No options in dating?

[Anonymous]

I feel being a male I have zero say on who I can date. I don't have options I only can hope that one of these people I match with will agree to a date and maybe just maybe a second. I feel like I can't date around and try different people because I just don't have that. I feel ill end up in a bad relationship because that's the only type of person that will end up taking me.

[OlderAndWiser]

You have "zero say." So if a girl wants to go out with you and you aren't interested, someone forces you to date her anyway?

[Asker]

No that's not what I mean. I mean that I just feel very powerless in who I want to date.

[OlderAndWiser]

SO what you mean is that you are powerless to make a girl go out with you if she is not interested?

[Asker]

This is hard to explain, what I mean is I feel like I'm have having to fight for even a first date and second date. I feel like even if I see a red flag with someone I really can't say no to her because their is so little interest in me.

[OlderAndWiser]

Okay. What is it that you think makes you unattractive to the women?

[Asker]

Oh lots of things haha, I'm overweight, I'm balding, I lack confidence, I'm indecisive, bad teeth, not very tall, I have a lot of fears that pop up.

[OlderAndWiser]

So it's not all just because you are a male.

[Anonymous]

Just go on bumble or MeetMe apps and you'll have options there okay

[Asker]

Yeah dating apps aren't the same for men and women...

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know what to tell you

[Yourfriend2021]

It's very tough in today's world.

[Anonymous]

With that attitude, you're right.

[Asker]

Positive doesn't really help either