My boyfriend started to use my father as a weapon?

[Anonymous]

Hr realized that I am a dad's girl and whatever my dad is saying I just say yes and I never argue with my father even if I don't agree with him I do what he wants.

And my boyfriend started realizing it and he started to use my dad as a weapon to our relationship. He actually told my father that I argue with him about wearing a mini skirt!!

When I told him to stop doing it he said that he is tired to argue with me on every little detail , and in the beginning he was embarrassed from my father but this method looks more efficient, Because my father understand his reasoning more than me...

[nitsuj86]

I would say that your boyfriend shouldn't have to go through your Father in order for you to listen to him. Why is the same thing ok for your dad to say?

I get that you might have more respect and love for your dad, but if you see a future with this boyfriend at all. Then you better start listening to what he is asking you to do, unless you want him to find another woman that will.

That shit gets old really fast, and I know if I had to do what he was doing, I would have just broken up with you and let some other guy deal with the problem.

[devilish-cutie]

What is the queation?