There are some things I'm working on , but our beliefs aren't the same, and I don't think she understands my perspective...
I've distanced myself because it's frustrating explaining my beliefs or feelings on certain conversations. I don't feel like I can be open to her now due to clashing of beliefs or misunderstanding.
I'm in the process of moving after the new year to a homestead living environment, and she lives a more in grid life. I'm not sure how it's going to work with me being off the grid and her on the grid. Even with certain conversations or open discussions, those conversations are hard to have when she doesn't see my perspective or belief system. I don't do these holidays due to religious beliefs, but she does. My family is the same stuck in these holidays, and we also have different belief systems - unfortunately, I will be leaving my family next year due to belief systems.
If nothing comes out of this we're good friends, and I've been connecting with her over the last year and a half, but that was before my beliefs came into play. What would you do for this situation?
I've distanced myself because it's frustrating explaining my beliefs or feelings on certain conversations. I don't feel like I can be open to her now due to clashing of beliefs or misunderstanding.
I'm in the process of moving after the new year to a homestead living environment, and she lives a more in grid life. I'm not sure how it's going to work with me being off the grid and her on the grid. Even with certain conversations or open discussions, those conversations are hard to have when she doesn't see my perspective or belief system. I don't do these holidays due to religious beliefs, but she does. My family is the same stuck in these holidays, and we also have different belief systems - unfortunately, I will be leaving my family next year due to belief systems.
If nothing comes out of this we're good friends, and I've been connecting with her over the last year and a half, but that was before my beliefs came into play. What would you do for this situation?
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I'm in like minded private groups and I do better around like minded people... I don't feel comfortable communicating with those who don't align with my beliefs it's too stressful..
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These conversations should be done in form of debate with counselor. Lasting is an app. To try if you wish.
We're no dating there's no need to see a therapist
If you have no problem leaving her it's completly fine. She is the one who seem to be stuck?
We're not dating she knows my beliefs and where I'm at even down to sex. I don't have sex unless married. I'm open to friends , but it's all we'll ever be
Lmfao
I don't see what's funny
Well maybe you take things too seriously because I do believe me
If you don’t feel it’s meant to be just move on
Actually I don't- I don't have time to play around with dating out here exclusively now sorry
Okay well. Why even ask then?
I'm open to friends with people despite beliefs may not be the same. I'm non judgmental, but on a romantic serious level that's for the right person
Suggestion and advice why did you answer? You give no advice or solutions
You troll post exclusively mines
No I post on a lot of different questions lol. Most people ask questions and don’t really any the answer. They just want people to tell them what they want to hear
You post a lot of questions so I don’t search them out I answer if I see them in my feed. LMAO.
It’s crazy how about 100 people accuse me of the same thing
Actually no
Then don’t ask
I can ask what I chose
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