I feel like its going to be harder for me if I'm still single. Like I'm at my best now but in 10 years I'll be kinda old and prob won't be a guy's 1st choice over a younger girl. An not only that but like men expect sex so quickly now and i just dont see it slowing down at all. I don't know I just feel like in 10 years i'm going to go out on a 1st date with a guy and we're gonna go to Applebee's or something and then I'm gonna feel like I should at least give him a BJ or I prob won't see him again cause i'll know the other girls he's dating prob did at least that or more already
Harder, morals have gone out the window and media supports the lack of morals.
What are you dating for? Sex? Easier. Relationship? Harder. Fuck marriage laws and divorce courts. Give it time with women making more money and having better educations they will be paying the alimony… we all know the best way to enact change is to convince the women their being screwed and then watch how fast the system compromises.
Harder because of cancel culture and forced attitudes
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Stay the same or get worse. No way, easier.
The problems are setting in more firmly.
@yofuknutz Yep. But humans all have their own motivations. And they use tools to manipulate us. And so computers have becomes tools to dehumanize us, in the end.
Dating apps are created. Covid quarantine happens. So everyone goes inside and online. It makes it seem like these is unlimited choice. Dating becomes a game. Riddled with judgment and objectification. Filter \ height \ 6', age: 20-25 \ breasts: large... shit like that. And so what people are left with now is declining communication skills, no commitment, no trust, confused roles and responsibilities and a squabbling over who pays and who texts next, political divide, lack of open-mindedness and acceptance and judging others becoming a sport. Many people (mostly girls) simply dip their toe in the water of dating to test their market value and for an ego boost, but deem most people (guys) not worthy. In the mean time, a portion of those just hook up and disappear in the night, then move on, and on, with no intention of it being anything more.
It's dark, sorry, but I don't see any reversal on this happening whatsoever.
Harder, people are getting more and more independent and want to have depend less on others. Due to ghosting and all of the game playing women are becoming less vulnerable and opened to being emotional with a man. Marriages don’t last as long as they used to nowadays I’m sure it’ll only get worse. A lot of the younger people these days do not have strong morals and values, especially the young ladies who are having multiple kids out of wedlock. Social media has made dating even worse people feel they have so many options and don’t want to settle because they always think the can find someone better.
Harder because life is getting harder every day.
Also if feminism never dies life will suck forever.
Extreme feminism is making world suffer and die slowly die.
If we go back on old times when women were feminine, lovable , kind , gave birth to kids love them raise them life was much easier. But now women wants to “equal man “ so they wake up at 5am daily shave their mustaches wear their costumes and go to their “careers” to equal Man made standards of make your own “money”.
Harder because of social media. There’s a ridiculous amount of access to new people and it’s led people to always think the grass is greener on the other side. Plus with an inside look of the good parts of everyone relationships it’s hard not to compare sometimes. Which is sad.
Depends on what the reason (s) is (are) for the current difficulties, TBH.
I don't think you will see more single people with better situations in 10 years, but if there is a decline in single parents due to the fertility decline since 2008, that could mean a slight improvement.
Watch the beginning of “ Cherry 2000” dating will be just like that, the bars and clubs will have lawyers on staff to write up dating contracts, what’s permissible what’s not, time limitations of “ date” If you’d like an idea of where world politicians are, watch the movie “ Idiocracy”
Look at peak oil and you also see a lot of things on the peak of going out that includes marriage and even relationships so everybody is out there fucking each other like Barnyard animals as a result there is Peak penicillin so when you get that nasty looking sore on your dick your
make sure the free clinic you're going to has the penicillin on-site
Harder because many people start dating while not even being ready for a relationship.
It depends on what you mean by "dating".
If you mean casual hookups, then I think things are going to get easier over the next 10 years, especially for men. They are already easy for women.
If you mean looking for a good man or woman to be a life partner, I think things will continue to get harder for both sexes, but especially for women. Men are losing interest in marriage and serious relationships, and that is only going to get worse.
Harder plus as you get older it gets harder to date. I don't even try dating anymore since my last relationship
@yofuknutz To you I am
It’s never easy. Every generation thinks they have it the hardest. Human relationships are challenging. It always boils down to the same things.
@Lyubyets lol... you don't know much about history do you. And we don't face extinction any more now than we did 20 years ago. I will give you an example. Go back to WWII. The world was at war. An entire race of people was being systematically murdered. We dropped nuclear bombs. Do you think people living in those times were not stressed out and worried and full of anxiety? I know you want to feel you are special and things are so much harder for this generation. But you are not special. If anything its easier nowadays because of all the dating apps and social media. But even with that, it boils down to individual humans trying to get along. That is always the same.
I read the question and I answered it.
Then you said yes but we face extinction and social anxiety is high thee days. What I am saying is I don’t thing it’s going to get easier or harder. It’s always a challenge. And the times we live in are not any worse than any other time. You seem to think that dating will be way harder because of extinction and anxiety. I am telling you that we have always faced those things. Anyway no point in talking any further I am wasting my time with you.
youve wasted your time living. whatve you done
Unfortunately literally nothing points to an improvement over the next decade. If online dating goes away there may be a little bit of hope but don’t count on it.
Marriage laws are the issue. When men caring about women and aiming for wives to value then women will change but as long as marriage laws remain fuck marriage is what most men say. Today’s women arnt worth a good marriage much less a bad one.
The more things change, the more they stay the same.
All of the same rules apply - you have to do the work to become a high-value prospect, and you have to date a lot to find a suitable prospect.
Time to get busy. It's really all up to YOU.
Harder. People become more and more social isolated and seduction seems to become something from past times. We are an 'use and throw away' society and this behavior influences our dating strategy as well.
Harder because that's the direction that it's trending already.
Probably be the same as always, the burden of men initiating interactions with women and making the first move and being expected to ask them out first will likely always be the norm, just say that with sarcasm and resentment
Easier! Women just keep getting easier and easier. I mean its all Freedom this! and Empowerment that! with women but all it ends up boiling down to for them is posting skimpy pics online, selling nudes for cash, and having casual sex 😂
I think it'll have to get easier. It's damn near impossible right now and people seem to be realizing it.
Dating will become more difficult, because whenever we think that Feminists have reached peak insanity they show us that they can go even further.
Harder, for many reasons. The virus and associated issues mostly.
Easier because there is currently a major shift towards gloryhole culture.
@K-I-S-S Yes it is.
As long as we don't elect any more piece of shit Republican's, life will get better and better...
It depends on which gender you refer to. The massive depression soon to hit us will have many women offering blowjobs for a loaf of bread. Any guy will have his choice of willing women.
I have heard a lot of rumors about this. What goes up, and so many years or prosperity, with all the issues, a major depression and anyone in massive debt, high cost of living may be living under a bridge or sucking as you for simple foods. Some even fanatize about it, but it will likely be a dark age we have not seen in hundreds of years. Likely millions will die as a result.
@Qdbrown History shows it to be true.
For me? I don't know. I am not attractive. I am not married. I am not so bad looking. I will see.
For everybody? Of course it would be the same as it is now.
It's always been hard for most people terms change other shit is still the same
Definitely harder. People don't initiate as often anymore and more and more young people avoid social contact.
If i keep working on myself and my projects then certainly easier, but who knows what quality is the majority of the market 🤔
Harder, unless you are a hot guy then any attractive girl will be into you for casual hook ups. Other than that average guys will struggle even to get one girl interested for hook ups or casual relationship
Well everything is getting easier! Reading, driving, cooking and even sex. New social medias and sites will help a lot.
It's all online already where the younger generation grew up expecting nothing less. Real human interactions is secondary to the new app.
Well in general harder. But the laws of dating dont apply to me. I currently have 2 girlfriends that are both best friends. So... there's that.
depends on the person but i think people sadly no longer take relations seriously
somehow i think the word itself is get to be extinct.
Harder obviously. I'm only getting older, and the economy is a fuck.
I think dating will cease to exist in 10 years. It will be replaced with breeding contracts and sex robots
It keeps getting worse and worse why do you think I’m single
It’ll probably become non existent and friends with benefits will be the new norm
look at the narcissistic women. LOL there is not a single 10/10 on this site
It will get easier for the top 5% of men and harder but more fun for women when the stigma of polygamy fades away
Easier because the whole planet will collapse and everyone will be dead
Harder with less face to face communication. However it will be better for women as it works well for every woman on these apps. I used tinder, had loads of matches but was spoken to like a robot
Easier for women since most women will be bisexual/lesbians
Easier because meeting people would be easier since online dating is becoming more popular
But difficult in way people are becoming less social so smaller social group
Eventually we'll procreate by budding
Women take advantage of men
Easier. Lots of girls with daddy issues.
easier, I will be older and have more options
I get attention from a bunch of people in general.
It will be harder as long as Covid is present.
Drastically harder
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