Is it ok to date a 38 year old man even though I'm 23?

[shannonct2005]

I met this cute guy but he's much older. My mom already is flipping out. Am I wrong?

[ohsheeT]

I say if it makes you happy do it

I look at it.. like this it's between you and him
We are all looking fir something
And if you found that little something.

Explore it experience it learn from it
This is just a moment in time after this one there will be another one and another one

Everything we do in life is a learning experience.

[Zack-Bann]

Wouldn’t your name be shannonct2002 if you were 23… 🤔


That aside: you’re a legal adult, have been for a while.
You can make adult decisions and live with the consequences


You no longer require approval. Even if people will still pretend like they’re entitled to cast judgement


They’re not

[Anonymous]

y'all are adults , I don’t think I’d do it personally , but everyone has their own preferences

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for mho

[Apple1996]

There's a reason why women his own age don't want him

[Ariesman81]

Yeah. Cause he's got standards.
Feel free to block me anytime.

[Apple1996]

@Ariesman81 if he had standards he'd already have found them in someone else in his 20 years old adulthood

[Apple1996]

@Ariesman81 i dont block anyone

[Ariesman81]

@Apple1996

Sometimes men in their 20s choose poorly. Like, older women, for instance. And sometimes those younger men get baby trapped by those narcissistic older women.

[Apple1996]

@Ariesman81 that's a joke. Men do the baby trapping to try to keep women. I'm 28 and i know this dude is to old even for someone my age. He's either already there or extremely close to the path of balding, greying or having ED so what's the point of a young girl wasting her time on someone who is middle aged? If that man fucked up his youth than that's on him

[Ariesman81]

@Apple1996
Like I said... narcissistic older women.
Some women just like being a woman.

[jahaims]

He is a loser if he has enough in common with someone 15 years younger than him. That means he is immature. That is why he is single at 38. He was a senior in high school before you even started school.

[Anonymous]

Well you are less likely to have things in common. So your mom is right to be concerned. But it's your life boo boo. Just proceed slowly and you should be ok. If a guy likes you for you he isn't going to rush you into anything.

[Ariesman81]

No. You're fine. Just make sure your goals match up.

[Abbycado]

That is your business. You are both adults.

[Anonymous]

is he rich and have his life sorted out?

[Gaylordslav]

you can do whatever you want

[PaleDale]

Sure, it's legal and fine if consensual.

[Anonymous]

It's your choice, I think it's ok.

[LiamS95]

Sure, why not?