After the break up and no contact, we have gone to dinner a couple times. When should I kiss her?

[Anonymous]

At the end of every encounter or meeting or date or outing, she automatically turns her head and shows her cheek.

[SueShe]

You should not attempt to kiss a person that does not want to be kissed. If she turns her head around so that you can give her a peck on the cheek, then accept it and don't try things she does not want.

You broke up for a good reason and you cannot mend what has been broken because the trust is missing now. I don't even know why you 2 still meet and try to fix something that cannot be fixed.

A breakup is always the result of incompatibilities and misunderstandings. People never change and even if you got back together again, the same incompatibilities and misunderstandings will resurface sooner or later, because people don't change for good.

[Asker]

Thank you.

[SueShe]

you are welcome