Do you ever feel like you don’t attract the people you want?

Question

I have no difficulty making regular friends but the good looking guys I want to date are absent from my Facebook contacts and the guys I want to date are not on my speed dial. There were many times where I wished it was a boyfriend texting me instead of a friend or acquaintance. I always go for the cream of the crop so I don’t get accepted all the time.

MotorcycleMan · Accepted Answer

Yes, supermodels and movie starts never call me. In the immortal words of the guru Mick: "You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you just might find, you get what you need."

exitseven · Accepted Answer

I have been rejected a few times. It is part of the process.

Finchie40 · Answer

The older I got yes, , I don’t feel as good as I once was lol so I don’t really make any moves cuz I feel she is out of my league and that she wouldn’t be interested , I will still give a girl compliments if I find her beautiful but that’s pretty much as far as I go if she doesn’t pick up on my approach , nowadays I feel I need a girl to come on to me first for me to feel that maybe I have a chance lol So for that ever happening is a very long shot

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I have dated some very beautiful women. Not just in terms of looks but with regards to personality too. For me it's always about having the confidence and self belief to get to know them.
People of both sexes make out there is mystery to getting to know, or even approach someone they are attracted to. There's no mystery to it. If you don't speak to them how are you ever going to get to know them enough to go on a date?

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

I feel like I'm really bad at estimating the odds of success.

Omario2049 · Answer

I feel like I don't go after the people I really want. Often times it's a mood thing. Meaning I never see who I really want when I'm in the mood to approach and then they'll start popping up when I'm off guard so that when I do approach it's after those opportunities have passed. The world never serves u when u want.

Vikkrram · Answer

No i never approach the girls coz i am think they are out of my leauge 😂😂. Coz honestly speaking i am an below average looking guy. So when you are sure that you will get rejected then it's better not to take any step 😂😂😂😂

Anonymous · Answer

When I was growing up yes, and I knew that I could do way better. But as I got to college I started making a move on the guys I liked and it actually worked.

SuhRaw · Answer

Yes! It's been many times I have tried to approach a woman I was attracted but she just wasn't interested. Sometimes the people who are attracted to us we just may have no interest in them. Seems like it happens to me a lot but I don't give up.

LonelyDeer · Answer

Yes, I can relate but the difference between our feelings is that I don't aim for the top. I... I don't really know what I do wrong, or I just refuse to be anyone other than me.

bobalife · Answer

There were times I have also felt this way. But a lot of great and good looking men are taken now by my age.

Supernormal · Answer

Dont get ambitious, and cut off friend zoning. You have many ordinary male friends. The men that really like you are always assuming you're taken. So yea, you're unapproachable

Agape93 · Answer

Ignore that wade user. He’s just a crack pot nut job.

Anonymous · Answer

No one attracts the people they want. Guys take an active role, and girls sit around waiting for what they want to fall into their lap, neither approach is attaching the people they want.

Marhaban-1 · Answer

No I don't generally attract to someone based on looks

Fion3il · Answer

yes I like someone a lot but he doesn't like me and a different girl might like me ;-;

Anonymous · Answer

I've only met a few girls that have piqued my interest enough to feel regrets over. I hope i meet this one girl that i talked to last year just once more. Its not going to happen though.

Anonymous · Answer

Unfortunately for me I have not been able to attract anyone in my entire life of dating which currently stands at 10 years.

havingfun101 · Answer

When your standards are up and your value is down

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Exactly why I have never dated.

Medhat-M · Answer

As in terms of personality yes

UnknownGagsUser · Answer

Yes hardly making new friends these days..

TeaganDoll · Answer

i def feel that way a lot

jaclyndavis · Answer

all the time..

collie22 · Answer

no not really

thathing · Answer

i attract neither..

ayomanwya · Answer

Yes.

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