What would you change about yourself if you could?

[msc545]

I would like to be taller. I'm only 5'10".

[Anonymous]

5’10’’ isn’t that short. I’m 6ft. I’ve been beat out by shorter guys before competing for women I wanted. It burned at the time but they had tighter game then I did. I really never thought about height very much growing up. You can buy height increasing shoes on Amazon by the way. That can help with first impressions.

Anyway my 40 bday is today. I’m single and never been married. The longest relationship I’ve ever had lasted a year.

I wish I could wake up tomorrow and be 16 back and back in 1997. I want to have natural prime physical strength (which I achieved around 32), my full natural endurance (at 23) and have my prime mental capacity (probably 35ish) along with all my future memories and martial arts skills.

I’m a brown belt in Brazilian jiu jitsu. I would go back and beat the absolute living shit out of every HS bully I could find. I would be easily be a HS state champion in wrestling. I would know what school subjects really matter vs. which don’t. I would know the game with women and probably get dozens of them in HS. I would also be able to outwit manipulative adults. Back then I trusted grown ups too much (I was raised to respect always respect them). Not all of them had my best interests in mind.

[Huldusonur]

I would make my confidence better, I doubt myself way too much.

[Cathy7734]

1. I wish I was academically smarter than I am. I have to struggle way too hard to get an "A." Plus, some math and physic courses are beyond my comprehension.
2. I wish I wasn't intimidated by loud, angry, and obnoxious people. When they scream, yell or throw things it wouldn't bother me.
3. I wish I had the attitude of "Cleanliness is the closest thing to Godliness." My place is dirty. I do my dishes and laundry but I lack in cleaning my place.

There are other things I wouldn't mind changing but it wouldn't affect my life in any way, shape, or form. Where the above 3 would affect my life.

[stupidgirlllll123]

I'd change my nose. I have a Persian nose so it's too big for my face and it's crooked and it droops when I smile, and I hate smile because of it cause I feel like when I smile my whole face screams that I'm Persian (also Iranian). It's even uglier from the side, and I got bullied about it a lot when I was in 5th and 6th grade. But, I'm getting a nose job when I'm older and when I have the money, but that bothers me more because I have to wait till I'm an adult to be pretty. It's not fair.

[Asking87]

I have a small flat nose and always wish it was bigger and would stick out some but it's not there

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Other than trying to take off the weight I gained in the last year, I'm good...

[Cathy7734]

How much weight did you gain?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Cathy7734 Too much...

[OlderAndWiser]

I would like to be more athletic.

[Account]

... Why? I mean, you are tall.

[I_am_Dor]

Oh trust me some girls out there want a guy to be 6'5 or even taller. I've met one (who is 6'2 so yeah she is pretty tall) and she only dates guys taller than her.

[Hfdghg]

@I_am_Dor that’s a stupid response. You’re talking about an extremely tall woman. I’m 6ft2. Being taller would help me in no way whatsoever. Just add problems actually.

[Account]

But he is tall. I don't get it. Then again, I am 5'1 so...

[Cathy7734]

@Hfdghg
How would being taller add problems to your life?

[Hfdghg]

@Cathy7734 clothing. I’m always ducking from things above me. Dating, it wouldn’t help but make it worse.

[Hfdghg]

My feet already hang off every bed

[Cathy7734]

@Hfdghg
But all the men are complaining they aren't tall enough for dating. According to them, all women want men to be at least 6' tall.

[Omario2049]

Nah this chick @Account be trolling. No girl ever calls any guy under 6ft tall. Even when she's a bloody midget at 4'11". Not specifically her, just referring to women on a whole. I'm 5'8" flat footed and women at 5'1" call be short all the time even though I tower above them and I'm stacked full of muscles. It's insane😂

[I_am_Dor]

@Hfdghg well that was her response and it is indeed stupid.

[Aguysopinion4799]

What I have always wanted to change if it were possible is my epilepsy, if it disappeared for good and I didn't have it, I would have a lot of opportunities in life that I don't currently.

I don't mind the rest of my body, it is not in the best condition but not unhealthy by any means, it is also things I can fix by simply exercising more than usual, not a complicated fix.

My emotions are things I don't want to mess with, I prefer keeping my mind in one piece and when it goes loopy give it time to process on its own, not wish for things to be removed to speed up the process, I want to keep the memories, I just don't want them to make me think stupidly ^__^'

[Kurainix]

Honestly and frankly, i don't have something to change about myself. I've reached a level that if i want to get a chick that all others are wishing, i'll have her with ease. For me, dating is something that discusses your mental strength over your physics, if you esteem yourself a good personn you'll get what you desire. With the ressources that i was created by i won't hev to change anything of my physic and of course won't wish to change something about my mental since dating is just a phase that will allow you to know yourself while you're dealing with the opposite gender.

[exitseven]

I would like to be more intelligent. The only way I could make it through college was through pure brute force. If I had an exam, I would spend the previous 8-10 hours in the library trying to memorize everything I could. My grades were still disappointing. I barely made it through graduate school. I knew students that could just study for a couple of hours and go in and get an A. I used to be satisfied with a C.

[thimmslicc]

If I could change something about myself, it would be my eye color.
Not that I want to change anything about me. I wanted to answer for fun.

[Asking87]

Me too I always wished I had blue eyes

[thimmslicc]

I want grey green

[Cathy7734]

I have hazel eyes. But I always thought having bright blue eyes would be fun. But then I met someone who had bright blue eyes and she always has to wear sunglasses because it's always too bright for her, even indoors.

[thimmslicc]

I heard the same about blue eyes, im so glad im brown eyed and they made colored contacts lol

[thimmslicc]

Hazel sounds so pretty

[msc545]

I would like blue eyes

[thimmslicc]

Very pretty color

[Omario2049]

As much as I've grow to own my imperfections to the point where they no longer bother me at all. I'd make me 8 inches taller to 6'4".
I'd give me bowed legs.
I'd make my body fat % impossible to exceed 12%.
I'd add a little more muscle on the shoulders and arms.
Add an extra 1.5" to both the length and girth of my dick.
Remove my ability to have hair bumps so I could allow my beard to grow sometimes.
And lastly I'd remove my inhibitions to unlock full beast mode.
I'd be God 👌🏾😎

[Janessa2021]

It would definitely be my body type fixing my teeth but that's it physically, mentally it'll be how much I overthink , dwell on the past pain , and make my self paranoid about what the future. And lastly id change how bad I feel for putting me first , beating myself up over small mistakes and standing and feeling bad for standing up for myself 💖

[Cerberus_1773]

I think I’d want to be more outgoing. Maybe then I’d have more people who who want to go out and do stuff with me.
I’d also want to be more confident in myself.

[Cathy7734]

If you met more people I bet you would meet more people who are self-absorbed and self-centered. Because that's the way people are in today's world.

[Cerberus_1773]

I guess that’s pretty true

[Anonymous]

You're tall. 5'10 is not a bad height what so ever at least you're not 5'7 or 5'6. One of my guy friends is 5'6 and he hates it he used to get made fun of for it in high school.

[msc545]

I have learned that 5'10" is not tall enough for most women.

[Opinion Owner]

That's dumb how some think that especially the ones under 5'4. I'm 5'5 and I think 5'10 is a good height for a guy.

[Alyssa11]

can't believe I’m saying this publicly but I wish I had bigger boobs lol.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Big boobs are overrated

[Alyssa11]

I mean just a little bit bigger would be awesome 😢

[Aguysopinion4799]

I think it is okay to want something like that :) the way you said it did make me smile though, I found it rather nice the way you showed in words how embarrassed it makes you feel on the subject :) I personally find it really endearing when people behave like that.

[Alyssa11]

Lol thank you 😂

[anona14]

1. Remove my undereye wrinkles. The firsts are starting to show thanks to covid lockdowns -_- . I spent a lot of nights in front of a screen.

2. More hair on my head. I've always shedded a lot of hair since I was little.

3. A thinner nose. My nose is a bit wide. It widens when I smile. I don't care that much to get a rhinoplasty and it's not that bad really (I've seen worse noses), but if I could somehow magically make it thinner I would.

[Leavesbound]

I wish I had a full head of hair. I've lost the top 30%. It would be nice to have it back. I would not mind having a normal size genitals that functioned normally.

[K-I-S-S]

Make my right leg the same size as my left. It's a bit smaller than the left because i had few big injuries on it when growing up, so it didn't grow that much. Nothing major, usually more pain in the ass to find shoes that fit both legs equally well.

[Not_Average]

I’d like to be a little more simple at times. I’m extremely analytical, and it can prevent me from being able to relax. It comes with pros and cons. Physically? I guess I’d like to be a bit taller too. 6’4” seems ideal.

[SheerKiss3]

Nothing physically. But I would like to be less shy.

[HiveBee]

I've become less shy. But turns out, social anxiety doesn't just go away because you became good socially lol.

[SheerKiss3]

Well you are doing good. You dont seem to be so shy 👍

[Gwenhwyfar]

Physically? I’d like to be one cup size bigger (any bigger than that would be too much). Emotionally? I wish I were a lot less moody.

[WowwGirl]

Shut tfu

[WowwGirl]

Bigger? Moody? 🙄 Crazy maybe ❤️

[Gwenhwyfar]

@WowwGirl crazy like a fox ❤️

[WowwGirl]

Like a damn song bird singing at night

[Gwenhwyfar]

@WowwGirl a mockingbird 😊

[WowwGirl]

Change my answer
I wish I would have slept with @gwenhwyfar when she asked

[Gwenhwyfar]

@WowwGirl wet and wild 😂

[WowwGirl]

Word on the street

[LemiaOfChampions]

Moody, Your always a pleasure to talk too.

[Gwenhwyfar]

@LemiaOfChampions thanks 😊

[A_Bell]

I would give myself more ambition, I guess. I could be a lot more professionally successful if I didn't enjoy low stress environments so much.

[DarkCarousel]

Smaller boobs. Mine aren’t enormous, they just get in the way during athletics or fashion. I’d prefer them to be a bit smaller.

[MrPlentiful]

Sooo u basically want to be a man

[MrPlentiful]

Amazing how women want penises (according to research) and smaller boobs like men have

[DarkCarousel]

@MrPlentiful What an insightful conclusion you have drawn here.

[MrPlentiful]

Are u being sarcastic