Guys, if a guy doesn't go down on a girl but wants her to go down on him everytime, should she dump him?

[Anonymous]

I have been seeing this guy for a while and I noticed that he always wants me to go down on him but he doesn't go down on me hardly ever. I feel like I should not have to ask and he should want to do that especially if he asks me to go down on him. I have also mentioned in the past that I like it. So is it safe to assume he probably doesn't like me that much and dump him?

[NamerOfStars]

Well, if you're not sexually compatible, you're not sexually compatible- but it'd be better to make it clear first: tell him, unambiguously, that your sexual needs aren't being met, and that you want him to go down on you more. It's always best to try to work it out first (well, okay, not ALWAYS, but if it were the type of situation where it's clearly time to leave, you wouldn't be here asking us), and then split up if you can't fix the issue.

As far as not even having to ask for what you want goes- it's a nice fantasy, but it takes a long time of sexually getting to know one another before you reach the point where that happens reliably. It shouldn't take serious pressuring, though, and I'm guessing that you're talking about more than just a "Hey, would you eat me out?" (which should usually produce the desired result).

[HawkPerception]

That is not an equal relationship. If I were in a girl's position like that, I would not be in it. If they don't care for your desires, then that is not a good representation of how the relationship will be in the future. It will just be you doing shit for them.

[Tom067]

If you really like him, ask him why he doesn't do it. tell him how that makes you feel. You obviously feel dissatisfied so you'd enjoy more if this part of your needs is also fulfilled. at least when you ever think of leaving him you would've tried making it work, only he never bothered to listen to your needs and pulled his weight

[Andres77]

Is your whole relationship only sexual?
You might not like it but you're doing it.
Stop doing it.
Tell him that he'll get his orgasm when he earns it.
Make him earn it.
Make him earn you.

[spartan55]

It's not you, he's just a selfish motherfucker... there are way too many guys that love doing that for you to put up with that bullshit.

[oldawg]

Yes because he is just being selfish and thinking only of himself

[Anonymous]

It is safe to assume that he doesn't want to lick your pussy. Why is a grown ass woman asking other people whether she should dump him?

[Vietnemin]

Why do you call yourself a girl when you're over 36?

[Trex706]

Yes wtf he better be eating pussy and loving it too wtf

[dudeinohio]

I wouldn't go down on him unless he goes down on you. If that doesn't work, then dump him because of sexual incompatibility.

[zagor]

Notice that HE is asking. Yet you say you shouldn't have to ask. Maybe he assumes if you want it you'll ask for it.

[zagor]

Women complain about men making assumptions, then when they don't they get pissed.

[hellacray]

If it was me I wouldn't dump her. I just won't go down anymore.

I like things to be fair.

[CreamySeed]

This is ridiculous, i would have a relationship where I eat the pussy and expect nothing in return not even sex

[anylolone]

You are stupid, you should have to ask, since he does ask.

[lycanthrope3]

sounds like it is all about him, should be an ex by now

[Anonymous]

sit on his face and use him for your pleasure then dumb him

[genericname85]

i guess try not going down till he does xD

[more_than_a_guy]

You are dating an immature boy, not a man.

[NibirX]

Maybe he wants you to go above 😶😶