Girl I dated for like 2months,. fun moments, cuddling, kissing, little mistakes made here and there etc, but she hit me and said, were not compatible?

[Drufasa]

She said she respect me enough to tell me this, she dont think were compatible,... her reasons were because I did a lot of random jokes that sexualized her, and sometimes were just inappropriate.. it kinda deterred her.. she didn't wanna be looked at in that way, she will laugh it off to be nice,.. she said based on her experience wit me,.. I might not be a good fit for her (or she probably just found somebody else),.. sound like she was crying a little bit or somethin, but.. after she told me that I said I appreciate you telling me how you really felt instead of just ghosting... I ain't gone lie, I actually liked that chick,... but before i move on,.. I don't think I wanna be done with her yet,.. when a female feels that way is it IMPOSSIBLE to reconnect with her again?

[White_Widow]

You can reconnect, but that means showing her you can treat her differently. In a sense that also means you have to change a part of who you apparently are. So think twice if you want to go down that path. She should love you for who you are, that's true love and full acceptance of the person your with. But if changing yourself is what you want then give it a try.

[Drufasa]

I definitely appreciate this answer, thanks

[Drufasa]

Its just that honestly I'm hesitant af to hit her up again, I guess cause im not sure what to say or how she might respond

[White_Widow]

Treat her like a lady and not as someone you sexually lust.

Maybe something like:

Hey you, I know things were said and that you think we're not compatible. Just know, I am sorry and that I have been thinking about you and how we left things. I've heard what you've said and took it to heart. Maybe if you're up for it I'll get s chance to show that to you. I hope you are well. Xxx

I don't know if that helps tho since I don't know much about how you specifically left things and or how you 2 communicated. But if I can help in any other way just let me know. 😊 Good luck!

[Drufasa]

Thanks for that,... appreciate it

[Drufasa]

Hey wassup,.. I didn't hit her up yet, I probably will this week, but i noticed she stopped following me on IG back when this happened,.. but still checking my ig stories meaning she has to type in my name to do that lol.. is this some type of sign?