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Most girls like a little bit of both , if a guy is too nice she won’t be interested if he is too bad she won’t be interested , she needs a little of both to keep her on her toes , Most girls love the game of chase and trying to figure them out completey is impossible , so as a guy best thing to do is let them know you are interested but not for to long if she doesn’t come chasing you back then you are best to move on , if she does come chasing you accept it for a little then start acting like you you need some space let her know you have a life over worshipping her , she more than likely will be on her knees wanting you more , When a guy constantly chases a girl she gets turned off , she likes a guy to play hard to get Girl’s brains race a 1000 things at once so by giving her space and letting her brain catch up she will come to you when ready but if you are constantly on her space she will lose interest , Ypu kind of have to make it seem like you are ok without her without coming off as an asshole , Girl’s are attracted to confidence and status where guys are attracted to her beauty and personality , Again bro it isn’t easy but if you want to keep a girl that’s the shit we got to do to keep her standing by us , if not she will be looking elsewhere
It's kinda simple, actually.
Girls want to have fun, thus they want "a bad guy", since "bad guys" are usually those who care mostly about entertainment and "messing with girls". "Good guys", nice ones, usually don't prioritise entertainment and fun. Instead, they care about their self-development, their friends, their career and future et cetera. Also, "nice guys" can appear needy if they are too mindful and helpful. That is, apparently, not attractive.
This is a rather social problem, I'm afraid. People do not value "nice" individuals. Instead, they mock or ignore them. In fact, being mindful, helpful, nice or sacrificial is seen as a "weakness" that others can use.
For example - a girl that I know about chose a boy that "stolen" her phone and put his number inside. That's certainly not what "a nice guy" would have done.
Also - if you question a girl about this, try asking her prior how many "nice guys" she is aware of in her life and how many did she reject. She will probably say something like "none", in which case she is either not aware of them (another problem nice guys have - they are not "loud" enough) or really had no "luck" in life, or something like "a lot" and she apparently hasn't found them attractive enough.
Just a quick question - why do you think all those divorces happen? Can it be, perhaps, somehow related?
That's coming out of my experience - if you are different, sure. However, this is an observation that I cannot prove to you since I haven't really taken notes on it during my life ;)
I like decent, good-hearted people. Being good takes courage in our world, it's not easy.
Why would I be with someone who's a dick? Why would I be with someone who is a dick and just pretends to be good?
The "good/nice guy" archetype often has nothing to do with actually being good.
Sometimes it's an euphemism for being timid and lacking confidence combined with resorting to manipulation to get what they want because they otherwise lack the qualities that attract women. Sometimes the so called good guys just pretend to be good because they want something in return and show their true face when they don't get it... because they put the effort to act "nice", they feel entitled to it.
So in other words I like people who are good despite the world being bad because it's their nature and not pretending to be nice to avoid open conflict because that's the easiest way for them to get by.
Girls like bad guys mostly when they are young. That's because they look for thrill and adventure. But later usually they get tired of the guy because despite the thrill you find out such guys to be assh0les. Usually you can't turn such guys into a good guy. Girls of course like good guys. A good guy and nice guy are two types, nice guys are the type of guys you see in GAG who are being nice to you and then ask for a boob picture because they think they deserve it. Good guys are different from them.
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-----------Here's what it's all about kids.
Women like the bad boys and want them to be good guys. Problem is... you will never find a "Bad Boy" that wants to ever be that "good guy" they claim to want... because that would defeat the purpose of why they are attracted to them in the first place.
~Coach T Anthony @thedatecoach IG
You're confuzzled man. Girls like 'good guys', but they also like edgy guys, alpha men, leaders, guys that are actually going someplace and being someone. They like power, money, and good looks. And they want to be entertained. If you're not all that then get busy and do the work.
There's a difference between 'nice', and 'kind'. It would do you well to study the difference. Girls see through 'nice' - you'll say and do ANYTHING to get in her panties.
Kind is a strong man - he doesn't play nicey-nice, he's on his mission, he's working toward his life goals and aspirations. And he's polite, kind, it doesn't mean he's an asshole. And no, you don't treat girls like shit, but you don't put them on a pedestal either. Their respect is EARNED, it's not an entitlement.
I recommend you read at least the first two years' blogs by Rollo here:
www.therationalmale.com
He does a good job of explaining why women act like they do, why they do what they do, and what man's place is in the dating game. Everything you've ever been told by women in your life, your mom, sisters, teachers, aunts, etc. is a giant lie. Yes, it's all false.
I can’t talk for other women but me? Can bad guys stay the fv (k away from me. I have NO time for a guy like that.
I want a good guy. A guy that’s kind hearted, friendly, loving, he listens, he’s supportive, he speaks so kindly to you and to others, respectful, I’m general has good morals and values.
I was seeing a guy, J, who was this incredibly attractive guy, into bodybuilding, he’s tall, bad boy kinda guy. Had a terrible attitude, extremely close minded, spoke rudely, always left me feeling unsettled, unsure of where we stood, controlling and judgmental, yes he gave me a good time and blah blah blah but boy I ended that real quick after I realised he was NOT it.
Met a guy, k, have had a thing for nearly two years, he’s incredibly sweet, kind hearted, the whole thing with him so so relaxed and calm. He’s my height, bald, not a bodybuilder (he’s slim with a slight chub coming along), not that any of that matters, just stating how when you go for those hot bad guy types, you get nowhere and you realise there’s more to it than the brief fun and looks.
I’ve fallen head over heels for this good guy, this kind man. So glad I never wasted my time on previous guys. Even with this super sweet guy now things get so exciting and fun and the more I fall in love the better things seem to get. Actually, things get better every single day!
Girls want someone they’re afraid of basically. That’s what makes them hot in the pants and they’ll do anything to keep them around. The only reason they talk about nice guys is because they want that alpha guy to nice enough to stay with them.
Also birth control plays a huge role in this. When women are ovulating they want a those traditional alpha guys that we all are familiar with. But birth control basically tricks the female body into thinking it’s pregnant, so girls will tend to go for more beta males so as to assure someone to take care of them and the kid.
The feminist movement to make men more caring is the direct result of this. It’s basically a way to sift through guys so they can get the alpha genetic material and the consistency of the beta male.
If you’re a guy, just think, think a bit. You’re already a nice guy. You believe in high moral ideals and want to treat everyone with respect. The feminist megaphone yells “be nicer” or more in touch with your emotions, yet you can’t pinpoint any time where you were mean intentionally for some sadistic pleasure, or have a complete lack of empathy that you can’t possibly relate to others where every social interaction is a manipulative opportunity for you. Yet they say that with such ferocity that some guys start to think this might be true. You don’t have to feel guilty, you don’t have to repent, you’re nice already.
It’s a myth. A lot of the so called nice guys, that appear nice are actually not that nice. The problem is that a lot of psychos are not self aware at all and see themselves as being “a nice guy”. What does that even mean to be a nice guy? The opposite of a bad guy? I think people have taken this narrative from romantic movies where there’s always a super bad guy and a super nice guy. My ex was a nice guy according to him, and I thought so as well, he had the qualities of a so called nice guy but he wasn’t nice at all. He didn’t respect my boundaries, no wasn’t always a no when it came to consent. And he was psychologically abusive. My latest ex would appear as a so called bad guy. Got looks, style, goes gym, a typical mans man but was a good guy, softie and overall nice guy. The women that go for men that don’t treat them well often have unresolved trauma that has causes them to have an insecure attachment style. But no man or woman wants to be treated bad. As humans we are attracted to confident people, and if you as a man see a confident man as a “bad guy” then please go work on yourself.
Definitely just a myth. I’ve never liked or dated a mean guy. The shitty side only started coming out later after they got comfortable lol. But every guy I’ve dated was super kind to me at first and i would never date a different kind of guy. Im way too sensitive to be dealing with that.
Girls like guys who are nice and respectful, however, that is not the same as a "nice guy". That refers to guys who think that just because they are nice to a girl or are friendly with one, that they are entitled to sex or a relationship. They overstep boundaries without regards for the other person, and can grow violently aggressive when turned down.
It depends on the person wisdom, age and personality and maturity.
For a teenager, she does not know the difference between fake and not, nor caring now about the consequences.
For a grownup women, she know the difference and know the consequences and can see which is fake and not.
At thr end, There are two groups:
1. That make the myth true
2. That make the myth false.
Choice is yours to see in what group you which to belong.
Whatever you choose, you will lose something but gain something else.
My boyfriend (I say boyfriend but we're not really dating and I absolutely HATE the word lover) is a good guy. He's super considerate, caring, sweet and honest and I adore him. He obviously has a dark side to him but he overtly shows it and shows that he can control the 'bad' in him and that's a good sign to me. It reassures me.
To be completely honest, I wouldn't like a too nice guy because my thinking is that an overly 'nice' person on the surface certainly has a hidden dark side. And I don't like people like that. I can feel when people are hiding something bad and it's a truly horrible feeling.
For obvious reasons, I would also not like an absolute bad guy lol
most women in the millennial and most likely zoomer generation are a lost cause. They’ve been corrupted by feminist and leftist ideals and haven’t figured out that virtually no men will tolerate that mindset in a serious relationship. These women truly believe that a relationship is all about them and treat men as an accessory like a purse or shoes. The men that will tolerate these women have no respect for women at all; they’re the guys at the bar that knock up a bunch of chicks under a fake name then skip town. In general women have lost all value and virtually all of millennial women will end up alone having raised kids by themselves that refuse to interact with them once they’re old enough to move out. I feel bad for the lives ahead of millennial women, because it’s the same life they’re trying to give most men now.
It's quite simple; Confidence. Too much confidence - you're an asshole / jerk / wife-beater. Too little confidence - you're a pussy / bitch / weak little boy.
Most 'nice' guys are that way because they're wusses - a common problem in these days of "All men are evil." The best way to be, I've found, is the way they told us in Marine Corps Boot Camp; Be capable of raw, brutal, extreme rage and violence... but keep your sword sheathed. Think of a old West hero, who will only draw his gun when he must.
Still, there are a lot of damaged girls out there with unresolved father-issues, who will absolutely look for men that will treat them like shit, (my sister, for example), and stay with them while being abused.
Nice guys; Be kind, not weak!
It has been MY personal experience that as soon as my adolescent paramours found THEIR PARENTS APPROVED of our dating borne of my overt manners... begun my being viewed as "too white bread" and 'tame' to advertise the girl's desire to espouse her rebellion and self expression. If I wasn't concupiscently pawing her like some ravening Predator, then I was too boring. She was looking for me to provide her 'life experience' yet unwilling to signal she was at least passively interested exploring her physical capacities.
The problem lies in the vocabulary. "Good guy" can mean basically anything, or nothing at all, depending who you ask. "Nice guy" is similarly vague, but also loaded with negative connotations, as many equate "nice guy" with "simps", "incels", etc.
What women tend to find attractive in men are traits like competence, strength, confidence, and any demonstrations that he is a good protector. Then there's also virility, sexual confidence, and overall attractiveness to consider.
None of which is exclusive to either "good" or "bad" guys. Just as there are competent and strong willed good guys, so to are there incompetent and weak bad guys, and vice versa, and everything in between.
The truth is there is NO good men on this earth. Even back in the day according to Mark 10:18 and Luke 18:19, Jesus says, “Why do you call me good? No one is good except God alone.” so us humans aren't very good no matter what anyone says and those girls that try and put a man into a worldly standard category of "bad" or "good" so all in all regarding the topic.. we all have bad nature in us, and those good guys aren't really all that good just to afraid to get what they want fear.
Women like good guys.. Women who were raised right and are great themselves.. Girls like bad boys.. I've literally seen some girls talk about how they want a dangerous guy, or a thug.. Those girls usually have problems of their own they never fixed.. They end up getting abused because they gravitate towards a type of guy that's not good.. So it's not exactly a myth but it is spread around a bit too much to a lot of women..
You'll never *not* get a girl just because you're a good guy. An attractive guy doesn't become unattractive just because he's nice.
The reason you (general "you", not necessarily you specifically) can't get a girl is that there's something else about you that women don't find attractive. Maybe it's even that your personality isn't as great as you think, which is likely the case if you feel the need to pin your lack of sexual success down to how great you are, instead of analyzing how you could improve yourself.
Definitely a myth! Lol. I would love to meet a good guy and that's desirable in most cases for women :) A bad guy is just a red flag, and I'm tire of them esp the ones who pretends to be a good guy at the beginning.
Bottom line is this, women will always say one thing but want something else. Simply women love the idea of having a good guy but actually don't want it to happen which is why they always reject them because at the end they want this bad boy. Then when they decide it's time to settle down they complain that there's no good guys left or they disappeared. The problem is they were to late to settle down. By the time they choose to settle down and find a good guy all those guys have already found a girl to settle with that's much younger. That's why there's so many old single woman, they were simply to late. I got of topic but anyways I think for the most part most girls don't but there's a few that do.
Its somehow true. But not completely. We like guys that may be strong and rude but not with us. Its just like we like protective guys so if he got that bad boy look we assume he is strong and protective. But not the kind of man who will be abusive. I like sweet guys but not the ones who show his sweet cute side to everyone. So about the question i think its somwhere in the middle.
Depends on many things.
Good and bad is relative concept.
What many calls bad boy do attract emotional immatur female mind and repels what many consider good guy.
( That's the oversimplified short version )
I say.
Don't even bother with those female's.
They aren't worth wasting our life on.
They rarely have any quality to bring to the table even if they seams to have it.
Their physical beauti fades faster than you realize and they doesn't have any bargain chip. and when it comes to it, it wasn't a bargain chip to start with when the rest of the package is missing.
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