Is it ok to cry on a first date?

[SamFromFL]

If someone feels sad and cries how does that affect your opinion of them?

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+1 y

I should have said what if the guy cries; seems like people assume it’s the girl who cries.

[tatianamay]

Yeah sure. Men are humans too! They should be free to express their emotions without being criticized. If y’all say that men and women are equal, then why are women allowed to cry, but when men do, they’re considered as weak? Expressing emotions is not weak. Let’s break the idiotic stereotype. Sure, it’d be strange. If it’s because of me, I’d be a little upset. Is it because someone close to him passed away? Is it because he’s stressed or depressed? I’d first try to see from his perspective and analyze the situation and try to help him out in whichever way I can :D

[BabyJae420]

He's in touch with his emotional side nothing wrong with that!

[SamFromFL]

So you would like him more for crying?

[BabyJae420]

I did it a guy that was more in touch with his emotional side and me personally I didn't mind

[OlderAndWiser]

It would certainly be strange! Why are they crying? I'm a disappointment? I'm their dreams come true? Their dog died earlier in the day? Does this mean they trust me or are they just weird?

[Aether1]

Only if she shares what's wrong and let's me comfort her then I'm a good listener and a shoulder to cry on. If she keeps it a secret then that would turn me off and make me think that I did something wrong.

[Anuakshay]

Emotions need to expressed showing real u matters than faking emotion

[SamFromFL]

So if a guy cries you still can see him as strong and masculine?

[Anuakshay]

Yeah even guys have right to express their feelings if someone do so in my date I will hug him and console and ask wts the matter

[exitseven]

I wouldn't. I don't think girls would like it if a guy was too weepy on the first date.

[Anonymous]

Oh my god, some of these answers are just delusional! No of course it's not okay. It's a HUGE red flag that the person is emotionally unstable. Run--do not walk--away from someone who cries on the first date.

[BarryLiverstone]

If a guy cries I’m not sure how sexy that would be to his date

[exitseven]

especially the first date.

[Turtleneck22]

Wtf. Red flag. See ya.

[kina003]

Why would even do that?

[SamFromFL]

He might hear a song or see something the causes a tear or two. I’m not talking about full on crying

[kina003]

I'm not against crying, but man on the first date seriously?

[SamFromFL]

So it’s ok?