If I have never been approached by guys does that mean I am not attractive enough or even ugly?

[Hideous]

Hi, I'm 21 years old and the question above has been on my mind a lot recently. It's true that I never go to parties or discos because I am very shy mainly due to my hang-ups but women get approached in all kinds of settings or am I wrong? Is it maybe because of my height? I am pretty tall (6´03). Or is it because I never go out?

[ohsheeT]

Well you only have 2 Questions on here. .

But I can tell through your words you're very beautiful person you're very smart intelligent wise you have a beautiful heart you're kind and you're a good person.

There will be a moment in time when it will be all yours and the right person will walk into your life don't be in a rush it will happen.

We all go through this wanting wondering dreaming fantasizing about that day some of us pushed that moment faster than it was meant to happen but your time will come

[Hideous]

Thank you

[godfatherfan]

In todays environment, women get all snippy if a guy approaches them in public. But for some reason, if they approach you at a bar, that is ok. I don't understand it. I know I am older, but I would never just walk up to a woman and ask her out. Partly because I am horrible at judging ages. But more because of the shitty attitude women have.
that sucks because I am stuck using online dating apps. I work from home, up until 2 weeks ago, I have been on midnights. I am not a religious person. I have no way to meet women at all other then online. And online dating sucks. The women on there are horrible. I don't blame them as there are so many pig men out there that bombard them with inappropriate messages. But that leaves us good guys getting ignored. The whole process sucks.

[Hideous]

Thank you

[Chelsdope0]

At 21, worry about yourself and traveling and career. The more you go out and have fun … you will find someone.


I let my early 20s go by because I was focused on guys not liking me.. and I get it.. you want someone to like you and take you on dates…


I wish I learned to like myself more.. at that age…


Worry about discovering yourself.

[Chelsdope0]

If you work on that now you won’t have such a hard time later on.

[Hideous]

Thank you

[BadApple69]

I don’t know what you look like but I know even ugly girls get hit on.
So I don’t think it’s your looks. I assume you don’t do places where hitting on a girl is acceptable. For example the grocery store… girls have been hit on there but a super small fraction compared to a nightclub or bar.
If you want to be hit on you need to go where that is the norm and not the exception.

[Hideous]

Thank you

[Berethor]

Your height is sure pretty intimidating, how could a girl be so tall? here some statistics. :)

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[Hideous]

Thank you

[zagor]

A lot of guys think a girl taller than them won't be interested. And you say you don't go out because you're shy, but where do you expect guys to approach you? I personally would feel intrusive if I approached a girl at the supermarket or while buying gas.

[gorydetails]

You never go anywhere where guys normally approach girls and then wonder why you're never approached by guys? Is that correct?

[Hideous]

Yeah, kinda...

[gorydetails]

I think you answered your own question.

[handsomelad70]

No, in fact, VERY pretty girls often intimidate guys out of asking them for dates.

[wierdfetishguy]

I can give best opinion after seeing you

[jahaims]

Probably