My 29th birthday is in a few weeks and I'm feeling like a loser because im still single what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I just never found anyone that was compatible with me. But dont get me wrong I've had many guys who asked for a relationship but I just wasn't interested at all.

[ughherewegoagain]

Sounds like you’ve got a case of the epiphanies. Welcome to reality sweetheart. When you turn away a bunch of great men that would have made excellent partners or husbands in exchange for chasing Chads 🐓, you end up alone. Viewed as nothing more than a dirty rag, and will likely never be viewed as wife material because you spent your sexual prime (when you should have been looking for your husband) turning away good men to go after the top 10-20% of men who have too much sexual abundance to see a need to settle down with another desperate hoe. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Sad reality, but often reality for women who weren’t raised traditionally.

[Asker]

Not really I've been approached by the bad guys. Obviously better to be single than divorced in my 30s

[ughherewegoagain]

Nope, you’re lying to me and yourself. I see straight through your virtue signaling BS. Try again.

[Asker]

I'm shy I never took the plunge to go out and try dating.

[Asker]

I'm not attractive

[ughherewegoagain]

I’m going to level with you. Because I am Married. I’m 29. I know I am coming off as a little bit harsh, so let me try to dial that back, because I am genuinely so irritated with modern women and hookup culture which is ruining the Nuclear family.

Please describe your upbringing, how many men you have slept with, and what made these men “bad” options for you. I genuinely WANT to help, because this is sad. You likely realized that you actually really want a family, but you’ve realized a bit late. So let me try and understand.

[Asker]

I've only slept with 2 guys I realised they werent what I wanted and 1 of them was really mean and he turned out to be a super weirdo as he wanted to film myself fucking other girls and try get me to do threesomes. He also told me to get surgey becuase my vagina was ugly apparently. Then before you knew it I'm almost 29 and all I got was really bad experiences. I have moved around a lot for university and I worked in another country so it makes it hard. I just need help

[ughherewegoagain]

I want to and will help you. Please DM me so that we can REALLY talk.

[Asker]

I followed you

[ughherewegoagain]

I will message you. 👍

[Asker]

Thank you 🙌

[Goldnessy]

Being a single doesn't make you a loser
Having a partner doesn't make you a winner. We don't own anything.

[ughherewegoagain]

Come back and say that in 6 years, when your SMV drops by 50% you’re still single and discover that you actually ARE LONELY. don’t give advice on something you can’t comprehend because your still in your sexual prime.

[ughherewegoagain]

You’re *

[Goldnessy]

@ughherewegoagain Well I have a different view about that then. Because I also don't found the right guy, but that doesn't make me anything less or better. Even after 6 years later. Loser = single is not what I belief. by the way, being lonely is different and being alone is something different. Based on what you say, can we conclude that all singles are lonely? İs that what you trying to say. Because that's nonsense.

[ughherewegoagain]

No silly, keep up. I’m saying women have a sexual prime between the ages of 18-26. When women hit about 27-32 their biological clocks start ticking real hard. Men start paying less attention to them, their options are quickly running dry. They likely will never find a quality partner because the attention is still on the younger women with lower body count and for all intensive purposes a youthful glow. Something you won’t experience until it’s either too late, or you wise up and settle down quickly.

[Jlegacy]

At 30 I had wild sex experiences and beautiful love experiences but I wanted the one. Also I felt like I needed a change. I needed something to give. And I got what my heart panted for.

Follow this feeling. Obey the instructions, good instructions, that it makes you do... you would find what your heart desires.

[Jlegacy]

Thanks for the MHO

[MotorcycleMan]

Define success within yourself, not by being with a guy.
Not being in a relationship doesn't mean you're a loser, it just means your picky. Celebrate you :)

[Asker]

Thank you I just never found a guy I like yet.

[MotorcycleMan]

I can imagine how difficult that must be. Most of us suck. ;)