Do you wish that people of the opposite sex would straight up tell you the reason why they rejected you/aren't interested in you?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yes

No

[blank_expression]

Hell no, I never cared. Why on this earth would I base my “self” as a standard on what some flaky female says? Think about it, we have an almost infinite number of variables that belong to her and you that may or may not blend. You may as well just go to a psychic-crystal-ball-reader to obtain a more accurate reason. I mean she is most likely clueless herself with all those hormones saturating her squirrel brain. The fact is, I personally don’t even want to know what is in her head because I am sure the inter working clock mechanism would be a frightful place to see. I leave this with “careful what you wish for.”

[slatyb]

It’s not going to happen. You are entitled to a polite answer. You aren’t entitled to a reason, and most of the time it wouldn’t be helpful because it will be something you can’t change — too short, too tall, too heavy, too thin, whatever. Women generally give vague rejections because it’s safer for them. There are only three responses to an invitation: yes, an alternate time,, and no. ”Sorry, I’m going out of town.” Thats no. “I’m out of town this weekend, call me Monday” That’s most likely yes.

[natured]

Yes, i'd rather be honest...
but the thing is, when i rejected guys they backfired at me with things like
- YOU DON'T LIKE ME ONLY BECAUSE OF THIS AND THAT THIS AND THAT, they started to become aggressive... it even happened here in G@G through private messages...
I'm sorry that I'm taken isn't this reason enough to kindly reject you?
Lol some people
*sigh*

[fonduegirl]

I hate slow painful deaths so yes. Rip the bandaid! Now.

[MotorcycleMan]

Oh, sure, brutal honesty would be helpful, but you're not likely to get it.
Self-reflection is difficult. You're going to have blind spots.
One of the hardest things to do is to find a friend who can be that brutally honest with you and help you grow as a person.

[ChiTown33]

I always want the truth but when it comes to women. Most are incapable of giving a straight answer. So at this point I don't even care what her answer is. Anything but an enthusiastic yes is a no to me
If you just take this attitude towards it then you don't waste time on women that don't know what they want and it stops game players cold. Those women that like to play games now have to go on the offense and pursue you.

[Miah02]

Most people can't handle the truth.

I mean how would ya feel if she was like.
Yo ass butt ugly and everytime I look at ya i wanna throw up.

I mean sometimes it's just better to be nice and not be honest

[Tiptoetamm]

Your fucking hilarious. It's so true tho. The truth hurts always has. Some take it better than others

[higheredge274884]

Sometimes people don’t have an answer though except not feeling it. I know personally I’ve had that to some girls, and in reality I didn’t have a reason but to her I have no reason and my boys I just said mean stuff that wasn’t really true

[Inexpensivefurniture]

No. I don't need a reason, what would be the point? To argue with them? To make myself feel inadequate? No, I'm fine with a simple "I'm not interested"

[MCheetah]

YES! Women instead just end up being cowards and ghosting you!

[TommyMountainFigure]

Not really. When I was your age, I ALWAYS knew the reason they rejected me!

[Nick473]

Yes but it should be constructive and delivered without being offensive

[MConfused]

I struggle to read these situations. Please be straight forward so i don’t live in my head thinking it all over a million times

[KritikaShoQ9]

It's better to say out on my face than let me have assumptions and suffer

[iseekpinetrees]

Most people will be honest. You just have to ask.

[Omario2049]

Women are nonconfrontational. They'd rather not say because it might piss u off. I'm glad to know though because what I've found is that 8 times outta 10 it's really her not me. And yes when they say I'm short that's still a them problem because I don't pursue women taller than me because every guy knows that's a no brainer but when I'm here 5'8" and she's 5'2" I know she's absolutely delusional. Women will reject u because she's secretly battling with a yeast infection or because she's currently on her period and feels gross. There's so many reasons that really have nothing to do with u.

[jillybeanns]

At the age I’m at now, most definitely.

[Pterodon]

Yes but be prepared for the straight up answer

[Anonymous]

Will you be able to handle what they'd say?

[msc545]

Yes, but they won't. Too embarassing.

[exitseven]

I just don't care.

[Marhaban-1]

I wish