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+1 yNah, but I've found men who are caught in this archaic "man is the head of the house and the breadwinner" mentality often can't handle it.
It makes buying him the single coffee on the date and then never seeing him again much sweeter. Makes my black coffee taste nearly like a Double Double.
Get me a man who I can compete with for higher wages, promotions, and work achievements. I like a confident, self-possessed person - someone who is easily intimidated, offended, or made to feel "purposeless" by something as basic as me having a career isn't worth my time.517 Reply- +1 y
"Get me a man who I can compete with for higher wages, promotions, and work achievements. " You do realize that men are not attracted to that, right?
"someone who is easily intimidated, offended, or made to feel "purposeless" by something as basic as me having a career isn't worth my time." You are 30 years old, no successful guy is going to pick you over a sweet and feminine 21-year-old girl. (( This is not me trying to be mean to you but just being honest))
Men are not attracted to women who are competitive, the same way most women are not attracted by guys who are weak and feminine. (( Especially guys who are extremely successful))
You want to be successful in life and you're ambitious? Good for you, go for it I wish you good luck, but just keep in mind that it will impact your dating life In a negative way, no need to shame men if they are not attracted to you.
I notice that a lot with women who are successful, they tend to shame men calling them "intimidated", that's not true most of the time. They are simply not drawn to you cause you lack that feminine energy.
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@YesICan
There are TONS of married women who are working Careers out there. According to this Study, college educated women are more likely to get married than less educated women
The education-marriage relationship appears to hold even at these higher levels, as rates of marriage amongst middle-aged women with advanced degrees are now higher than for those which just a bachelor’s degree:
www.google.com/.../ - +1 y
@YesICan
In 2015, among adults ages 25 and older, 65% with a four-year college degree were married, compared with 55% of those with some college education and 50% among those with no education beyond high school. Twenty-five years earlier, the marriage rate was above 60% for each of these groups.
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@YesICan
A man who is easily intimidated by a woman working a career , will be the same man who will tell his girlfriends to quit her job And become a housewife after she gets promoted. You will be the type of guy who gets jealous of his wife over anything that she is good at outside of housework.
And guess what? You’re the same type of guy who will cheat on his wife once she turns 40 because she won’t be as sweet and pretty as a 21 yr old. - +1 y
@nella965 "You will be the type of guy who gets jealous of his wife over anything that she is good at outside of housework." You legit don't know who i am as a person, you are pulling out assumptions about me out of your asshole just so you can have cheap arguments.
"You’re the same type of guy who will cheat on his wife " What are you even talking about? Are you really 27 or are you just a internet troll?
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@nella965 "Why are you so negative?"
Nella (If that is your true name) I was being normal at the beginning but I turned more hostile cause you showed me who you are as a person.
- You are full of prejudice against people, bitterness and on top of that you look down upon people, that's why I'm talking to you in a hostile manner cause you let me believe that you deserve this type of treatment. I did insult your character on many occasions to which I'm not sorry for as you deserved all of it.
Your comments were full of false assumptions, shaming and over all looking down upon people, it is clear that you're the one that is bitter in this whole thread, but you're soo far in your feelings that you are not able to see it yet.
1. You blamed men for the high divorce rates (( Even tho the problem is far more complex and both parties involved are at fault, it is evident that you have some hatred going on towards the opposite gender))
2. You shamed people who are minimum wage workers (( You looked down upon them as they are peasants just because you are better off in life))
3. You attacked my looks multiple times and made multiple negative and false assumption's about me out of the blue incl. that I hate women who are educated, that I would cheat on my wife etc (( I don't really take offense to your insults but i do acknowledge them and I will treat you accordingly to how you treat me and others))
I'd say more but i think this sumps it up pretty much on why I'm negative towards you. Has nothing to do with your gender but your character.
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@nella965 Rude? Which part of what I wrote to Smoke n Growls was nasty?
Was I honest? Yes, sure but there is nothing nasty about being honest. (( Unless you can't handle it))
I even stated in the stuff I wrote her that I'm not trying to be mean. (And I wasn't mean towards her)
And no, the only person that is attacking the opposite gender is you, not me.
"you’re The one who came on here attacking women. So I am attacking you right back. Don’t complain about me mocking you if you mocked women."
-I never complained about you trying to mock me, just pointed it out to why I'm hostile towards you personally.
And no I never mocked women, I mocked you based on your nasty character not your gender. Can you please quote to where I mocked all women?
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@nella965 0 accauntibilty from your end. I expected more from someone who's 27 years old.
I wasted enough energy on you, as I stated before you got issues going on, you are acting like a child.
You have a disgusting and toxic personality, I don't know what made you like this, but whatever it is i hope you figure that shit out cause you're going to die alone and bitter.
Let me just quote myself once to describe who you are as a person i don't want to rewrite the stuff so I'm just going to copy paste it ( I might even throw a little extra will see)):
1. You blamed men for the high divorce rates (( Even tho the problem is far more complex and both parties involved are at fault, it is evident that you have some hatred going on towards the opposite gender))
2. You shamed people who are minimum wage workers (( You looked down upon them as they are peasants just because you are better off in life))
3. You attacked my looks multiple times and made multiple negative and false assumption's about me out of the blue incl. that I hate women who are educated, that I would cheat on my wife etc (( I don't really take offense to your insults but i do acknowledge them and I will treat you accordingly to how you treat me and others))
I copy/pasted it cause you wasted way too much of my time already, just to let people know how much of a nasty and bitter woman you are.
I'm done, I'm also going to block you cause lets be real, you are not capable of having a normal discussion ( Not as Intelligent as you thought you were) You never made valid points, you made a lot of false assumptions about me tho. You've put words into my mouth I never said just for the sake of making me look bad and for the sake of making cheap counter-arguments. I'm tired of your irrational and troll-ish comebacks.
Enjoy dying alone, cause no man in his right mind will ever want to do anything with you. And yes, I am mocking your character once again cause it's rotten like roadkill.
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@YesICan
women don’t die alone. Single women can have kids , single men can’t. By the time I’m 40, I will have kids regardless if I have a husband or not. By the time you’re 40, you’re likely to be single and have no kids cus no woman is attracted to your misery. You clearly don’t even have a dating life cus you’re so miserable. - +1 y
@YesICan huh, really? You better tell my partner that, then, cause he missed the memo.
We've both made much more salary since meeting each other. Both of us work IT and tech, and we like to push each other to be better.
Sucks you don't like that as a guy, but I think you're just not my type. I like a guy who enjoys friendly competition, and pushing ourselves to be better and do better.
It isn't a life for everyone, I agree, but when you do get a partner who likes that it leads to some amazing things.
We're programming several projects together during our off time, too, for fun and learning.
But hey, again. I get that not every man meets my standards. It's why I'm happy with my man. Great sex, we're both financially well off, both with strong careers and many interests to share.
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If the only way you’re gonna keep a wife is by making her unable to Financially survive Without you, then you are not a man. You’re just a Loser and a coward With clearly nothing to offer. A real man with something to offer will have tons of women chasing him regardless if he pays for her or not
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Asker+1 yModern day women pack their shit after a few months if the man isn't bringing in more money than her
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@Kevhanma
Women are financially stable today. We are not beggars unable to support ourselves financially. We don’t need a man to support us. We only want guys who have some sort of a savings and a good job to prove that he’s not a loser Making minimum wage who still lives in his mothers basement - +1 y
So I could feed the homeless and children clean my community on the weekends shop for the elderly and disabled treat stray cats and dogs and find them a good home spend my minimum wage checks on school supplies and new books and uniforms for under privileged students and I’m a loser because I don’t make much and live with my mother But a guy who is a pornstar with millions is a winner even though he sucks dick for a living okay🙄
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You literally just said making minimum wage makes you a loser clearly from that statement women only care about financial stability and by the way women back then could’ve worked just like they are now but those bitches didn’t want to hell y'all don’t want to now don’t try to say women were oppressed y’all were just fucking lazy let it be Reversed men would’ve never complained I stay at home while my wife works and takes care of me I’ll go fishing today and sleep in watching tv and drinking and playing video games but just like women say it makes you less of a woman to not be the breadwinner you say the same thing about men ( he still gotta have some type of money) even though you make enough to spoil both of you waaay into retire a man in that position would never say that if a rich guy had a wife like that he’d say she can work if she wants to but she doesn’t have to
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@Kevhanma
Most women are not looking for someone who is rich. Most of us are just looking for someone who is not a loser. Because reality is , if you’re 40 years old , still making minimum wage , living in your mothers basement. There’s something you’re doing wrong with your life.
Most of us Modern women are Educated , financially stable. We want someone who is equally as competent. - +1 y
@kevhanma
Men like you think most women nowadays are looking to be stay home wives , or that we are looking for financially stable breadwinners. We are not looking for a man to support us. We can support ourselves. We are looking for a companion , not a breadwinner. If you suck at being a husband , we will divorce you. This explains why divorce rates have been so high over the past 20 years. women do not need husbands to support them - +1 y
"Most women are not looking for someone who is rich."
He said someone who's financially stable, he never said rich.
"We only want guys who have some sort of a savings and a good job to prove that he’s not a loser Making minimum wage who still lives in his mother's basement" Do you not listen to how toxic you are? Shaming people who are struggling in life, really?
"We are not looking for a man to support us. We can support ourselves. We are looking for a companion , not a breadwinner. If you suck at being a husband , we will divorce you. This explains why divorce rates have been so high over the past 20 years. women do not need husbands to support them" What are you even talking about, you blame all men now for the high divorce rates?
You do realize that women are the ones who have unrealistic ideals on what a man is supposed to be, they leave men for plenty of dumb reasons. Now not saying that men can't be at fault (( Of course they can)) But implying that it's just men's fault is an ignorant thing to say. And also.
Women with your personality die alone, not because "MeN aRe TrAsh" but because you are toxic waste and you don't represent a woman that is feminine and kind.
You want to be this "MODERN WOMAN" but you expect a traditional man.
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@YesICan
{You do realize that women are the ones who have unrealistic ideals on what a man is supposed to be, they leave men for plenty of dumb reasons.}
Only men who can’t get women would say that women have super high standards. We are not looking for rich men, we are looking for men who aren’t losers. Maybe If you just weren’t making minimum wage , you could find a woman. - +1 y
@nella965 just say you prefer a guy with a lot money
According to you a man is only valuable if he has money broke men are worthless no matter how amazing funny cool smart kind compassionate they are they’re still losers to you according to you money makes men valuable so just make money and be alone - +1 y
@Kevhanma
A single woman can go to a sperm bank to get pregnant. A single man will need to pay 200,000 to hire a surrogate in order to have a baby.
No woman will want a baby from a one night stand. And chances are if she does get pregnant from a one night stand , she will abort it - +1 y
What are you even talking about? When did I make an argument about that? Your age says you're 27 but you sound like a 13-year-old girl. Your arguments are shallow and they make 0 sense. You have no value, that's you are 27 and alone and that's a major reason you are on this site spreading your toxic thoughts.
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@YesICan
Going online and shitting on women will not increase your value. We all know you’re just pissed cus you’re ugly and boring , dry as hell in real life so all Women reject you.
If you just work on yourself , you Wouldn’t be like a lonely bitter old spinster With 50 cats on here shitting on everyone of the opposite gender - +1 y
"Going online and shitting on women will not increase your value. We all know you’re just pissed cus you’re ugly and boring , dry as hell in real life so all Women reject you.
If you just work on yourself , you Wouldn’t be like a lonely bitter old spinster With 50 cats on here shitting on everyone of the opposite gender"
You are in here the only one who is shitting on a whole gender. Imma stop it here cause its obvious that you have some mental health issues, or that maybe you're in a crisis cause you're almost 30 and alone. I guess that's the reason you choose to come on here and sprinkle that bitterness onto other people.
All in all, you are a pathetic human being. This is the last thing i'm going to write, its clear that you feed of it. - +1 y
No woman will want a baby from a one night stand. And chances are if she does get pregnant from a one night stand , she will abort it
So you’ve met every woman?
A single man will need to pay 200,000 to hire a surrogate in order to have a baby.
No guy would do that when he has the means to make his own children and adoption is much cheaper - +1 y
@YesICan dude women like her are the ones who ruined male and female relationships women who knew nothing about men sold a lie and the rest of them bought it like hot cakes bro feminism, lgtq and blm only exist because it’s a distraction to distract people from what really happening to the world and because there’s money to be made from it stop believing anything someone tells you you have your own brain for a reason think, use it
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@Kevhanma
It’s very very very difficult for a single man, If not impossible , to find a woman willing to have a baby from a one night stand. no woman wants a baby from a one night stand. Usually single men die alone with no kids , no family. I know of a 66 yr old grandmother with 5 kids and 13 grand kids. Single women can have a family, single men can’t. Women control reproduction
Adoption agencies also only give kids to financially well off couples, not single dads. They are very selective on who they hand kid off to - +1 y
That’s not true at all 😂 women only have their kids because the law is in their favor it has and adoption has no predetermined income requirements you don’t need to have a home either I've been in foster care all my life don’t talk to me about adoption like you know better a man making minimum wage living with his mother can adopt a child
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" It’s not my fault that you’re so unattractive" You are borderline retarded. The amount of mental health issues you posses is the equivalent of sand a beach has. Instead of projecting and expressing your sexual frustration on the internet why don't you seek therapy? Its crystal clear that you haven't felt a dick in a few years.
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@Kevhanma
Even though women have a biological clock, women control reproduction.
It’s better for a woman to have all her kids by 40 instead of being an aging old man getting older and uglier and saggier every year , still hoping that a young woman of child bearing age would care to look his way.
Women don’t die alone. Men do - +1 y
😂😂😂 another false statement women are the one who get fatter saggier and less attractive as they age men can still fuck and impregnate 20 year olds well into their 50s women do control reproduction true but men control relationships which is why most divorced men remarry and are happier because women outnumber men if your not doing it we’ll find one that will
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@Kevhanma
You are clearly dumb and have no dating life outside of GAG. Only ugly fat old single men on GAG say that men don’t age. Go outside into the real world and take a look at what the typical 45 yr old mans dating life is like. Women aren’t attracted to wrinkles , sagginess, weight gain , balding , losing hair , white hair weakening old man.
We like our guys young strong , fast , muscular , no wrinkles and a full head of hair.
Your chances of finding a young hot 20 yr old is slim to none by the time you hit your 40s cuz we are not attracted to you - +1 y
@Kevhanma
According to this study , most men get married at the age of 33.
Women prefer marrying 33 yr old men than 50 yr old men
In 2020, the average age of marriage for female participants was 31, while male respondents married at age 33.
www.theknot.com/content/average-age-of-marriage - +1 y
@kevhanma
According to this study, women like to marry men 3.5 years older than them, not 13.5 years older.
Take a look
Empirical evidence has also accumulated in support of women's preferences for older men, and as you might expect, the data often overlap with those data supporting men's preferences. As this sample of Conroy-Beam and Buss's (2019) review suggests:
Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them.
In online dating, women make the first contact with older men at a greater than rate they do younger men.
Marriage records show that women are marrying men who are older than they are by about 3 years.
www.google.com/.../what-we-know-about-age-gaps-in-dating-love-and-marriage%3famp - +1 y
@Kevhanma
Statistics show overwhelming majority of married couples have an age gap of under 9 years
en.m.wikipedia.org/.../Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yWomen who have actual jobs and are earning more still have good values , they like to start a family and stuff. Problem is with women who are on daddy’s , boyfriends money or gain money from modelling , only fans , Instagram , sex work. With rising of feminism those kind of women have grown way more and probably are majority now a days. Those kind of women generally are non commitment type.
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"Women who have actual jobs and are earning more still have good values" good luck with that bro. Its biology. Women dont respect men who they out earn. Women are not known for their adherence to principled behavior. Over time she will change. Feel free to google around and see all the divorces and women posting about how they are bored with their equal husband. Hint hint at one time he thought she had good values too. The only good values that matter is if a woman can keep her damn legs closed. Thats about it.
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+1 yOkay let me get this straight, you think it’s okay for men to not commit but if a girl doesn’t it’s ruining society, and you think women now having jobs is destroying home life. Also what does masculinity have to do with this. If you are this worried maybe you should become a stay at home husband 😂
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1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. True. Lack of necessity makes peoples' priorities change, standards go up.
20 ReplyAnd it isn't going away.
Guys who are secure with themselves have understood and championed women getting these opportunities. Now the guys who complain that women only date guys for their money have to find something new to complain about and find a new way to be attractive to women.34 Reply
Asker+1 yU have a kind face 😌
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Asker+1 yJust being honest 😂
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+1 yUs having careers, aspirations, and goals that shouldn’t be seen as a threat to the right man anyways. I went on a date with one guy before and he brought up work and basically put me down for having a higher degree than him and a decent paying job …. like did you want me to depend on you😑. I like being financially independent (to an extent).
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+1 yI think that financial independence is a good thing. I mean just back in the 1970 women couldn't get a credit card with out her husband, or even open a checking account until the 1950. Now that things are more or less fair on the financial front it is shining light on the real issues, and neither party is forced to stay because of being totally financially dependent on their spouse.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yYes, but only because she is not trapped by society. Without the possibility of financial independence, a woman would have to have a man to survive (as it once was) meaning that she would essentially be doomed to a fate of basically being a sex slave by station of birth.
00 Reply311 opinions shared on Dating topic. Oh how awful it must be for men that women no longer have to settle for less than they deserve and get married in order to survive. 😱😱😱 The pity I feel is astronomical. 🙄
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yLess likely to marry young, yes. Not sure that would’ve ruled out cheating if in an abusive relationship - which I’m sure there were plenty of with less autonomy. Having the right to be treated with respect is not a step backwards.
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Opinion Owner+1 yBasically anyone who thinks they need someone to be dependent to keep them, is likely abusive.
+1 yYes, men aren't seen as reliable these days. So women are building their own wealth and relying on that instead of a man
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+1 yNo. Where you guys get this B. S. from? There are billions of women on earth that work and are married.
A woman can be single for various reasons, career is hardly one of them.10 Reply 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. No... They still want it, but they just don't want to give anything up for the sake of a relationship.
You need to work around her schedule.00 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yMhm. For one thing it inflates their ego. They often measure their value as a partner but their success is this area which no one cares about. Eventually they end up older and successful, in other words, unattractive and wonder what is going wrong.
00 Reply10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. It has given women more options. It used to be women had the choice of staying with a cheating, abusive man, or living in poverty.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yThe future is female, so let them work hard for once and pay for it themselves. I don't want any part in supporting anyone else's kids. If I pay for them then I should get to indoctrinate them with my beliefs. Otherwise , no money from me
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Opinion Owner+1 yi am glad that they are saddled with their own bad decisions for life
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yOnly to not gamble a marriage with Mr ATM on legs, that may or may not abuse and neglect her.
Good! I am in support of that.00 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yRelationships are dying, these days most women rotate with the top 10% of guys. then eventually become alone.
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+1 ySo don't be a sucker. Don't let women use you.
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00 ReplyYes of course
00 Reply19.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. It’s probably so
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yYesss
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