Much less attracted to my girlfriend after finding out her body count?

[Anonymous]

Her (F24) body count is 23. My (M25) body count is 8. We’ve been dating for a year and things have been great, but I’m just now figuring this out. I didn’t even ask her, the conversation just naturally lead to it.

Anyway, I’m way less attracted to her now and have become noticeably distant. Almost to the point where I could end things at any moment, which I think I probably will.

Ladies… keep your body count low or shut up about it. No man wants to feel like he’s sharing his girl, which is exactly how I feel now.

[ChrisMaster69]

Which just shows how pointless number of sexual partners actually is.

what number would you have accepted?

let’s say it was 3 and each of those guys had a 10’ cock.

each dated her for 12 months and they had sex every day for 2 days, that’s about 2000 session getting drilled with 10’ cocks

now assume she had sex with those 23 guys only once and each has a smaller cock that you.

you would happily keep the girl with 3 sexual partner but ditch the one with 23.

Then they wonder why guys end up single.

[Anonymous]

Sorry to burst your already popped bubble, but her body count is not 23. All women instinctively lie when ever they mention body count, even if it appeared to come about 'naturally' in conversation. This is why there is what's known as 'the rule of 3'. To get the real number, you multiply what ever they told you by a minimum of x3.

This is why you will never, ever see a new comedy or teen movie with the following scene in it...

https://www.youtube.com/embed/nwSJ7u0aRZU

[Asker]

Yeah… I gonna take advice from a fratboy movie 😑

[Opinion Owner]

Wisdom can arrive even from the fools mouth. Many that saw this as a joke, have come to realize how accurate it really is. Ignore this at your peril.

[Opinion Owner]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1juTGAqC3Ek

[Anonymous]

I think it's really wrong for you to judge her for her past. If your relationship is so great I can't understand why you'd break things off with her because of the things she did before you. She's probably better off without you at that point. If she was cheating on you, ok dump her but really, you'll give up a good thing because of body count?

[Asker]

Yes, I’ll throw away a good thing because of body count, as would most men. Think before you fuck.

[Opinion Owner]

Hey, it's your life. I'm not judging you. Do what you think is best

[Asker]

I think it’s best. Women with high body counts are much more likely to cheat. They take sex less seriously and don’t think it’s a big deal.

[Opinion Owner]

That's probably true for some

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I mean, i think 8 is way too much personally, but it wouldn't keep me from dating someone. Who cares how many people someone was with before? Are they with me now? Do they make me happy and are a good person? Then why does it make one bit a difference how many she or you have been with?

[Asker]

1) people with high body counts are much more likely to cheat

2) I don’t want a girl who’s had 23 dicks in her. Think before you fuck

[Ez-Bri-Z]

8 is a high body count to someone like me does that mean you are going to cheat?

[Asker]

Great argument. How about 23?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Has she given you any reason to think she would outside of this perceived one?

[Lunalila123]

I don’t think that counts for everyone. I’ve seen a lot of men on here assuming all girls with a high body count are more likely to cheat, are disgusting and they made these choices themselves in the right frame of mind. Yes it’s not seen as great to have a high body count as a woman but it seems nobody is considering their sides of the story. Some of these women may have had a very horrible life, feeling numb, just trying to feel something. In a dark depressive hole that they struggle to get out of. Insecure, feeling worthless. Then met a man who makes her feel loved, secure and happy for the very first time. Now being able to think calmly and rationally, realise the horrible mistakes they made. They may have fallen deeply in love with this man and would do anything for them. The point is, don’t judge a book by its cover, you never know the story until you level with this person.

[NHI2017]

You sound very insecure………..

If she is a good girl and treats you well…..
Why ruin a good thing. ?


My girlfriend is around my age
She has a body count north of 30 men.++++.

And even a kid thats not mine.

I've ben with mine for years now. And we are perfectly happy.




Thats tiny di*k. What your doing………….

If its nothing but great between you too
. Accept her for who she is, be happy, And call it a day…………. Step in and be a man.
Not some cry baby…….

Its not that big of a deal

[Asker]

Women with high body counts ALWAYS cheat. She hides in the bathroom whenever she gets a phone call dude.

[NHI2017]

Thats not my case. But every situation is different.

Best of luck

[imimimimi]

I don’t really get why it matters to you. She’s with you now and it sounds like this is a serious relationship. And that bit at the end about women having to hide body count is really fucked. When you’re in a committed relationship with someone you don’t pick and choose which bits of their life you want, you get all their baggage.

Sounds like your insecure about her having more experience than you and her having a history. If you’ve been together for a year, you should start trusting her more or end it.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Did you think she was a virgin? Bro if this is so important to you why tf did you let it go so far before asking her? Now you've just rejected her for being fucked by people just like you've fucked her and left her. Now it's 24 for the next guy who hopefully either asks before making it 25 or doesn't give a shit because she's a person not a pair of fucking gently used underwear.

[Anonymous]

MEN... make sure to ask your potential partner's body count way before inserting your organ inside her or just shut up about it. No woman wants a whiny careless man

[Asker]

Look guys, a woman who’s had more dudes in her then a frat house yet wants to be taken seriously as a potential wife has something to say

[Opinion Owner]

LMFAO
My opinion has more credibility cause i am a virgin and i would never date a man with more than 3 body count or someone who has 1 night stands. If you or anyone has such important standards , you have to make sure your partner meets that. Like if some careless mothafucks like you gonna get in a relation without knowing important aspects of your partner, you have no right to complain fr

PS. Better if you stick with her. No clean woman would want a manwhore like you that had been inside 8 possible stinky sluts. Plus the other 23 you have been in contact with Eeew🤢

[Anonymous]

That is quite a few different guys.
Maybe she just had a bunch of one nighters and you actually had way more sex with those 8.

[Asker]

I mean I did have lots of sex with most of those 8, but that’s still a lot of different dicks that have been in her. I’m not ok with that

[Opinion Owner]

I understand.
I've only been with a few women, but I was married for many years to one of them.
Women usually assume that I don't have much experience until we start actually talking about sexual experiences. They soon realize that I've had sex thousands of times, in every way and every different location with that one woman.
There's nothing I haven't already done with my ex wife and that makes some women very jealous.
All of the sudden her few short relationships and 30 something one night stands don't really compare.
She hasn't had a fraction of the sex I have.

[Dvchill]

What’s kinda funny is women tend to lie about this in the downward sort of way… so it is prob more then that

[Yourfriend2021]

23 is a very high body count, it means she can't stay in a relationship for very long or has lots of one night stands.

[Serenatwozero]

Personally I think you have a right to be grossed out if you have less than her (personally don’t care for body count on a man) but in your case you’re not in the double digits so that counts.

[Anonymous]

I would feel the same way. Now a bunch of feminists will try to convince you to ignore that but you want what you want.

[Anonymous]

the less you know about a girl the better

just assume all of them are prostitutes

[joeldalton]

You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.

[CreamySeed]

Yea 23 is a lot for her age