Guys, would it make you less interested in dating a woman if you found out she has a minimum wage job?

[Flower7]

I’ve heard guys don’t care very much about how much money a woman has, but I’m not sure if that’s true or not.

Yes, I’d be less interested in her.

No, I wouldn’t be less interested.

I’m a girl.

[BCA6010]

I'd be very suspicious... There isn't a single company anywhere near me paying only minimum wage at this point; there's more stores that have had to reduce their open hours or close up entirely due to not having enough people who will work.

I can say for sure that it would be very unappealing to find out a woman I was interested in decided to quit and not work during Covid despite having every opportunity to do so, so holding ANY (legal) job would be better than that.

[fr44c3iqqs]

But I would encourage her to pursue her goals and to do what she likes, as well as to go into something that she likes and is in demand or to make something become something in demand if it isn’t already, like an invention or some online program or a service.

[Flower7]

What if she loves the job that she’s currently doing, but it just isn’t a very high-status job?

[fr44c3iqqs]

Well the I don’t know.

[aliali8]

from my experience, the more prestigious / educated the guy, the more he will care about that kinda stuff.

[FilmGuy93]

Nope. I wouldn't care at all. I care more about what kind of hobbies she has, and what she's doing with her life. How much money she earns is irrelevant. If I found out that she spends a ton of time worrying about money, I would say with all due respect, that she was wasting her life.

[Avicenna]

Well, that's not information to say for sure. If she has financial problems, no. If she is great at managing her money and doesn't have big debts, sure.

[Flower7]

That’s fair.

[Avicenna]

* not enough

[Chriscunning]

Having extra finances does always help. But if someone is working hard and enjoys there job I really can't hold it against them. They not being lazy or anything.

[Flower7]

True, that’s a good way to look at it.

[backblueblack22]

Depends on her age. Also I need to know if she has other aspirations. Most people don’t work minimum wage jobs their whole life and if you do there usually something wrong with you

However I respect anybody who works. I will take her over of some lazy pos onlyfans bitch and/or someone mooching off the government.

[wtf636]

Most men don't care. As long as you aren't blowing your money on stupid shit, or asking me to pay for it.

[TallAnon]

Yes, but only because it shows a lack of passion. I'm 26 and a senior developer, I make good money because I put too much time into it. People working minimum wage really haven't considered their opportunities, everyone can do better, especially around my age.

[Flower7]

What is she’s passionate about the job she has, but it just happens to not be a high-status job?

[TallAnon]

I would be ok with that, but that being minimum wage is unlikely.

[FinalFantasyBro]

She is actually working compared to getting money from selling her body to me that mostly matters.

[Flower7]

Very true! I agree that there are much worse ways to make money!

[FinalFantasyBro]

Exactly! Also what is exactly wrong with a minimum wage job? A job is a job some people actually wishing they could find a minimum wage job so no I wouldn't be bothered if others telling you working minimum is bad. Remember there are bigger issues plus you actually have a job compared to most who is just searching constantly for a job.

[demonics]

Its not my money, I have no legal right to it, its not socially acceptable for me to ask for any of it, and according to feminists, we make more anyway, so why would we care?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/PbavDyGpW5Q

[spartan55]

Did it in my 20's a few times. Every one of those ladies was an absolute hurricane in the bedroom too. (for whatever that is worth)

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would still love a woman who makes less money
what job she has makes no difference to me I would
still love her the same

[Tunasub]

No as long as she is ambitious enough to want to work and is wanting to better herself knowing that the job she has now may just be a stepping stone I would be fine with it

[Wiredone]

It doesn't matter how much she made. I'm not after her for her money

[Anonymous]

I'd be less interested.
No, it's not her fault.
It's on me.

You see I love travelling, so most likely will date someone who loves travelling. We don't need to stay on fancy places (ok, maybe a day) but I like to experience that.

[Flower7]

Why wouldn’t she be able to travel with you?

[Opinion Owner]

I mean, if she can afford it without being in debt and on her own finances, sure.
But minimum wage here on our country means spending a third of your salary renting a room (not a house, a room) with 2-3 other people in it so you pay cheaper, barely affording small luxuries like eating out, unable to buy a car (not having difficulties on buying, literally unable to buy).

Again, most likely not their fault, but then again, I would rather date someone who lives a similar lifestyle.

[dillbill561]

I heard in your country they tax everyone so harsh that they all depend on the government to wipe their ass

[Opinion Owner]

@dillbill561 lol.
Yes, we get taxed a lot, but little returns.

[EssenceOfLight]

Nope. In case she was completely self-sufficient without tons of debt, or begging her parents for money, I would be impressed.

[blondfrog]

Guys are just hardwired different. We don't care about your job as long as you are not a porn star or something.

[dillbill561]

I would be very grateful and even more attracted. She is hard working and not afraid to be humble

[Anonymous]

Jesus christ when will women learn that what they look for in a man isn't why men look for in a woman? Man doesn't care about your college degree or your career path

[Flower7]

I have had some guys talk down to me when they find out what i do for a living.

[Nikki6t6]

Nope… I could care less… if I thought or think she’s hot… I’m down

[IncognitoBandito]

If she was pleasant company and attractive no it wouldn't bother me much.

[Nick473]

It depends on the situation. If she has a minimum wage job and has no desire to do any better for herself and is hoping for a guy to come along and make all her dreams come true than id pass.

[Flower7]

What if her job is enough to pay for everything she wants?

[Nick473]

Nothing wrong with that you just gotta find a guy that wants the same lifestyle but also try to factor in kids (if you plan on them) , medical expenses, insurance stuff like that and enough buffer for the unknown. If a car breaks down or you get sick or injured It can be hard to stay above the water with minimum wage.

[es20490446e]

It depends on the likelihood of she getting a good job in the future.

[Ryfyle]

If anything more interested.

[Flower7]

Why is that?

[Ryfyle]

More down to earth.

[Flower7]

That makes sense.

[FunkyMonkee]

No. I'm dating her, not her wallet!

[jimmy2]

In love who cares together we make changes anyway

[Flower7]

That’s true, there’s always room to grow!

[jimmy2]

Yes.

[Marhaban-1]

Sadly it may unless I really loved them

[Iron_Man]

I don’t have a problem with that

[Dchrls78104]

No. It wouldn't matter to me if she worked or not.

[Cowboy6666]

Thats not a good reason to lose interest in a girl

[REDHOTLINE]

No its not problem for me

[ToastyOats]

More interested!

[Flower7]

Why more interested?

[ToastyOats]

Our world is being destroyed by humans. The vision I have of us for the most part is like a big pile of Locusts writhing and crawling all over eachother trying to be on top of the People Pyramid. Killing and destroying every natural thing to support their weird head trips. I guess I'd hope a woman who wad of more humble means might be more open to natural ways of life, growing a garden, raising animals and tending the forest.

[Flower7]

That’s true actually. People who have less greed and less interest in money probably do have a lot of good qualities and good character.

[ToastyOats]

When I was younger I was so upset by sweatshops and feedlots for cattle, forest destruction that I just checked out and was a Vegan Hobo. Then I found organic farming and worked a few farms till I was 26. Then I realized I would never have any land to try and plant my own permaculture food forest if I didn't work a regular job. I then lived in my car for three years saving all the money that would have gone to rent. It was going good, paid off the car and got almost enough for a downpayment on some acreage before the covid lockdown hit. I chose to struggle, I had one job offer in particular, it paid 18 an hour! , but it was all making military hardware and I said no. All the big money goes for things that we probably just shouldn't be doing at all and there is no money for all sorts of things we should. Sorry if thats to much.

[Flower7]

Living in the car to save on rent sounds very cost-effective and like a good way to save a whole lot of money, if someone can deal with that temporary discomfort.

You seem to have a really big conscience since you went vegan because you felt bad for the cattle and also turned down a well-paying job because you were against what they did. I’m glad to hear that there are people like this in the world who have strong morals and actually follow them instead of just taking the easy path.

[ChiTown33]

What does that have to do with anything?

[Flower7]

Some people are judgmental…

[ChiTown33]

I don't judge people by how they make whether you have a million or a dollar to your name you still put your pants on one leg at a time.

[Slim57]

No. We really don't care.

[krin_m]

It would not change anything for me!

[Hotboy_booblover]

No if she has nice boobs.. it doesn't matter

[Anonymous]

No, I wouldn’t be less interested.

[Anonymous]

No, lucky she is even working

[CantGetItUp]

Men don’t care how much money you make!

[Flower7]

I’ve met a few who talked down to me after finding out what I do for a living.

[CantGetItUp]

How much were these men making? My guess is they had more beta traits than alpha.

[Flower7]

I don’t know their incomes. I do know that both of them lived with roommates while I had my own place.

[dudeinohio]

Nope

[Anonymous]

Nah, money's like the most important thing to me

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I don't care.

[JesseJayNeak]

Wouldn't care