not much black people around here in general. I also find black men to be too sexual and fetishizing.

RavVid · Answer

In my case it is more simple. There are not many other races. I wouldn't have anything against it but all the cute Asian girls are taken.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

I have been approached by many different races and I don't discriminate...

CrabCakes11 · Answer

I’ve only ever dated outside my race due to living in an area that doesn’t have very many people of my race

chrissykerdock · Answer

i dated an indian guy and his mother hated me

JacobJordan · Answer

When I was single there was only a few people of color I was attracted too. And they were married and I was a teenager.

matchrestore · Answer

I live in North Dakota where the dating pool is 90+% my own race?

exitseven · Answer

I asked out a girl in high school who was black. I thought she liked me and I thought we got along well. Still, she turned me down.

slatyb · Answer

I've crushed on many women of other races but I've never been single at the time.

Anonymous · Answer

Have done it more than once. My last relationship was with a black woman much younger than me. Although I loved her, after a while I realized that our cultures were too different for it to work in the long run.

Anonymous · Answer

Because i live in a state of a little over 12% black population. I just don't get as much exposure to black women I'd date any race.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Brown parents don't want to see their daughters with no White boy

Anonymous · Answer

When I was single, I only "dated" those girls who were deliberately available, or who were introduced to me by other people. All of them just so happened to be light-skinned Americans.

Anonymous · Answer

I have but I only date hot guys and some girls

Emmytexrex · Answer

They are not much were I am and I would love because I like changes

LiamJHayden · Answer

I don't care about hair, eye, or skin color. I care about the type of person she is.

MrDaveAPSI · Answer

I don't want people to think im dating them BECAUSE they're black, if that makes sense

Anonymous · Answer

Don't know. I've pretty much exclusively dated outside my race.

Anonymous · Answer

As a member of the KKK I would thank that would be obvious.

serious · Answer

I have never dated in my life

JosyJosy · Answer

I date outside my race.

OtterMan68 · Answer

The opportunity never came up

Pohjolan · Answer

Never had that opportunity arise.

DreamLife7 · Answer

I prefer biracial men

Gabriella2005 · Answer

Not much option where I live.

shortster · Answer

I have dated and will date outside my race.

Anonymous · Answer

I have dated all races i for real can’t care🙌

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