34 F here. Is it fine for me to date a 23 year old guy?

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I met a 23 year old guy. We are dating, nothing very serious at the moment. He has a hot muscular body and sex is amazing. Is it OK?

ohshee · Accepted Answer

When I was 15 and 1/2 16 years old I babysit for some lady and when she got home her friend that she was with asked me if I wanted a ride home and I said sure plus you didn't like two blocks from me we went to her house and it's one of the best experience I've ever had and we have that experience for over a year and then she told me that she was married and that she was getting back with her husband but then she also introduced me to one of her friends and that was even better that this lady was 4 6 I think 43 and her friend that she introduced me too was like 34 and I dated her for about a year or I don't know if it was dating really LOL but I understand what you mean what is the best experiences I've ever had it both of them were I say go for it it's nobody else's business

hahahmm · Accepted Answer

I think it's foolish because you aren't getting any younger. It's like a person who is starting to get out of shape physically asking if it's okay to eat a lot of junk food. It's not the best idea. It'd be way wiser for you to focus on being the kind of woman who can attract a high quality man. Especially since your biological clock will be going off any year now. Being prepared for that in advance would be smart. Assuming you don't already have kids: Your ability to attract a guy is on the decline and your concept of what makes a quality guy is (probably) going higher and higher... meaning it's going to be harder and harder for you to attract the kind of guy you want for serious, the longer you wait to look for him. A young 20s guy isn't *that* guy.

Emii_Urashima · Accepted Answer

I am pretty sure that 23 is a legal age everywhere in the world. Although, I wouldn't be surprised if the USA raised their age-of-consent again, and put it at 25. 🤣

ACupOfT · Accepted Answer

I'd say yes. It's ok. You're both adult afterwards.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol i was 18 years old when a 36 year old was messing around with me. It was a great learning experience for me on how to treat women and how to read women better. One thing she never did was go on around asking if what she was doing with me behind closed doors and in public, was okay. She was happy and enjoyed every moment being with me. So if you are happy and he is too with what you two have going on, forget about what others have to say. As you said it yourself, you want nothing serious. So this will not last forever.

Anonymous · Answer

No way seriously!!! What’s wrong w you? Lol jk hell I remember when I was about 25 I was banging some lady who was 40. Damn best thing that ever happened to me cause she knew it all lol have fun, be young, drink Pepsi lol nothing wrong w it at all. Even if you ended up w someone much younger in a real relationship there’s nothing wrong w that.

Anonymous · Answer

No, it's not okay. You need to go surrender at the police station immediately!

Seriously, why are you asking this question? You know it isn't illegal. You know that many people will judge you harshly for this and many other won't GAF. So why are you asking?

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

My first sexual experience when I was 14 was with a 19 year old woman, so I could hardly say I had a problem with age difference.

Bottom line.. If you're both happy, screw anyone who says they don't like the idea.

ArztSchlachthof · Answer

That's not that much of a difference, seen far worse. If he is into it and he is above the legal age (like he is), then go for it, it's nothing neither special nor strange.

Just don't go for 16-year-olds or younger, please 😁

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

A Tudor who tooted a flute? tried to tutor two tooters to toot. ? Said the two to their tutor, ? "Is it harder to toot? or to tutor two tooters to toot?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I say go for it. But you said you're not looking for anything serious. So who the fuck cares if he's 23?

loveslongnails · Answer

You can date anyone you want. You don't need anyone's permission, you're a 34 yr old woman. The odds of it lasting long term though, are not in your favor.

Trex706 · Answer

Fuck yeah who cares what anyone thinks life's short do what you want to and who u want to point blank period

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Definitely, as long as he is 18 or older, go for it and enjoy.  Don't give a fuck on what others say

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Sure. It's unusual, but it's not like you are doing anything wrong.

flying_alone · Answer

yeah i dont see anything wrong. i like old women too.

Wise4myage · Answer

Why not? He's legal. Maturity might be an issue though.

dileep85 · Answer

Depends on your mindset. What you think is important.

Adam_West · Answer

you people seriously thinking such things like that?  still? ? ?

NibirX · Answer

Yes... Normal for both... But I don't Think that's gonna last long...

andreasderjuengere · Answer

You have my permission :)

_Troian_ · Answer

If both of u want it why not lol

QuietRunner · Answer

yes perfectly fine to date a guy like that

Anonymous · Answer

He‘s a lucky bastard, ha ha.

Anonymous · Answer

Wouldn't it be easier to just take Ginsana?

lycanthrope3 · Answer

you are both adults, your business, no one else's

TheFlak38 · Answer

that's cool.

anylolone · Answer

Fine. You do you.

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

Nope

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Why wouldn't it be

tachanka · Answer

It should be fine

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