Double standards in men?

[Anonymous]

I find white and black men both attractive but I feel disrespected if a white man tries to just have sex with me, while I feel totally fine with a black man doing so.

White man is supposed to date me, while I feel kinda afraid to date black men as society views it as very bad thing specially where I live that is why I feel ok with little fun with chocolate men.

What exactly is my preference? Is it normal to feel attracted in both types in a different way? I kind of feel insecure.. anyone feeling same?

[Anonymous]

It's a hypocritical expression of your inside racism, if I can play Freud for a minute. You "expect" black men to disrespect you, and you don't "want" a relationship with one and conveniently blame society for that. But in reality, you don't REALLY see your life with a black man anyway because you'd rather be with a white man. However, you DO want to be fucked by black men because you think they are better lovers with bigger dicks. But in the long run, you want a white guy to be with, not because it's easier, but because you don't trust black guys.

That sounds more like it to me!

[Asker]

I did date blacks before, on the low though I was shy. Maybe If I was in america Id just be cool. My parents are kind or racist but I like what I like

[Opinion Owner]

Your response is rather irrelevant

[Sweepthelegjonny]

Well put sir!

[Bogoboj]

Its a preference nothing weird about that.

I myself have no real preference when it comes to race but i have noticed a pattern in what race i have dated more wich is Latina followed by Black and lastly white women.

Now would this mean that i hate my own race or that i just find something more accommodating to my own preferences in these other races.

[natured]

Chocolate Men? Seriously we're in 2021 and you still see differences in skin colors? Society? I don't know in what society you live and I hope I will never be part of that because it must be VERY SAD to still see the difference here when clearly there isn't...
PEOPLE, THEY ARE PEOPLE, no matter the skin color, if one of them is destined to be your soul mate and make you the HAPPIEST why would you not accept it because of society? I mean screw society in this case it's YOUR HEART that has priority above all this BS...
Cmon people, SELFLOVE, it all starts there..

[Tiptoetamm]

Im attracted to both white and black men and have dated both and had sex with both I don't give a shit what other people think if I'm happy and he's happy that's all that matters

[Asker]

Well in other areas its more common, here's maybe 5 blacks in total..

[boggboss]

Meh its u allowing society to influence what your allowed to do what it comes to dating and sex meh

[Asker]

Its very rare to see black men here and if they see you with one people immediately see you as a hoe, like you are making such a big sin while you see gays being admired like it’s something to be proud of. One guy once told me “he doesn’t judge me cause I am straight”... since when shall I be judged even... Being straight is the only normal orientation.. (idc how many will disagree with me on this one). Only guy and a girl can have sex and make babies, and that is nature!! Only one way for me. Yeh I don't know why I am talking about gays here, but I just don’t feel its fair how being gay is ok, while being in interracial relationship isn't

[boggboss]

Well both situation are stupid and your are equally dumb for letting that determin who u will date have u never learnt other peoples opinions should be irrelevant to you dating

[ShutUpWhiteGirl]

White men are npt supposed to date you. They deserve better than your sorry ass. By the way, you're racist.

[Asker]

How racisr

[ShutUpWhiteGirl]

Women like you were born to be treated like crap. If I were your boyfriend, I'd treat you in such a way you'd never make a white man lose his time with you again. 😆

The pussies who dated you failed you to teach good manners.

[MyAtaraxia]

Yep, that the kind of thing that´s real even if noboby will talk about it.
You yourself say you have reference in terms of "dating" becouse you think white male should date you, not a "social construct". (Term which is BS, to be honest).

[Clarke498]

Well, it doesn't sound like it's based on your preferences, but the societys rules that the reason you do what you do.

[Asker]

Maybe ur right hin

[tatianamay]

Weird lol. I’m not sure. I think you’re more attracted to black men that white guys. I don't know. It just seems like it








Ps: I’m 16 and not 14 😑 I’m receiving so much hate on here smh

[tatianamay]

I’m not able to change my age and people are like: are you sure you’re 14? For the millionth time, I’m 16 😑

[PBarlow]

You usually get attracted to the mindset and personality of the person, not shell, considering a long term relationship

[Anonymous]

I don't understand
You like balck men for sex and white men for dsting? Or is it the opposite?

[Asker]

Yeah like that but currently im more attracted to black. It changes though

[Opinion Owner]

That's what called as a racial fetish

[AlexanderAnttila]

So it's alright for black women to fetishize white men in this exact way that so many black girls claim white men do?

[SupremeWarlord]

Do not care much about what society thinks of you, especially if you think these taboos are bullshit.

Just be happy and make others happy in the process.

[_Troian_]

Well noone would like to date with a wasted-piece of meat which lays herself under strangers and get boned by them under name of ''having fun'' .. I wouldn't have respect to such woman like that, it disgusts me.

[Makeushiver]

Yeah it's fairly normal= at least in most coastal metropolitan areas. I'm curious about why you fee! Disrespected by white men. Would you mind explaining.

[Leavesbound]

When it comes to romance, all preferences are valid. You don't need to justify your romantic choices.

[watrewks]

Wtf? A white man trying to have sex with you is offensive while a black man is not? Wtf? You’re an idiot and racist lol

[Avicenna]

I guess it's your preference, but it seems pretty dumb to me, especially if you end up getting pregnant by one of these guys.

[Smegskull]

I think it is very strange that this is so strictly racial for you.
I do understand that what is physically attractive for sex and what is physically attractive for a partner can be very different things.

[007kingifrit]

its pretty clear your preference is white because that's what you want to date long term

also there is nothing wrong with double standards. we have different rules based on different things

[Browneye57]

Just don't tell anyone. This level of confusion is absolutely astounding.

[Diversity_Hire]

Literal word vomit. 😂

[Browneye57]

@Diversity_Hire - For gods sakes, the shit they come up with.
"I feel disrespected"... it is ALWAYS and ALL about the FEELZ. LOL

[Anonymous]

I don't say this very often but almost everything you said sounded very racist.

[bamesjond0069]

I wouldn't touch you with a 10ft pole. You are really mentally disturbed and have serious problems.

[drexel420]

I second this motion shit

[Browneye57]

As I like to say, "I wouldn't fuck her with YOUR dick." LOL

[msc545]

You expect black me to act badly, but you won't accept it from white men. Very racist of you.

[MCheetah]

What is the question asking?

[Anonymous]

Last guy was most attractive you probably prefer white guys.

[Nachowedgie]

Good ole daily racism

[COMMODOREII]

Sounds racist to me

[Asker]

Whats racist here

[SamFromFL]

You like chocolate

[Asker]

I like both but I feel open to do more with them :D while with white I prefer other things also.. I like both tbh

[SamFromFL]

But darker skin turns you on more

[JesseJayNeak]

This is fetishism. Quite creepy

[Anonymous]

Sorry I had to laugh

[Asker]

I don’t blame u its weird 😂😂 but can u comment though

[KrakenAttackin]

Grade A damaged goods.

[Sweetener_]

You're racist.