What would you change about yourself if you could?

12karen

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I have a near-uncontrollable temper. The only thing I could control about it when I suffered it worst in my younger years was to avoid hitting people with it, but I instead punched walls and the like, clenching my fist in anger all the time and ready to explode.
I've heard that feeling anger is a healthy thing for human beings. It doesn't seem to be so in my case because I go berserk every time. I always kept it largely functional by unleashing mostly in private.
Yet what I would give just to be able to get angry without losing self-control like that. The only cure I've found is to just avoid getting angry at all. It's why I am such a major student of Stoicism, Buddhism, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, etc, because I need it. I can't afford to get angry very often. It'll destroy me if I do.

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- GuyAnswersGirls123
  
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  Every time I start to get angry, I'm like, "Oh no! I'm getting angry! Why? Think happy thoughts! Happy thoughts!" 😁
  
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- 12karen
  
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  Does it work? Happy thoughts happy thoughts!!
  
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- GuyAnswersGirls123
  
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  That was a bit exaggerated but usually I try to challenge the negative instead of replacing it completely. For a simplistic example, let's say I have a rough day at work. I might start to want to get angry like, "This day is the worst! It sucks! Arrgaargahghhh!" So I try to stop myself and challenge it like, "Hey, it's not so bad. People have it worse in the world! You're lucky! It's just a challenging day! It's not a bad one. Why would something be worse just because it's more challenging?"
  
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Agent_Elflord Follow
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Physically: I'd get another reconstruction surgery on my foot and then plastic surgery to have my left ear and eye raised ever-so-slightly to be level with the right ear and eye. Oh and I'd have one leg be the same length as the other too (one is shorter by like an inch, inch and a half)

Personality-wise: I'd like to be more cheerful and stop swearing. Funnily enough, it's been easier to work on getting over pron addiction than it is to stop swearing.💀

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DancingQueen16 Follow
Yoda Age: 22

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I wish I could change my teeth because I've had braces twice, I've had to have three surgeries in my life regarding my teeth or my mouth in general and I have two more upcoming surgeries one for my bottom gums and one for my jaw to correct an open bite

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I don't feel like I should change anything about myself. Maybe I should work a bit on better managing my emotions

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Nothing! I love me just the way I am. What about you what would you change about yourself

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- 12karen
  
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  A lot of things, but I love me huh
  
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- Bklynbadboy12
  
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  Like what be specific
  
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- Miah04
  
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  I'm glad you love you. That's always the most important thing
  
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- Bklynbadboy12
  
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  Yes ma'am you have to love the skin your in
  
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I would make myself smarter and stronger and younger.

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Miah04 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 24

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I don't know. I think my mouth sometimes be too mouthy. I know sometimes I need to chile sometimes

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- Staximus
  
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  You need to chile 🌶️?
  
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Staximus Follow
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I don't know when to shut up, I have a bad temper

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Bobby88t Follow
Xper 4 Age: 37

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I think i would change my ling horse face and my low hanging balls

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JonesT10Apr Follow
Xper 6 Age: 27

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getting into fit and more stronger... wanna get flat tummy

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I've done it already...

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Rangers Follow
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I'd lose a ton of weight, but it's not possible, I've accepted that fact

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Knightwatch27 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 29

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Physically or personality wise?

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- 12karen
  
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  Both
  
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- Knightwatch27
  
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  Change my temper maybe, to not be so much of a hothead. And maybe tone down my libido just a smidge.
  
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Nikki1989 Follow
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I talk too much.

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ChicoFromThe305 Follow
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If give myself a peace of mind

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- ChicoFromThe305
  
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  Id**
  
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sheikalana Follow
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I would be more confrontational.

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douride2 Follow
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I have my mothers short temper.

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Jennz6 Follow
Master Age: 37

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My personality

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- 12karen
  
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  Why, you're sweet 🥰
  
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- Jennz6
  
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  I could be sweeter and more fun
  
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- 12karen
  
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  You're perfect the way you are darling 😉
  
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- Jennz6
  
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  @12karen thank you honey
  
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Siri137 Follow
Yoda Age: 36 , mho 46%

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My age. I'd make myself 20 again :)

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OtterMan68 Follow
Yoda Age: 58

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I wish I was smarter

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ab2shifty Follow
Xper 5 Age: 22

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Probably be more of a nice person

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- 7Phoenix7
  
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  Thought you were a good person 👀 lol
  
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- ab2shifty
  
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  Uhhh watchu mean 😅
  
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Jerre Follow
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Not a single thing. I like who I am.

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- Jerre
  
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  @12karen Thank you for the Like
  
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handsomelad70 Follow
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Lose 30 pounds or so.

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jahaims Follow
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Heal all my injuries

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eagle1951 Follow
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i wouldn't ge told

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Anonymous
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My sex.

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Iron_Ape Follow
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Nothing

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Imokydoky Follow
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My punishment size

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Jmmmfi4 Follow
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EVERYTHING

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Titlover01 Follow
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My looks

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Anonymous
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Longer legs

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