Is it just a myth that girls don't like good guys? (Page 2)

Question

People say that girls don't like good guys or nice guys, and that it's the bad guy that always gets the chance. But then again if you ask a girl what type of a guy she'd like, many girls tend to say "Someone kind, caring, and funny", and that doesn't sound like the bad guy. It's confusing. So is the "girls don't like good guys" thing just a myth rather than a fact, or is it vice versa?

RoyalGuy_PRO · Answer

Yes. Im a nice guy. a girl is dating me. heh. Well, It doesn't matter how the guy is nowadays. He just need understand her

exitseven · Answer

It is a myth. yes, some girls have some kind of complex where they want to be abused by an asshole but most want somebody who will make a good mate.

Anonymous · Answer

Class attracts class.
good guys attract good girls.
bad guys attract bad girls, who twerk in rappers music videos half naked for money or fame and cheat on their boyfriend.
if you're calling or considering yourself a good guy but all you get are bitches and gold diggers, then you're doing something unknowingly to find only bitches and gold diggers.

TwoowT · Answer

I like good guys in daily life and with people but bad enough on bed.

djo82789 · Answer

Girls tend to draw near guys that are confident in themselves and more extroverted in your face kind of attitude.
Now the nice guys are nice, but don't like to put themselves out there. This is generalization but for the most part I find this to be true. As long as you are a nice guy with confidence, you should be fine.

genericname85 · Answer

"good guy" is just a blanket statement that can be filled with whatever highly subjective meaning. it really says nothing. so any expression that uses that word is too vague to have any tangible meaning.

jshm2 · Answer

Depends if you mean "nice behaving guys" or "r/niceguys"  Mainly, as people who refer themselves as "nice," rarely are.

hellacray · Answer

Well they are looking for a good guy but...  They want to turn a bad guy to a good guy. Which just never happens... Let's face it women are hypocrites and just as shallow if not more shallow than men.

Anonymous · Answer

Easy.
The people you love are not the same people you fuck.
Guys also want a nice loyal girl, but will fuck the hot bimbo without a second thought.
Same the other way around.
Besides as you get older the bad boy phase ends and they don't even become good for a fuck.

Anonymous · Answer

Some people think women want nice guys when they get older. Wrong... most women never want nice guys, they just settle for them when the bad boys no longer want them.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Myth... truth is guys confuse not having a life with being a good guy, whereas if you don't have a life you're just boring.

AgentRED · Answer

It’s the “bad boy” archetype is who gets the attention from the ladies so, it’s not really a myth. So yea, nice guys do finish last.

MountAverage · Answer

It's a myth. Young, immature women often tend to go for assholes until they eventually grow up and realize how bad it obviously is for them. Wanna talk about the bad dating decisions of young, immature men? Yeah...

jirwin7979 · Answer

i think it is a myth the girls either friend zone or ghost a nice guy it has happend to me to many times to count

Anonymous · Answer

Women are like followers and they follow the ones who are more dominant and confident. In our society the dominant ones are the bad people and good people are pussies. "evil prevails when the good guys do nothing".

Lildiq · Answer

They like wife beaters and aggressive assholes. That's why they always date them

OddBeMe · Answer

In your late 20s, 30s, nice guys start looking good.

GoddammitLover · Answer

They like those guys who seem to be touch but actually have like a soft spot. they find that cute for some reason.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I think it’s be most fair to say a lot of women want a man with elements from both good and bad guys.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Absolutely NOT!! If girls like good guys, why are so many of us lonely? Especially since the M to F ratio these days is now 1 - 3!!

rounddablock · Answer

Your asking this as if you were 15 years old. You are 24.  Talk is cheap. What women go home with via what they reject/friéndzone is the acid test.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

No, they like good guys. What they aren’t telling you though is that he has to be a good guy that is also attractive to them. That’s a given and you should know that.

Juxtapose · Answer

lol women 100% love hot badboys, just look at all these killers getting love letter. I like women who are more aggressive, dominant, etc but not killers lol.

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

Girls like nice guys as a boyfriend for a social status. Girls like bad guys on bed. And I'm bad & fuck boy I can say this with experience.. lol.

thotmas97 · Answer

It’s something that shy guys tell themselves when they rationalize why girls don’t approach them. It’s not true at all.

DaMack999 · Answer

When they want something of course they want nice guy. They can make you feel like a prince. Suck your woody every night. Then comes few years later honey we need to talk. Lol good luck.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

people are individuals, for some women thats true, and for some it's not.

jspl90 · Answer

I think its more that they dont like boring guys🤔maybe I dont know

CanadianGirlx23 · Answer

I love good guys. I wouldn't want to date an aas

Dnice1 · Answer

Not at all lots of field love good guys. If you ask me they are the best kind of guys.

Anonymous · Answer

Girls like good guys but only after a certain age, and they are ready to finally settle down...

Jamie05rhs · Answer

The way I best understand it is that most girls take a bad boy and try to make him nice. ... It usually doesn't work out, though.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

It's a myth because those who claim to be good guys aren't necessarily good guys😂. If he treated an ex like 💩 then gets with another woman and treats her like a 👑 that doesn't make him a good guy.

Anonymous · Answer

That's where you are wrong. They want the perfect combination of good and bad. For example, like a good guy he should take her out to a nice classy restaurant but like a bad guy pull her into the restroom for some crazy sex.

DWornock · Answer

What girls want is a hot guy that will treat them like an average guy would. That seldom happens because the hot guys they chase after can do better.

SandandWaves · Answer

I like a good guy

Lyrem_ · Answer

No its not a myth Kayla still looking for her bad boy😆. Iykyk

888theGreat · Answer

They go for the guy with a criminal record and abusive, and aggressive sexually

Omario2049 · Answer

Women love guys who treat them like trash #FACTS. I've personally put this to the test and proven it👌🏾

InferiorElegy · Answer

It definitely depends on what the guy looks like otherwise yea girls tend to avoid the good guys and go for the hotty bad boys.

Anonymous · Answer

Most girls don't. Not all ill say 80%. That 80% will only like good guys when they 30 or have a baby by another man

Shihab91 · Answer

I think the reason is bad guys looks more dominant ... Just a theory

anylolone · Answer

No, it's incomplete. Apparently nobody likes good people, lol!

innerman · Answer

🤓🤓🤓

JesseJayNeak · Answer

If they truly did like they said they did, they'd go after them as a first option

Anonymous · Answer

I may be wrong but I think it comes down to the Fact that most women like dominant men  & I don’t think they see a super nice guy being dominant

Kate200005 · Answer

I like a good guy but in bed I prefer a bad boy 😉

Avicenna · Answer

Some don't (or don't appreciate them), others do

Asianguy123 · Answer

Who needs a guy who smoke crack and got into trouble with police in and out of jail?

malik_nyc · Answer

good guys dont smoke weed and dont fuck them right in da pussy, they dont like them 😂😂😂

SpaceNinja04 · Answer

There's a difference between nice and good 😅

Anonymous · Answer

not this dumb fucking question that's been asked a million times again

Anonymous · Answer

It's not about being good or bad. WOMAN LIKE CONFIDENT GUYS. Guy who can make them feel in a certain type of way. Being a simp is not manly.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

Girls love good guys. They hate nice guys.

Twalli · Answer

Girls marry thr good guys

pantsuhunter · Answer

Scientifically proven mate

Ryfyle · Answer

Women Clearly adore the Explosive Asshole Type.

UpAfterDawn · Answer

It's just a myth

elsaaaa12133 · Answer

I think it’s true we get bored

charlidunkin · Answer

Thats a myth for me

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