Do people these days like or want to date a modest partner?

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What i mean is not just by dressing but by acting, do people like modest, acting with good manner not ghetto or wild, acting shy, gentle and polite, having a very good attitude and manners with people around and overrall having a conservative belief and action. Do people actually want that kind of partner? Or is there still modest people i know for sure they're few these days

ohshee · Accepted Answer

But I'd like you should somebody that is real they can be themselves be happy there's a time and place for everything I mean I even wildness there's no reason not to be polite you get 10 times more respect that way and it at the same time that person has a little bit of a wild side like to laugh and joke around with it that is a lot of fun too

lonewolf2233 · Accepted Answer

Self mutual respect from both partners is need trust and honesty for a realtionship to run smoothly and of course be yourself that's what makes someone truly come out.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

See, I'm a bit of yes and a bit of no.

I want someone who knows when it's appropriate to be modest and when they don't need to be.

Basically, I like dating people who have good social intelligence, the ability to emotionally regulate, and who have a bit of both worlds.

Because so do I and I want someone on my wavelength.

Lionman95 · Answer

Yes I do that´s what I´m looking for but it has become hard these days.
Because I feel like people have become suspicious probably because some guys only show kindness to get laid. I´m often too much in a rush to care and have patience to really get to know a woman and show her that I wanna know her character and I´m not interested in seeing her nude.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

In terms of overall behavior, yes, I mean they'd obviously come across as a nicer than someone who's manner-less.

It wouldn't be someone who's totally conservative though, like I'd want them to a bit of a fun side and not take themselves to seriously, just in a civilized manner.

Darth_Fidelis · Answer

If that’s the kind of individual they are, then yes, it’s very attractive. I don’t really like the idea of someone faking themselves for the sake of their partner. It takes away the ability to trust that person, and the relationship becomes fake and hollow as a whole.

Browneye57 · Answer

You're fine. Just be you, yourself, don't try to be something you're not.
Western culture is falling apart, going to the dogs, but you don't have to follow them off the cliff. Just be the best you that you can be, that is all.
And you'll find a great guy and develop a meaningful relationship. Simply hold to your morals and what you know is right, and everything will fall into place.

YOLOIFIC · Answer

There is no way to say anything about “people” rationally since even if there was a majority opinion on the topic, which is not the case here, there is also going to be a large number who don’t agree with the majority.

Modesty has its pros and cons, it’s also highly subjective. What I consider modest you might consider provocative and vice versa.

rjroy3 · Answer

Not really. To me modest means subdued. Personality really doesn't come out. Like I'd have to put in a lot of work in order for them to really open up.

Introvert is fine. Little shy then eventually open up is fine. But as a matter of your general way of carrying yourself? Pass.

CasuallySamsonite · Answer

odds are the more modest in public the more freaky behind closed doors... also, self respect is sexy

bobalife · Answer

Of course, I think the most attractive trait about a man is if he has a good heart and soul. So, having a modest partner is valuable and appealing indeed :)

Vikkrram · Answer

It totally depends on person to person , But ya for sure we all like those people who are Modest, Polite speakers, A good listener... But Don't try to be that you are not.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yes I like what you describe but also being their own person. my main things are being Confident, independent, intelligent (not qualifications but ability to chat).

tallcuck · Answer

There are people who like it and people. who don't... There is a gentleman looking for you... But watch out for pretence. Some man will pretend to be gentleman to get you and than shownyou their true face. But only a lady deserves a gentleman. You get what you give...

m33lad · Answer

Social media has destroyed woman’s perception know any grow any weight any age any luck any barcode North skills any skills little thinking anything we’re all looking for a 25-year-old Brad Pitt of course is not in the males designed to be hot and beautiful but that’s totally their own delusion.

Leavesbound · Answer

You just described the perfect girlfriend and potential future wife.

LonelyDeer · Answer

I would most definitely like/date that kind of person.

Marhaban-1 · Answer

They probably would but that's not encouraged by media as such

vald9inches · Answer

As long as they are a good person and nice and are open minded and none judgmental i think that will be all that is important to me 😊

Anon621 · Answer

I personally prefer to have a partner that is modest since I am also modest and I want to date someone who compliments me

na2398 · Answer

Yes of course! If that's her true personality, so be it. :) :)

Arabella_Rose · Answer

i think most people out there are well mannered and polite. but it takes wayy more than that to have a successful relationship. In other words, you would need more than that to impress a guy

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely. I’d love a woman that hasn’t banged half the country but conservative girls like that don’t exist anymore.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

Men are selecting yes but in reality that's not want they want.

Supernormal · Answer

What's your take on modesty. Since Everything comes with taste preference these days

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Modest is the best option. Conservatives turn me off.

es20490446e · Answer

I bet most people prefer that.

anonyni · Answer

I wouldn't care much but I lean towards liking modesty.

ThePolishKnight37 · Answer

That is actually what I look for in all people.

exitseven · Answer

I would like that. Drama gets old pretty quick.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Yes, I desire a modest woman in my life.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Yes, because it sets an example

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Of course we would there just hard to find

dray995 · Answer

Yes, of course. Why wouldn’t anyone want that?

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Yes 😊. They do.

karaspara · Answer

Absolutely

S3ntnl · Answer

Acting? I would choose a slut over an actress

Adam_West · Answer

No, I want a woman like a lioness.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Plenty of people do

Slim57 · Answer

Thats the only ones I want to date

Mia-Wallace · Answer

Some do.

Asianguy123 · Answer

They like easy person to have sex

shydude1991 · Answer

No, i need an extravagant fruitcake

Anonymous · Answer

Idc woman is a sextoy.

alance99 · Answer

For sure

soe11 · Answer

I like liberal

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes.

Anonymous · Answer

Jailbait

Zygum · Answer

Sure,

Be4rdy · Answer

Women dont

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