Guys, how would you feel if a girl you’re seeing goes on a trip with another guy?

[Anonymous]

My roommate just told me that the girl he’s been seeing for the past 2 months is going on a beach trip in 3 weeks with another guy. He’s pretty emotional about it and is torn between ending it and working things out. Before finding this out, he planned to make their relationship official.

She thinks that this is no big deal because it’s her birthday trip and will hold it against him if she doesn’t go. She claims that this guy is like a cousin to her. She doesn’t see anything wrong with it because she’s being upfront about it.

To me, it would be better if she invited my roommate to join them on the trip. If roles were reversed and I was him, I wouldn’t be planning a trip with another female. I know they aren’t officially together, but this just doesn’t seem right.

Is my roommate right in feeling conflicted about it? Should he end it or try to be okay with it and continue the plan to become official?

[CuriousHubby]

Roommate is right but she is also a slut seeing guys freely. Women like this won't change to be a one guy girl she will always want a lot of attention and will cheat.

She loves being flattered and taken out and paid for. So if he can't keep proving like free vacations she will find others who will.

End it cause she will be mad he feels upset over it. Never considering his feelings.

[LiamJHayden]

End it. Too many women out there to willingly deal with that drama.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Disappointed. I would move on because she's clearly not interested in me.