After 3 dates, we kissed. From the 3 dates she sends me this message after asking for a break. Should I stop going out with her?

[badg96]

Do you think it's better not to go out with her anymore?

[Guy13]

Positives

Code: I’m beginning to trust you and I feel something when we kiss. Don’t rush me past that point…I’m still trying to figure out your true intentions. I want to hang out with you. I want things to happen naturally.
—Guy Moves: action things…paddle boat and feed ducks therefrom…art museum outdoor movie…ethnic low-key restaurant. Yard sale or like hopping. Zoo, museums etc.. Nice girl stuff and gentleman and you will feel when she’s ready to be moved along relationally.

Make sense?

[badg96]

Yes make sense. But she is foreign she only stay in my country 2months we never get anything serious

[Guy13]

6 month visit Visa? Move at her pace. I’ve done that too. I said, “we’ve got 4.5 months…how much of America do you want to see”. Money was not a problem for her…she could pay 485 night for her own room. It was a good time.
I work in varied time zones and fly a bit. I met her in Seoul about 6 months after her return (Buiness in that region).-Something like this could materialize 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[badg96]

Do you think I ask her if she wants me as a friend? to avoid wasting time

[Guy13]

If you are seeking sex type relations then I doubt she will maintain relationship. You may or may not get that. You’ll have to put in time to know. One thing for sure, if she feels like something you just want to conquer or try out…-she will disappear

[TheGentleGal87]

@badg96 have you ever heard of phones? Have you ever heard about texting? More importantly have you ever heard about social media and texting?

If she's only available for a set time do something with yourself and text her, call her, message her. Unless you know you're only interested in sex then stop wasting her time and move along

[Ευδεμονια]

I think honestly you shouldn’t stop since she didn’t said she doesn’t want to see you anymore or she isn’t interested. She has only doubts, she doesn’t know you really and needs time to clear her mind. I can say she appreciates you since she didn’t refuse your kiss last time!
Don’t give up, continue seeing her and make her yours.

[SphynxUK]

I would still see her if she’s fun, but make it clear that you will be dating someone should the situation arise. She should be ok with that, since she ‘doesn’t know what she wants’

[1GoldTwins]

Don't wait for her. Let her know what You want, and you want to be with someone who wants the same. She needs to make up her mind so you're not being lead on.

[Pinay_ako]

Yes please! She is hot and cold and I don’t want any bipolar person in my life. Bye ✌️

[Chazmatazz269]

If not defining the relationship is a deal breaker for you, then you should not hang out with her again. But if she’s good company, hang out. Just manage your expectations so as to reduce the chances of getting hurt.

[Kaytiee]

Yes I think you should avoid her if you want a long term relationship. What she means by 'hang out and have fun' is either friendzone, or casual sex.

[PJH359]

Yes let her go. It’s never a good sign to move backwards in a relationship. A temporary breakup will only lead to a permanent one.

[badempress]

She clearly has no idea on what he wants. Take the lead & see her response

[badg96]

I send this message to her:Do you think is bad if send this message:I've been thinking and I want to clarify what we both want. It's just that in the next few weeks I'll have little free time and I really want to clarify that. I think the best option for us would be a casual relationship while you are in Portugal without commitment. Can you think about what you really want and give me an answer.

[badg96]

She have to think.

[badg96]

She say have to think

[badempress]

How long has she been thinking?

[badg96]

I send this message 30minutes ago. Do you think is bad sign?

[JSmuve]

I'd drop her due to her poor texting skills. Jesus, send her back to school to learn how to proofread.

[msc545]

Sorry - but this is a polite way of telling you that you have been FRIEND-ZONED. You will never have sex with her. Move on.

[Anonymous]

Don’t let her play her shit games.

End it now and just be done.

Girls who get away with this shit think it’s ok

[Rohitbrli]

You're making her wait longer. She needs that d my guy. Take the lead. Don't be a bussy

[Iron_Man]

Sounds like a buddy buddy situation

[maximumpower]

A "break" means not going out.

[Waldoe]

makes no sense, ask her what she means