Am I unattractive if I've never had a girl say she is attracted to me?

[phill5158]

[Blackcupcake]

Nope not necessarily. I don’t go around telling guys I’m attracted to them… unless it’s someone extra extra extra special who stands out and catches my attention, cause that almost never happens hahaha

[phill5158]

Yeah that is true, I suppose the same really goes for myself I never really go around telling girls I'm attracted to them. The only time I do is online over text.

[Blackcupcake]

lol yep

[tatianamay]

Small tip: Girls complimenting guys is like rare. I don't really compliment guys much, and I'd never really admit that I'm attracted to him before we start dating, so you're good. Don't worry!

[phill5158]

Of course I never really thought of that so when you put it that way I probably have been attractive to some people but just haven't realised it potentially.

[tatianamay]

guys give out compliments a lot, but girls? not really. And also, beauty is subjective. Some women may find you attractive, but may not admit it, or make the first move because they just don't want to seem "too interested" or maybe they just fear rejection. All I'm saying is, don't overthink this, you're good. Girls just don't give out compliments often, but when we do, we mean it wholeheartedly

[phill5158]

Thank you, you are right it is so true about beauty being subjective. I don't compliment people face to face either exactly for what you said for a fear of rejection. I have received compliments over text from girls but not in person, I guess because it's so much easier online.

[tatianamay]

Exactly

[Vikkrram]

Maybe or maybe not but this goes so true in mine case. I have even told by some females. Not in a very bad way but in a very polite way.

[phill5158]

Yeah I guess so

[Vikkrram]

Hey don't judge yourself... On my basis... We both are different You must be a handsome man. Don't degarade yourself

[phill5158]

Yeah I'll try not to

[Vikkrram]

That's like a Man... Go ahead man don't look back, there are lot waiting for you... Don't get depressed.

[phill5158]

Yeah hopefully one day

[Vikkrram]

Yes man we shall overcome someday...

[altgirl14]

Umm I doubt it unless you asked in like a rating chat or something.. Otherwise I'd never mention it to anyone in person or something like that haha

[phill5158]

Yeah that is true, I guess it would be rare. Maybe I just haven't noticed anyone being attracted to me.

[Anonymous]

Not true

[phill5158]

I just feel I never have any luck, I try to believe in myself but it's hard when I've hardly had anyone be attracted to me