Guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend was looking at another guy when you two are out in public?

[Kayla45]

Would you be bothered by it?

It would annoy me / bother me

I wouldn't care / doesn't matter

Other

[Anonymous]

She doesn't have to be looking at just me, in fact I would enjoy a relationship where we both felt comfortable looking at the general public and then describing features of certain citizens that we think are cool or attractive, so long as we make it a type of scoring system with each other where we both are looking at the same thing and that it is only about describing features that stand out, I am fine with that.

It's not like she is going up to the guys and trying to chat them up, all she is doing is looking at them, and it isn't like they are trying to chat her up, I don't want to be that controlling partner that feels so insecure about the relationship that they don't even want their partner looking at other people, that is just wrong.

Besides, it is fun to watch people and notice the differences of how they dress, style their hair, their facial features etc. so I don't see why my partner and I shouldn't enjoy just looking at people, be it guys or girls.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you :)

[Recurrence]

A twinge of insecurity, but then I would start checking them out and make a comment about them probably

[NathanDavis]

it doesn't bother me and I would not mind it, all my girlfriends did a version of this and I consider it very normal, some of them would do it a lot less, others more discreet, and one would even say something funny about a very attractive guy as much as she could say something about a very attractive girl that she noticed and I didn't

so... I don't see it as a big deal really

[Wiredone]

As long as she is just looking, it's fine. I look at women too. I mean I'm married, I'm not dead. Just like I tell my wife. I can look at the menu, I can order from it, I just can't eat what is put in front of me.

[Tunasub]

I mean if it's like winking at him or turning around to gawk at someone and being disrespectful, that would upset me. But just to look at someone. No!

That's a bit insecure and adolescent. What do we have eyes for?

[rcljr]

She could look all she wanted because I’d be gone and she’d be standing there by herself.

[TallAnon]

I would assume there was a reason for it, did he do something in particular that made him stand out? Drop something, wear something hideous, etc.

[Pulseofsulfur]

If it's for shits and giggles it's one thing but if she's sincerely thinking about cheating on me with a different man I'm either say only one fling or I'm leaving

[crmoore]

It honestly would. Probably to pretty decent extents. Even though I know it's just human nature. 😕

[EaterPeter]

They don't know how to pay attention to the person they are with.

[Deku2009]

Nope staring is fine. Only way I would get mad if she see someone behind my back

[Kaamraj]

I would make it a point to look at another woman.

[IcedLemonade]

In front of me? She has to go.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I would think of a crocodile hissing

[888theGreat]

Means relationship is in trouble

[Diya010]

It would annoy me / bother me

[JesseJayNeak]

I'm a jealous guy so...

[Anonymous]

Is the guy hot or hung?

[Wise4myage]

Id be ticked off.

[Slim57]

Its would bother me