This is sign of friendzone? She send this message after ask for break for think. we already have 3 dates and makeout in all dates?

[badg96]

[ShadezMcgee]

She is still open to hanging out with you. She stated she isn't sure what she wants but still wants to hang out. If you already made out with her as much as you say she is probably still open to it, but she doesn't want you to focus on her if you have certain expectations or outcomes for a relationship.

Do you know what you want? Do you want friends with benefits, a fling, a relationship? That should determine your next course of action. Her not knowing will only hold you up if she isn't interested in what you want. You can't force her to change her mind, nor can you set expectations of her.

I would say just hang out and have fun with her and keep doing what you're doing and continue to casually date other women until you find the one that fits what you are looking for. Who knows? Maybe this girl will come around while you date other girls and want to be with you.

Don't put pressure on her, just continue what you have been doing with her and date other women and let her sort her feelings out on her own.

[DenizLikesTennis]

She has somewhat interest, so give it a shot and see where it goes. Otherwise move on to the next.

[badg96]

Do you think is bad if send this message:I've been thinking and I want to clarify what we both want. It's just that in the next few weeks I'll have little free time and I really want to clarify that. I think the best option for us would be a casual relationship while you are in Portugal without commitment. Can you think about what you really want and give me an answer?

[DenizLikesTennis]

I am online right now, you can dm me

[DenizLikesTennis]

I'd change it and type this: "Sure, sounds great 😊 we can hang out and see where it goes. I am availabe at such and such at this time etc. So I will pick you up at...".

I'd keep it mysterious and simple (don't spoil too much) and then when you see her, you can talk about it what you've texted to me as reply.

Best of luck👍

[badg96]

Its too late i already send the message. She say have to think.

[DenizLikesTennis]

Dang, you screwed up🤣😬😬. Don't chase her right now. Let her miss you and disappear until she texts you back

[DenizLikesTennis]

Give her a short answer right now, then disappear: "Okay🙂"