Boyfriend dad is a killer?

[Anonymous]

Should i date him or dump him?

[Jake99999]

I would avoid it. Don’t date him. You don’t want to be anywhere on the radar screen of someone who is convicted of 1st degree murder. Some may have a philosophical issue with what I just say. Like why are you judging the son for something his dad did. And yeah that does not sound right. But has the son picked up any of the traits of his dad? Is it really worth the risk. Think long and hard about it.

[OlderAndWiser]

"Killer" literally?

Sold you date your boyfriend or should you date your boyfriend's dad?

[SnakeBoop]

Research the crime itself.
The dad doesn't equal the son. How does the son feel about it and such?
Up to you,

[Passion_Devil]

If you think that that makes your boyfriend a killer, by all means...

[snackthatsmilesback]

Well what kind of killer?

1st degree murder or involuntary manslaughter?

there's a pretty serious difference you know. I'd ask for more specific from the son or look up his case on casenet.

[Asker]

1st dwgeee

[snackthatsmilesback]

Oof. Well then yeah I'd take that into account. Not necessarily leave him but do talk about it, cause that is something serious and at the very least he's gotta deal with it and you've gotta decide ok with it before you make any serious commitment (dating would prolly be fine cause I don't think he's a murderer just cause his dad was. But don't just put it away and pretend it doesn't exist forever after).

I'm not a fan of punishing a son for his father's actions, but I think it's fair to take into account a man's family when deciding about him. Nobody develops in isolation.

Of course he could be just fine. I'm friends with a the actual person 2nd degree murderer & he's pretty close to okay now. But that's always still gonna be there for his dad, and having a father like that likely affected him in some way. You gotta decide you wanna go for him and any related baggage. Everyone has baggage but not everyone has possibly quite like this.

[Anonymous]

Boyfriend but date? Or date the dad? lol If it's the son though, if you like him, proceed with caution I say. You can't necessarily judge him based on his father. However, if he gives you "signs" of similar behaviors, don't ignore them.

[RenegadeSailor]

I think context matters here.

Did he kill a little old lady?

Or did he kill a child rapist?

These are not the same.

[Asker]

A random peeson

[RenegadeSailor]

Did he walk up and shoot them or something?

[Asker]

Yh craxy

[TrgZila]

lol, this girl is dyslexic or something

[RasberrySlushPuppy]

just because he is a killer doesn't make his son one. However if his son hasn't distanced himself then it's an issue id rather not get myself into

[jasco]

Just cause his dad is bad doesn't make him bad however never throw your safety out the window in short do what you feel will keep you safe

[ewok737]

I think I would quietly disappear from his life !!!

[Asker]

Whyyy

[ewok737]

This is always going to be a topic of discussion in his family, it won't disappear.

[TacosRAwesome]

Research the history of the case and your boyfriend's history.

[JesseJayNeak]

The sins of the father don't represent the character of the son. Don't be so superficial

[HawkPerception]

Are you dating him or his dad?

[Den1971]

Like father like son stay away from that shit

[Better_off_here]

i would say that is a good idea.

[Sethander_Wald]

Are you dating him, or his dad?

[Wise4myage]

Proceed cautiously.

[Asker]

What

[Wise4myage]

Don't judge him by the actions of his father.

[Kevhanma]

The dad?